When You Feel Behind Everyone Else | Your Nightly Prayer

Shea Smith

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Published Aug 10, 2026

There is a particular kind of ache that comes when someone else’s life begins to resemble the one you had hoped for.

The announcement arrives.

The promotion happens.

The relationship begins.

The opportunity opens.

And even when you genuinely want to celebrate with them, something inside you quietly asks:

Why not me?

Comparison can make waiting feel like failure.

Instead of seeing another person’s blessing as evidence of God’s goodness, we begin treating it as evidence that we have fallen behind.

But God does not write our stories according to a shared timeline.

Ecclesiastes reminds us that there is a season for everything.

Habakkuk reminds us that there is an appointed time.

Your life is not late simply because it looks different from someone else’s.

“For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.”

— Habakkuk 2:3

Shea SmithWhen Shea is not chopping tiny food up for her three tiny humans, or pitching Chipotle to her high school sweetheart-turned-husband, you can find her doing the following: Feeding her sourdough starter (aka 4th child) and baking bread. Putting her Master of Divinity to work by furiously typing about Jesus during naptimes. Posting encouragement and #momlife reels on Instagram. Conquering virtual hills on her Peloton. Renovating "the dream home" with her husband. Co-hosting her church's podcast. Homeschooling the littles. Leading a Barre class. Preaching, teaching, and storytelling. And finally, pretending she will keep her indoor plants alive...this time! You can connect with Shea on Instagram at @SheaHsmith, visit her website at www.sheahsmith.com, and keep up with her posts by signing up here

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