Girlfriends in God - Feb. 20, 2009

February 20 ,2009 
Do You Love Being Loved? 
Gwen Smith

Today’s Truth 
“The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.” (Zephaniah 3:17)

Friend to Friend 
Every once in a while one of my children surprises me with unexpected sweetness. Don’t get me wrong. My kids are sweet on a regular basis, but I’m talking about a special, take-my-breath-away sweetness that creates a time capsule moment for my mommy heart. A moment that I’ll remember forever. 

I had one of those special conversations recently with my nine year-old son, Hunter. It was bedtime.  Teeth were brushed. Jammies were on. Prayers had been prayed. The smell of Pantene lingered from his freshly showered head as I brushed a stray hair from his eye. That’s when he initiated “project: unexpected sweetness” with an innocent question: “Mommy, do you know what I love?”

“What do you love, Hunter?” I asked quietly.

“I love being loved,” he said.  “Yep. I really love being loved.”

As I lay beside him in the dark room I could scarcely process the vast paradox of his statement.  It was the simplest of thoughts, delightfully honest, yet one of the most profound and insightful statements I’ve ever heard come from his lips. From his heart.

When he spoke those four little words, “I love being loved,” he communicated several things to me:

    • He knew he was loved.  
    • His love tank was full.  
    • His greatest need is love.  

Like Hunter, our greatest need is also to be loved. To feel safe, adored, and content in love.

I don’t know where this devotion finds you this morning, but I sense God nudging me to tell you that He loves you. Completely. Perfectly. Eternally. (Yes, I’m talking to you!) He knows your name, He knows your heart, He knows your circumstances, and He hears your prayers. He loves you and desires for you to rest in His love.

God’s love is not based on performance or beauty. It’s not based on position or abilities. Many times we mistakenly think that if we could just do this or that better – that God would love us more. That if we just hadn’t done this or that – God would love us more. The truth is this: God will never love you more or less…no matter what.  His love is complete and you are the object of His heart. Savor the special sweetness of God’s love for you today. Linger on thoughts of His affection for you.

The Bible tells us, “…that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

No matter what you’ve believed in the past, choose by faith to believe this now: you are valued, priceless, and adored by God. “Take in with all Christians the extravagant dimensions of Christ’s love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! Live full lives, full in the fullness of God” (Ephesians 3:18–19, MSG).

Let’s Pray 
“I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen” (Ephesians 3:16-21).

Amen?  Amen!

Now It’s Your Turn  

  • Do you know that you’re loved? I’m sure that you’re familiar with the famous Scripture verse John 3:16. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” Read it again, but this time, insert your name in replacement of “the world.”

    “For God so loved _______________ that he gave his one and only Son, that         whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

  • God loves you and takes pleasure when you go to Him. Why? Because you’re His. Made in His image. Restored to His heart through Jesus Christ. Allow Him to quiet you with His love today.  Spend a few moments in prayer right now. Thank Him for His love. Worship at His feet. Be still before Him. 

More from the Girlfriends 
Okay.  So you know that I’m a worship chick from the word go, right? Well, I think that the perfect ending to our time together today would be to worship. CLICK HERE to listen to a modern version of the old hymn “The Love of God,” which is featured on my latest CD, Unsearchable.

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Originally published Friday, 20 February 2009.