Asheritah Ciuciu is the author of Unwrapping the Names of Jesus and Comfort Food: Overcoming Food Addiction with the Word of God. Asheritah grew up in Romania as a missionary kid and then studied English and Women's Ministry at Cedarville University in Ohio. Her passion is helping women find joy in Jesus through a deeper walk with God, and she shares vulnerably from her own life experiences on OneThingAlone.com. She is married to Flaviu, a web programmer and artist, and together they raise their spunky daughter in northeast Ohio.
If you're looking for ways to ignite passion in your marriage, you've come to the right place.
When Did Sex Become Dirty?
I've seen a disturbing trend recently. Maybe you've seen it too.
On the big screen and on our kindles, we're being sold the lie that in order to have passionate love in marriage, we need to do what hasn't been done before. We're told that erotica, pornography, and/or BDSM will banish our low libido.
Nothing could be further from the Truth.
God created sex. It was His idea. And He made it G-O-O-O-O-D.
At this point, you may be thinking, "Why are you writing about sex? I thought this blog was to encourage us in our walk with Jesus! What's sex got to do with it?!"
A lot, actually.
Whether you're single or married, your sexuality is an integral part of who God created you to be. It's not meant to be separated from your spirituality; in fact, it's created to be an expression of it.
[tweetthis]Whether you're single or married, your sexuality is an integral part of who God created you to be.[/tweetthis]
I believe this is such an important topic, that I've joined the Pulling Back the Shades team with Dr. Juli Slattery and Dannah Gresh to spread the Truth about our sexuality. We've left this topic to the world long enough. It's time we stepped up to the microphone and proclaimed that sex was God's idea in the first place. He made it good AND He wants us to protect it in order to fully enjoy it.
[tweetthis]It's time we proclaimed that sex was God's idea in the first place. #pullingbacktheshades #pureromance[/tweetthis]
There's way more goodness in Juli and Dannah's book that I won't get into in today's post. But enter to win a copy of their book at the end of this post!
It was God's idea to create men and women to thrill in their spouse, and we see a beautiful picture of that in Song of Solomon. The act of intimacy can be the glue that brings a husband and wife closer together in ways that mirror how Jesus Christ and His Bride will one day be united in marriage as well (see Ephesians 5:31-33).
So if you've hit a rut, if you're thinking, "I've got to figure this out. My ceiling just isn't that interesting..." then keep reading, friend! I've got lots of ideas and resources waiting for you--and make sure you check out the links!
28 Ways to Ignite Passion in Your Marriage
Sexual intimacy was created by God and it's a beautiful thing. Let's reclaim passion in our marriages, one bedroom at a time.
[tweetthis]Reclaim passion in your marriage... here are 28 ideas to get you started![/tweetthis]
Consider this a starting point. I'd love to hear what other ideas you come up with!
An Exciting Giveaway!
As I mentioned above, I'm so grateful to be part of the #pullingbacktheshades team and spread the word about how God created our sexuality to honor Him. The book team sent me a copy of the book to read and prepare, and they also sent me a copy to give away to you. Yay!
Simply enter below for your chance to win an eBook copy of Juli and Dannah's book Pulling Back the Shades.
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