Girlfriends in God - Mar. 6, 2008


March 6, 2008

Love Covers All

Mary Southerland


Today’s truth:

But anyone who does not love does not know God--for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love. It is not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. 1 John 4: 8-10


Friend to Friend

When I was a little girl, my mother collected S&H green trading stamps. She collected them while I licked and pasted them in saving books. For months, she would hoard the small, green stamps until she had enough to trade for something she needed. It was always something we needed until that Saturday in December. “Get the green stamp books. We are going to town!” Mama said to me, a strange excitement in her voice. I assumed that we were going to buy a Christmas present for someone in our family since I knew Mama never bought anything for herself at the Green Stamp Redemption Center. To do so would have been a luxury she rarely allowed. Stamps in hand, off we went to find a treasure.


When we reached the redemption center Mama marched straight in, past the appliances, toys, hairdryers and vacuums, heading straight for the linens department. She did not look around or hesitate until she abruptly stopped, a smile spreading across her face. “It’s still here!” she whispered in relief. I remember thinking that whatever she had spotted must be very special to warrant such determination and such joy. When I realized that the blue treasure she clutched in her hands was just a tablecloth I simply did not understand. There were so many other beautiful things in the store and we had been saving those green stamps for months. And she was going to buy a tablecloth? What was so special about an ordinary tablecloth? I was confused – until we got home.


My family was poor – in material things – and we lived in what most people would refer to as a “shack”. My mother was an amazing woman who somehow managed to raise three children who never thought of themselves as deprived. Many happy times and scrumptious meals were enjoyed around our old, scratched, worn and downright ugly dining room table. That dilapidated table made the entire room ugly – until the day Mama bought the blue tablecloth. As she spread her treasure across that shabby table, an amazing thing happened. Not only did the table look beautiful, the whole room looked better!


Love is like that, its mere presence transforms the ugliness of life into a beautiful trophy of grace. Love covers the scars of sin. Love heals wounds and eases the pain of the past. We all need to be loved and we all need to love.


Jesus was and is the living illustration and certain fulfillment of His Father’s love. The love of God is unconditional, unfailing and will stubbornly pursue us no matter where we go, what we do or don’t do. God’s love satisfies the deepest longings of our soul and enables us to love ourselves and others.


Friend, across your defeats spread the hope of a tiny baby lying in a manger! Across your pain, spread the unconditional love poured out on a cruel cross! Across your doubts and fears, spread the promise of an empty tomb! The love of God covers all and changes everything.


Celebrate Him! Celebrate His love!


Let’s pray

God, I need Your love. My life is filled with scars and wounds that can be healed by Your love alone. I celebrate the love You so freely offer. I accept the gift of Your love and thank You for its transforming power in my heart. I love You, Father, and celebrate Your presence and power in my life. In Jesus’ name, Amen.


Now it’s your turn

What past experiences in your life need the covering of God’s healing love? Right now, make the decision to face and deal with these experiences in God’s timing and God’s way.


  • Why do we bury hurt and pain?
  • With what have you tried to “cover” the painful parts of your life?

Did it work? Why? Why not?

  • What does it really mean to allow God’s love to cover the sin and pain in your life?
  • What is the first step or action that you need to take in the process of allowing God to heal the broken places?
  • How do you think this decision will affect your daily life?


More from the girls

Getting past our past is a crucial step toward living a victorious life. God cannot fill hearts and hands that still clutch the pain of the past. Let go! Walk straight ahead in the love and transforming power of God. And when the storms come…He will hold your hand. One of my favorite messages to share is “Strength for the Storm”. You can hear it when you purchase my CD, Strength for the Storm.




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Originally published Thursday, 06 March 2008.