Grace for Summer Friendships | Your Nightly Prayer

Chelsey DeMatteis

Living with Less Podcast
Published Jul 16, 2026

Some of the deepest disappointments don't come from conflict—they come from silence.

A friend who once called every week suddenly becomes busy. Text messages slow down. Life gets full. Before long, we begin wondering if we've been forgotten.

But often, the truth is much simpler.

Life changes.

Children grow.
Jobs become demanding.
Parents need care.
Schedules shift.

None of these necessarily mean love has disappeared.

Romans 14 reminds believers to pursue peace and mutual encouragement. That pursuit often begins by choosing grace over assumptions. Just as Paul continued loving fellow believers despite long separations and difficult circumstances, we too can believe the best about those we love.

Healthy friendships aren't measured by constant communication but by hearts committed to Christ-like love.

Tonight is an opportunity to release resentment, embrace compassion, and trust God with every relationship.

"So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding."
— Romans 14:19

Chelsey is the voice behind the Living with Less Podcast and author of the 52-week devotional More of Him, Less of Me: Living a Christ-centered Life in a Me-centered World. She writes devotions for Lifeway Women's Journey Magazine, Crosswalk.com, and iBelieve.com. She also writes Bible reading plans for the YouVersion Bible App. Chelsey lives in Ohio with her husband and two children. You can connect with her on Instagram @chelseydematteis and at her website ChelseyDeMatteis.com.

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