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In high school, I turned down a good job I'm pretty sure I would have been hired for because they said they would require me to work an occasional Sunday. I was a Christian, and Christians don't work on Sundays. Even occasionally. Oh, how times have changed. By the time I was in college, I was regularly working Sundays. Pretty much every week, in fact. And while I only worked Sunday evenings--not mornings so I could still go to church--the idea of setting Sundays apart as a day of rest quickly went out the window. Well, now, I'm trying to change that. As a busy work-at-home mom of three little ones, setting aside an entire day for rest and worship is trickier than ever, but it's also more important than ever. Not only because God deserves it, but also because I need it! And you do too.
Is Keeping the Sabbath Still Necessary?
While honoring the Sabbath is listed as one of the 10 commandments, you may be surprised to find that the New Testament says relatively little about the practice. In Acts, we do find the early church meeting together regularly to break bread and take a collection. But then Colossians 2:16 says not to let others judge you based on whether or not you keep the Sabbath and Mark 2:27 says the Sabbath was made for man, not man for the Sabbath. (This post on the Sabbath by Livingwaters.com goes into greater detail if you're interested in checking it out.) Personally, I'm not sure if keeping a day of rest is absolutely REQUIRED, but I do think it's vitally important! Like eating fruits and vegetables. Sure, you probably could live without eating any ever, but you probably shouldn't. Anyways... If you'd like to create a more worshipful Sunday (or Saturday or whenever), here are six tips to help you do just that.
Six Powerful Ways to Create a More Worshipful Sunday
1. Block Off Your Calendar
What do you usually do on Sundays? If it doesn't actively encourage you to be more Christ-like, cancel it. Yes, we are called to worship God in everything we do, but Sundays aren't meant to be just another day; they are a day we should set apart. Does this mean you can't do ANYTHING on Sundays? No. It's perfectly alright to fill your Sundays with activities that allow you to rest and worship. But don't try to just fit God in the cracks of your everyday life. Start with a blank slate and then fit in only the activities that truly bring you closer to Him.
2. Prepare in Advance
Creating a more worshipful Sunday is absolutely nothing like running a marathon, except in this: If you want it to go well, you need to prepare in advance. Sure, you could just randomly wake up one morning and decide to take it easy. But if having a truly worshipful Sunday were that easy, you would have done it already, a long time ago. So prepare.
3. Eliminate Common Distractions
Next, figure out what obstacles are standing in the way of you having a truly worshipful Sunday and eliminate them. You may not be able to anticipate them all in advance, but as you start being intentional about your Sundays, notice which activities, attitudes and distractions frequently pop up and get in your way.
4. Post Reminders Around Your Home
Honestly, sometimes the hardest part of setting a day aside for God is simply remembering to keep our focus on Him all day instead of getting distracted by all of the small things we find in and around our homes (like work, laundry, and the same old television shows). One great way to keep your focus on God is to place visible reminders around your home in places where you will see them regularly. This could be anything from Scriptures verses to Christian jewelry to Bibles and more.
5. Find Accountability
Even with the best of intentions, it's all too easy to fall off track and resort back to old habits. Thankfully, having some form of accountability can help. Having a specific accountability partner is your best bet, but if you aren't comfortable with that or don't know anyone, it isn't your only option. You can also download a goal tracking app or a free printable goal-tracking calendar to keep yourself accountable for how you're doing.
6. Give Yourself Grace
Lastly, give yourself grace. While it's certainly commendable to want to make every Sunday as worshipful as possible, the fact is that you ARE going to fail sometimes. Your kids are going to make you late to church, you're going to wake up grouchy sometimes, and you are going to forget things that HAVE to be done at the last minute. You're only human, and being perfect is God's job, not yours. Yes, God does expect us to aim for perfection, but don't get legalistic with it. Don't fall into the trap of approaching Sunday worship as just another check box to cross off or another routine to go through, without stopping to take the time to actually worship from your heart, or you'll miss the entire point altogether. God doesn't want your day planner; He wants your heart. And if you do a poor job one week--or if you've done a poor job for weeks on end--you can always get back on track next week, with His help.
Do you regularly set aside Sundays (or Saturdays) as a day of rest and worship? If not, what is standing in your way? If so, what tips do you have for those of us who are still struggling?
This article originally appeared at Equipping Godly Women. Used with permission.
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A devoted Christian, wife and mother, Brittany Ann loves helping other women grow in these roles as well. When she isn’t busy taking care of her growing family, you can find her at Equipping Godly Women, where she regularly shares tips, tricks and encouragement to help you be the amazing woman God created you to be. Brittany also has a thriving online community on Facebook as well.