Shades of Regret
- 2015 Feb 20
When you are a mother of two small children, you spend a lot of time in public restrooms. It was my fourth trip to a public restroom in the last two hours, and I didn't want to make another trip once our movie started.While waiting on my daughter to come out of the stall, an older woman was washing her hands and offered,
I just watched 50 Shades of Grey. I didn't' need that. My curiosity got the better of me.
She shakes her head and wrings her hands with soap. I nod and wonder what on earth I can tell this woman. What hope should I offer in a few seconds in the bathroom? It seemed she simply wanted to confess to me. She continued as I listened and nodded,
You know the man is just messed up. Save your eight dollars and go get Chinese instead.
She shook her head, flung up her hand, and walked out the door while I meagerly offered a few remarks. This woman was clearly disturbed by the sadomasochistic movie that is sweeping the nation and was first within the grasp of teens, moms, and people of all ages at major chains such as Walmart, Target, and all bookstores and e-readers since 2011. It is reported to have sold 100 million copies in 52 languages worldwide.
An estimated 900 teens in Orlando (see here) stormed a movie theater in attempts to watch the rated R movie earlier this week.
The Christian community has not remained silent on this topic. Consider Dannah Gresh's book, Pulling Back the Shades. (Read about it here.) Or, this thought provoking article by Dr. Russell Moore, Women Stop Submitting to Men? (click here). However, in the case that you have missed these, I want to warn you: flee the temptation to see what all the hype is about!
Men and women of the Church, do not use this as an opportunity to research pop culture. Consider this a call to be in the world and not of it. Protect your minds and relationships from this obvious working of evil. Many times we can fall into a spiritual pit of despair and sin we were not seeking, but consider this your warning that the pit is within your vision and the choice to descend is up to you.
Sex is so perverted in our fallen state post garden-- post forbidden fruit. The good gift that God created from the time He introduced Adam and Eve has been polluted by the sins of this world. We worship the created act of sex above the Creator and pervert the original gift of sex within marriage. 50 Shades of Grey is another proof of this fact.
Don't let curiosity rob you of your peace of mind and spirit. Heed the lesson from the woman I met, and warn your friends likewise.
Fight the good fight of faith and finish the race having won the battle over curiosities that God's Word blatantly speaks over as evil and destructive.
Did I miss an opportunity to share Christ with this woman? Perhaps. I pray that she will seek out, or already knows the truth for herself. However, I didn't miss an opportunity to pray for her. Further, I don't think that it was any accident that I was in the right place at the right time to hear her confession and tell her story to you. I can see her distraught look even now. I pray that the shades of regret will not be mirrored on your face.