"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." Ephesians 4:32
There is no doubt about it, we live in a politically polarized world. The headlines evoke strong, hardline opinions, social media creates space for our most dogmatic selves to emerge, and embracing diversity of thought is a challenge for most of us. The church has grown a reputation for being a dogmatic, close-minded, and politically charged place. This is not at all what God had in mind for his bride. We are to be a safe haven for all people, as we see each other not as enemies but as precious beings all made in the image of our Creator.
Yet, changing this narrative around evangelical Christianity is tough, and it’s up to individuals to learn how to show kindness rather than display rigid intolerance for those who need to experience the love of Christ. It’s important that we ask ourselves Christ-followers, how we are supposed to approach those with views different from our own.
First, we remember why God came down to Earth in the first place. John 3:16-17 says, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.”
This verse is one of the most fundamental scriptures of the Christian faith because it shows God’s unwavering love for all humanity. “World” is used three times in these verses, emphasizing that God came for us all. Whosoever chooses to believe in God is welcomed into God’s great family!
This passage illustrates a key truth for Christians. Human beings come with a wide array of differences, but as Christians, there is one fact that unifies us all: we are all loved by God. The Bible teaches that every person is created with value and purpose, and God wants us all to have a relationship with him.
While we often can become frustrated when others don’t see the world through the same lens we do, that is not God’s view. He sees every person as valuable and loved. When we approach those different from ourselves, we should view them as Christ does. God commands us to love others as he loves us in the Bible. John 13:34 says, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.” Believers are called to a very high standard, which requires us to embody the love of Christ with our words and deeds.
Colossians 3:12 says, “Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” This is what the people of God should be defined by. What a beautiful picture of a people who exude grace and love! This should be what we strive for others to see in us when we approach those who are different from ourselves.
It can be hard to lay down our right to convince, judge, shout, or coerce, but we can trust that showing love is enough because God tells us that he does the rest for us. His convicting, helping, and comforting Spirit brings people into his Kingdom. More than that, God covets the role of bringing justice. When it’s all said and done, only God has the power to judge the hearts of men. We can surrender our right to judge because we know only one is wise enough to do that job for humanity. Romans 2 even reminds us that it’s God’s own kindness that leads us to repentance. We each need and desire grace from God and others in this world. As ambassadors of Christ, kindness is what we should bring to every table we get the chance to sit at.
Let's pray:
Father, as we navigate the divisive culture we are living in, help us to remember the power of your kindness. May those who need you find you through your love embodied in us. Give us the patience to hear our neighbor, no matter how different they may be from ourselves. Let us remember that listening to others is a gift and it’s also not giving up our beliefs; it's just a way to show love and respond with wisdom and grace when the opportunity arises. Open the ears and hearts of those around us to see the church in a new light, a light that shines on your truth, love, grace, and kindness. Thank you for loving us so much that you died for us. Amen.
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Not typing it. Not scrolling past it. Actually writing it out, slowly, in your own hand — because something happens in your brain when you do that. The words land differently. They go deeper. And over time, they become part of that personal library of God's voice that the Holy Spirit can pull from when you need it most. That's what Psalm 119:11 means when it says I have hidden your word in my heart — it's scripture moving into your long-term memory, where it lives and stays even when you haven't opened your Bible in weeks.
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Originally published Friday, 20 June 2025.
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