How to Rise Above Your Circumstances

Emmanuel Abimbola

Emmanuel Abimbola

Contributing Writer
Published Feb 17, 2023
How to Rise Above Your Circumstances

It's important to remember that God is always with us and can work in our lives in ways we cannot imagine.

A powerful and reassuring verse to bank on when going through unpleasant circumstances is Isaiah 41:10: "Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness." 

We are called as Christians to rise above our circumstances and trust God's plan for our lives. This can be a difficult effort, especially when dealing with terrible conditions such as financial difficulties, relationship troubles, or health challenges. 

However, with confidence in God's words and tenacity, it is possible to overcome these obstacles and find true serenity and fulfillment. James 1:2-4 says, "My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.”

Recognizing and acknowledging our circumstances is one of the first steps toward overcoming them. This means taking note of our feelings and situations and finding any restricting ideas or thought patterns that might prevent us from moving forward.

Once we understand our current circumstances, we can turn to God for guidance and strength.

Prayer and Bible study are essential tools for seeking guidance and strength from God. Psalm 34:17-18 reminds us: "The righteous cry, and the Lord heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles. The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit." By praying for wisdom and discernment, we open ourselves up to receive God's guidance and direction for our lives. Studying the Bible can also provide encouragement and direction, as well as a deeper understanding of God's character and promises. 

Cultivating a relationship with God through worship and meditation can help us feel more connected to Him and trust His plans.

Another important aspect of rising above our circumstances is cultivating a positive mindset. This can be done by practicing gratitude, focusing on the good in our lives, speaking positive affirmations, and surrounding ourselves with supportive people. 

Trusting that God has a plan for our lives and that everything will work out for our good is crucial to maintaining a positive attitude and perspective.

It's important to remember that rising above our circumstances as Christians is not always easy and may take time and perseverance. However, with faith, determination, and a positive attitude, we can overcome obstacles and experience true peace and fulfillment. 

By turning to God for guidance and strength, taking action to change our circumstances, and cultivating a positive mindset, we can rise above them and live the successful life God intended for us. 

"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." Romans 8:28 

Acknowledge Your Current Circumstances

We must first recognize and accept our current circumstances to go past them. Spend some time thinking about your present circumstances. Take into account all the facets of your life, including your career, relationships, health, and income. Write down your opinions and sentiments regarding each of these topics, as well as any particular obstacles or hurdles you may be experiencing.

Next, consider your feelings. How do you feel about the situation as it is right now? Feeling overburdened, helpless, or stuck? Do you have any unfavorable ideas or opinions driving this feeling? Do you, for instance, think God has abandoned you or that you will never be able to improve your current circumstance?

By identifying and accepting our existing situation, we can pinpoint any obstacles preventing us from moving forward. Once we have a thorough understanding of the situation, we can take the necessary steps to resolve it.

Turn to God for Guidance and Strength

Matthew 11:28-30 says, "Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavily laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." 

Another crucial step for a Christian to overcome their situation is to turn to God for direction and strength. This can be accomplished by praying, reading the Bible, and developing a close relationship with God.

Prayer is a powerful instrument for asking God for wisdom and fortitude. It enables us to express our needs, thoughts, and feelings and to interact with Him. By praying, we invite God to give us his wisdom and direction for our lives. It's crucial to approach prayer with humility and an open heart.

The Bible is filled with encouragement, direction, and promises from God, like 2 Corinthians 12:9-10: "And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong." It can be helpful to focus on specific verses or passages that speak to the challenges or difficulties you may be facing.

A close relationship with God also helps you rise above your circumstances. It can be done through worship. Praising and honoring God helps us focus on Him and remember His goodness and faithfulness. 

It's important to remember that God is always with us and can work in our lives in ways we cannot imagine. Again, Isaiah 41:10 says, "Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." As we trust in Him and seek His guidance and strength, He will empower us to overcome any obstacle and experience true peace and fulfillment in our lives.

Take Action to Change Your Circumstances

Taking the necessary action to change your circumstances is another step in rising above them as a Christian. 

You need to identify specific steps that you can take to improve your situation. This may include seeking a new job, mending a damaged relationship, or getting help for a mental or physical health issue. This may involve setting specific goals and making a plan to achieve them. 

For example, if you are struggling financially, you may set a goal to find a better-paying job or to start a side business. If you are dealing with a difficult relationship, you may set a goal to work on communication and forgiveness or seek counseling for a relationship issue. It's essential to break down your goals into smaller, manageable steps and set a timeline for achieving them.

As you take action to change your circumstances, it's important to remember that God is with you and will help you. He will give you the wisdom, strength, and courage you need to overcome any obstacle. 

You must also be patient with yourself, as change can take time. Remember that taking action doesn't mean you will have instant results, but it's a step toward progress. Sometimes progress may be slow, but as long as you're moving forward, you're making progress. 

Some steps may not work, and that's okay. It's an opportunity to learn and adjust your plan. Keep in mind that taking action doesn't mean that you're alone. God is always with you and will guide you through the process.

Cultivate a Positive Mindset

Cultivating a positive mindset is another step in rising above your circumstances as a Christian. Joshua 1:9 says, "Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest." 

A positive mindset can help you see the good in your life, trust God's plan for you, and have the confidence and courage to overcome any obstacle.

One way to cultivate a positive mindset is to practice gratitude. Be focused on the good things in your life and be thankful for them. This will help you shift your focus away from the negative aspects of your circumstances and see and appreciate the blessings already in your life.

Another way to cultivate a positive mindset is to speak positive affirmations. Positive affirmations are statements you repeat to yourself to change your thoughts and beliefs. 

They can help you overcome negative thoughts and limiting beliefs and focus on the positive. Examples of positive affirmations include: "I am capable and worthy," "I trust in God's plan for my life," and "I am strong and resilient."

It's also important to surround yourself with supportive people. Being around positive and encouraging people can help to lift your spirits and give you the support you need to overcome your circumstances. Seek out friends or members of your family who are supportive, or consider joining a support group.

Finally, trust that God has a plan for your life and that everything will work out for your good. This will help you have faith and see that there is a bigger picture. Trusting in God's plan will help you have peace and not be consumed by the current circumstances.

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Emmanuel Abimbola headshotEmmanuel Abimbola is a creative freelance writer, blogger, and web designer. He is a devout Christian with an uncompromising faith who hails from Ondo State in Nigeria, West Africa. As a lover of kids, Emmanuel runs a small elementary school in Arigidi, Nigeria.