Failure is Not Final - Girlfriends in God - April 20, 2018

April 20, 2018
Failure is Not Final
Sharon Jaynes

 Today’s Truth

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9 NIV).

Friend to Friend

Three days after Jesus breathed His last earthly breath, the disciples received the news of the empty tomb from the women who had gone to visit the grave. Mark tells us an angel told the women to go and “tell his disciples and Peter” that Jesus was alive (Mark 16:7).

I wonder why the angel singled out Peter. Could it be that God knew Peter would need an extra measure of grace and assurance because of his failure?

Can you imagine how Peter’s heart raced as his feet ran to the empty tomb? I wonder what he was thinking as he kicked up the dust. Would he be ashamed to face Jesus after denying that he even knew Him? Would he be grateful for another chance? Would Jesus even want to see him?

Peter did encounter Jesus after His resurrection. We don’t know how many times they were together or when the conversations took place, but God does allow us to witness how Jesus embraced and restored this broken “rock.”

After Jesus had appeared to the disciples and to many others, life seemed to go back to normal. Peter and John returned to what they had always done—fishing.

One morning, as the sun rose over the horizon, their nets remained empty.

A man called from the shore,

“Friends, haven’t you any fish?”

“No,” they answered.

He said, “Throw your net on the other side of the boat and you will find some” (John 21:5-7).

As the nets began to fill, John remembered a similar incident that occurred three years earlier, and he realized the man on the shore was Jesus.

Peter jumped into the water and swam to shore while the others hauled in the miraculous catch. After dinner, Jesus pulled Peter aside and asked him,

“Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?”

“Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.”

Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.”

Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”

He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.”

Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.”

The third time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?”

Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, “Do you love me?” He said, “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.”

Jesus said, “Feed my sheep” (John 21:15-17).

Jesus knew Peter would fail him, and yet his failure wasn’t fatal. Jesus invited Peter to repentance and restoration. “I believe in you, Peter,” He seemed to say. “Now get back to being a fisher of men rather than a fisher of fish.”

A friend of mine carried the guilt of her past abortions around with her for years. Finally she received God’s forgiveness. “I was like Peter,” she explained. “I denied Jesus each time I walked through the door of that abortion clinic. But He has pulled me aside and asked, ‘June, do you love Me?’ And I have answered as Peter, ‘Yes, Lord, You know that I love You.’

“I had felt my failure was too grave, that I was too far gone for God to forgive me,” June explained, “but He showed me no place is so far away from His grace that He cannot save. My sin is never greater than God’s grace.”

I don’t know what sins you’ve committed in the past…but God does. He is ready and willing to forgive you of every thing you’ve ever done. Failure is not final. Failure is not fatal. All you have to do is ask.

Let’s Pray

Heavenly Father, I come to You today confessing my sin of ___________. I ask that You forgive me for _______________. Thank You for forgiving me, just as Your Word promised. Thank You for wiping my slate clean with the cloth of grace.

In Jesus’ Name,


Now It’s Your Turn

Have you asked God to forgive you of your past sin?

What does the Bible say that God does in response? (1 John 1:9; Isaiah 1:18; Psalm 103:12)

More from the Girlfriends

Today’s devotion was taken from Sharon’s new release, Enough: Silencing the Lies that Steal Your Confidence. This book is a revised and expanded version of I’m Not Good Enough, with 50% new material.

Do the voices in your head tell you that you are not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough, or just not enough, period? If so, it’s time to stop listening to the lies that sabotage your confidence and start embracing the truth of your true identity in Christ. It’s time to overcome the lies of the enemy with the promises of God.

Enough exposes the lies that keep you bogged down in guilt, shame, and insecurity. By recognizing the lies, rejecting the lies, and replacing the lies with truth, you’ll be able to:

- silence the voice inside that whispers you’re not good enough
- accept God’s grace and no longer allow past failures to define you or confine you
- be preloaded with the truth to fight insecurities
- walk in the surefootedness confidence of God’s unconditional love

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Originally published Friday, 20 April 2018.