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3 Ways to Raise a Spiritually Balanced Child

Emmanuel Abimbola

Emmanuel Abimbola

Contributing Writer
Published Mar 18, 2024
3 Ways to Raise a Spiritually Balanced Child

To reinforce the importance of raising a spiritually balanced child, let's embrace our role as spiritual guides and prioritize our children's spiritual well-being alongside their physical and academic development.

Fellow parents, here we are on this beautiful journey of raising little humans into compassionate, wise, and spiritually grounded individuals! I'm so glad we're having this conversation because it's a topic that is close to my heart as a Christian and a parent.

Now, let's dive into the role of spirituality in shaping a child's character, values, and overall well-being. Just like the Psalmist in Psalm 119:9, we want our children to "make [their] heart pure in [their] desire to fear the Lord." Spirituality isn't just about going to church on Sundays; it's about instilling Christly principles and beliefs in our children's upbringing.

Think about it this way: when we teach our children about God's love, forgiveness, and grace, we're not only giving them a set of beliefs, but we're also providing them with a framework for understanding the world and their place in it. This framework helps them develop a strong sense of self-worth, empathy, and compassion for others.

Take, for example, the story of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15:11-32. This parable teaches us about the importance of forgiveness and the unconditional love of a father. When we share this story with our children, we're not only teaching them about forgiveness, but we're also modeling the kind of love and acceptance we want them to extend to others.

Similarly, the story of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:25-37 teaches us about the importance of compassion and empathy. When we share this story with our children, we're not only teaching them about the importance of helping others, but we're also modeling the kind of behavior we want them to emulate.

As Christian parents, it's our responsibility to raise children who are not only academically successful but also spiritually balanced. We want our children to grow up to be kind, empathetic, and compassionate individuals who are deeply connected to their faith.

So, let's embrace this opportunity to shape the next generation of spiritually balanced humans. Let's teach our children about God's love, forgiveness, and grace. Let's model the kind of behavior we want them to emulate. And let's instill Christian principles and beliefs in their upbringing.

Remember, as the Apostle Paul writes in Ephesians 6:4, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." Let's use this guidance to raise spiritually balanced children who are equipped to navigate life's challenges with grace and wisdom.

1. Nurturing a Strong Foundation

As a Christian parent, one of the most important things you can do for your child is to establish a strong foundation of faith and belief in God. This foundation will serve as a guiding light for your child throughout their life, helping them to navigate the challenges and joys that come their way.

So, how can you go about nurturing this foundation? Here are some practical tips:

Introduce age-appropriate Bible stories. The Bible is full of stories that teach important lessons about faith, love, and compassion. Introduce your child to these stories in a way that's appropriate for their age and understanding. For younger children, consider using picture books or animated videos to bring the stories to life.

Incorporate prayer into your daily routine. Prayer is a powerful way to connect with God and to teach your child about the importance of faith. Make prayer a regular part of your daily routine, whether it's saying grace before meals or saying bedtime prayers together.

Attend church regularly. Attending church is a great way to connect with other Christians and reinforce the importance of faith in your child's life. Make it a priority to attend church regularly as a family.

Be a role model. Children learn by example, so it's important to model the kind of behavior you want your child to emulate. Live out Christian values in your daily life, whether it's showing kindness to others or volunteering in your community.

Encourage questions and discussion. Encourage your child to ask questions about faith and to engage in discussions about what it means to be a Christian. This will help them to develop a deeper understanding of their faith and to feel comfortable exploring their beliefs.

Remember, establishing a strong foundation of faith takes time and effort. But by incorporating these tips into your daily routine, you can help your child develop a deep and meaningful relationship with God that will serve them well throughout their life.

2. Encouraging Spiritual Practices

As a Christian parent, you want to encourage your child to develop a strong spiritual foundation that will guide them throughout their life. One way to do this is by incorporating spiritual practices into their daily routine. 

When introducing these practices into your child's life, like attending church regularly, being a role model, and engaging in faith-based discussions as a familly, it's important to make them engaging and meaningful. Here are some tips:

Make it age-appropriate. Tailor the practice to your child's age and understanding. For younger children, use simple language and activities that are easy to understand.

Make it fun: Incorporate games, songs, and other activities to make the practice more engaging and enjoyable for your child.

Lead by example. Model the behavior you want your child to emulate. If you want your child to pray regularly, make sure you're doing the same.

3. Teaching Christian Values to Our Children

One of the most important things you can do for your child is to teach them Christian values. These values, such as love, kindness, forgiveness, and gratitude, are essential for developing a strong moral compass and living a fulfilling life.

So, how can you go about teaching these values to your child? Here are some practical strategies:

Family discussions: Engage your child in discussions about Christian values and how they apply to everyday life. Use real-life examples to help your child understand the importance of these values and how they can be applied in different situations. For example, you could discuss how forgiveness can help to heal relationships or how kindness can brighten someone's day.

Storytelling: Use Bible stories and other stories that illustrate Christian values to teach your child about these important principles. 

Acts of service: Encourage your child to participate in acts of service, such as volunteering at a local charity or helping a neighbor in need. These experiences can help your child develop a sense of empathy and compassion for others.

It's also important to teach your child to apply these values in their interactions with others and in making ethical decisions. For example, teaching your child to forgive others can help them build stronger relationships and let go of negative emotions. Similarly, teaching your child to be kind and compassionate can help them build meaningful connections with others and make a positive impact on the world.

As the Apostle Paul writes in Colossians 3:12, "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience." Let's use this guidance to teach our children to live out these values in their everyday lives.

It's our responsibility as Christian parents to raise children who are not only academically successful but also spiritually balanced. This means nurturing a strong foundation of faith and belief in God, along with their physical and academic development.

The importance of raising a spiritually balanced child cannot be overstated. When we prioritize our children's spiritual well-being, we're not only teaching them about God's love, forgiveness, and grace, but we're also providing them with a framework for understanding the world and their place in it. This framework helps them develop a strong sense of self-worth, empathy, and compassion for others.

To reinforce the importance of raising a spiritually balanced child, let's embrace our role as spiritual guides and prioritize our children's spiritual well-being alongside their physical and academic development. 

By prioritizing our child's spiritual well-being alongside their physical and academic development, we're setting them up for success in all areas of their lives.

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Emmanuel Abimbola headshotEmmanuel Abimbola is a creative freelance writer, blogger, and web designer. He is a devout Christian with an uncompromising faith who hails from Ondo State in Nigeria, West Africa. As a lover of kids, Emmanuel runs a small elementary school in Arigidi, Nigeria.