We Take for Granted the Ability to Connect
This morning I woke with one main goal: to find the scripture that came to my mind while talking to a fellow-warrior mom, on the phone recently. She had been helping me wrestle down an answer as to what I should do regarding wearing my pink and brown camouflage outfit (when to wear it and when to not wear it, but to ensure that I was obedient either way)…. Through God, she led me to 2 Samuel 6 and told me the story of how David danced around in his ephod (underwear) after bringing the arc of the God from the house of Obed-Edom to the City of David with rejoicing. She went on to say that Michal, daughter of Saul watched from a window and despised him in her heart. Essentially, she judged him for all his prancing around and celebrating God in his underwear. She had wickedness in her heart and chose to judge him based on what he was (or wasn’t wearing). But God judges the heart (not outward appearances); therefore, Micah was barren all the days of her life. And David, well, he was willing to “even become more undignified than this, and I will be humiliated in my own eyes” (2 Samuel 6:22). I realize that we must be obedient and willing to make ourselves look like a fool to man for the sake of representing and praising God as He desires us to do, wearing whatever He instructs.
I reflected back upon a time where God told me to wear my Warrior Mom camouflage outfit, and I did, although I didn’t want to do so. I was snubbed and treated rudely; it wasn’t fun, but I knew that I was obedient. Through this experience, God taught me the importance of obeying Him rather than seeking mere man’s (or woman’s) approval. I am thankful for this experience. Still in prayer about this, God led me to 1 Corinthians 9:19, “Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I became like a Jew to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (thought I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings.”
My friend continued to minister to me and she told me about a speaker who came from a different region and was dressed-up about 10 notches above the audience. (A fellow speaking-friend recently told me that I should be dressed 1 notch above my audience.) My friend expanded to tell me that because of the stumbling-block of being dressed 10 notches above the audience, this particular speaker wasn’t really “heard” by her audience until about half-way through the 2nd day’s message. It was only after the speaker revealed some of her weaknesses, that she was “accepted” and/or “heard” by the audience. I see how her clothing was a stumbling block or more so a deterrent to her message, which was not a self-serving message about herself or her product; it was the important message of the hope and Gospel of Christ! (and yet, they still did not “hear” her until she became a weak human, rather than a dressed up lady in the eyes of the audience. And on the contrary, let us consider that she was wearing exactly what God told her to wear that day, all dressed up and looking nice as an example, as a source of encouragement for women in the audience to do the same for themselves to the best of their ability.
I consider it interesting and human nature that no matter whether the woman is all dressed up or not dressed up enough, in the opinion of that particular audience, people (and women in very unique ways to women) really do tend to size each other up quite a bit. I sit here this morning, drinking my coffee, very humbled, sipping on the realization that we so often take for granted our ability to connect with others. It is my prayer that whatever we wear, or don’t wear, that we clothe ourselves in “whatever” God would clothe us in, or not in – that our hearts would be willing to dress a notch up, to dress exactly as our audience, or dress a notch down, in order that the Gospel of Christ would be preached and heard and that we in our ignorant, imperfect humanness would not be a stumbling block to those around us.
Warrior Moms Unite!™
The Warrior Mom Ministry was founded by Kristina Seymour, author of The Warrior Mom Handbook – Equipping Women through the Word, a Bible study for moms who desire to live by faith in the midst of their everyday lives. Kristina has learned that moms can't survive on caffeine and animal crackers alone; women in the Word and in community are united and able to stand firm. To learn more about The Warrior Mom Handbook, the Warrior Mom Ministry, and to sign up for daily encouragement, visit, www.warriormoms.net.
Originally published Tuesday, 11 November 2014.