Learning to Love the Life You Have | Your Nightly Prayer

Alisha Headley

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Updated Oct 20, 2025


As our evening prayer and devotional remind us, in our culture of striving and scrolling, it’s easy to believe happiness comes only with the “next best thing.” Social media highlights often amplify our discontent, drawing our focus to what we lack rather than what we have. That’s why Paul’s words in Philippians 4 are so powerful. He didn’t write them from a place of ease or abundance, but from prison. His chains remind us that contentment isn’t based on circumstances—it’s a matter of perspective. Comparison may whisper, “You’re behind, you’re forgotten, you’ll only be happy if life looks like theirs.” But God’s truth counters with something better: “Even if this season looks different from what you dreamed, I am still working. Even if you’re still waiting, your life is still sacred and good.” Contentment grows slowly, often through tears, especially when life involves loss or waiting. But joy isn’t only found in what we gain; it’s also discovered in how God carries us through what we’ve lost. Tonight, instead of longing for the next season, choose to notice the blessings of right now. There is goodness here. Tonight’s Scripture: Philippians 4:11b “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” 

Alisha Headley is a writer + speaker who has a desire to meet the everyday woman in her everyday life with biblical truth. Stepping into her true calling, she left the corporate world behind as a former-financial VP to love on her family as a stay-at-home wifey + dog mama, while also being able to pursue her passion as a writer. Healing from a chapter of life consumed with lies she once believed about herself, she is inspired to point women to Christ to experience the freedom + power to overcome those lies with the truth written in God’s word. In her free time, Alisha enjoys road trips around the country, working out so she can eat her favorite foods, and creatively styling her outfits with a craft for fashion. Alisha is a proud wifey and dog mama living in Scottsdale, Arizona.

You can follow her blog by visiting her website alishaheadley.com or connect with her on facebook + instagram.

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