A Prayer to Gladly Listen to God
By: Victoria Riollano
“Anyone who belongs to God listens gladly to the words of God. But you don’t listen because you don’t belong to God.” - John 8:47
As a mother of seven children, I have learned that listening and listening gladly are two vastly different things.
Whether I’ve instructed my teens to do the dishes or my five-year-old to go to bed without tears, my children rarely delight in my words. Although they have never said it, I am fully aware that my instructions are a hindrance to their ability to do what they feel is best. As a child, I found myself in the same predicament. I remember how irritated I would be when my mother asked me to do something or told me “no” when I asked to do what “everyone else was doing.” While she did her best to guide me, rebellion remained my natural tendency. There were few times I gladly listened. So, these days, as I deal with my own children who aren’t enthusiastic when I give direction, I am reminded that I, too, struggled with this. And if I’m honest, when it comes to my Father in heaven and his instruction, I don’t always delight in His commands as I should.
I still find myself in this battle of knowing what the Lord is saying but not always wanting to do it. Things like gossip, vanity, jealousy, comparison, and ungodly thoughts creep in, and my actions do not always reflect the God whom I serve. Yet, this battle is not new to Christians. The Apostle Paul says it like this in Romans.
“I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do, I do not do. But what I hate, I do” Romans 7:15
The truth is, it would be easy for us to stop there and say, “Well, Paul and other Christians deal with this, so this isn’t a big deal.” Yet, in John 8:47, Jesus speaks to the crowds when He says, “Anyone who belongs to God listens gladly.”
They don’t listen begrudgingly.
They don’t listen only when they feel like it.
They don’t listen to some things but ignore other things.
They listen with eagerness and joy, even when they don’t understand, even when they “feel” like the instruction is difficult.
In other words, as those who follow Christ, we should have a deep longing to listen to God and listen well. Those who belong to the Lord understand that He is a good Father. His instructions are meant to be a guide for good living. Much like the earthly parent who tells their child not to touch the stove or run across the street, God’s instructions are meant to keep us from harm. When He tells us to live a life free from “sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these” it is for our benefit (Galatians 5:19-21).
God is not out to ruin our fun or irritate us like I once thought my mother was trying to do. Instead, His desire is that you live a life that is abundant, wise, and fruitful. Even more so, he knows all these sinful things will lead us to a path of destruction. In His protection, he gives instructions that bring life and keep us from being ensnared by the enemy’s traps. For this reason, rather than seeing God’s Word as a hindrance or an outdated rule book, we can run to His Word with delight. For His commands are ones that will guard us and keep us in all things.
Today, I pray that we can all embrace God’s word gladly and seek to serve Him in all our ways.
I thank for your patience with me. Help me to love your word and your decrees. I gladly receive your instruction as truth and a light to my path. Show me when I am being rebellious and ungrateful. Help me to remember that your words are for my good. I choose to follow you in all things and honor you above my own desires.
You are enough and I trust you.
In Jesus' name, Amen.
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Victoria Riollano is an author, blogger, and speaker. As a mother of seven, military spouse, Psychology professor and minister’s wife, Victoria has learned the art of balancing family and accomplishing God’s ultimate purpose for her life. Recently, Victoria released a parenting book called Warrior Mother: Equipping Your Heart to Fight for Your Family’s Faith. This book empowers mothers to find strength in trusting the Lord with their children. Ultimately, her desire is to empower women to live a life of victory, hope, and love. She believes that with Christ we can live a life that is ALWAYS winning. You can learn more about her ministry at victoryspeaks.org.
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Originally published Friday, 07 October 2022.