Proverbs 31 Ministries is a non-denominational, non-profit Christian ministry that seeks to lead women into a personal relationship with Christ. With Proverbs 31:10-31 as a guide, Proverbs 31 Ministries reaches women right in the middle of their busy day through free daily devotions, radio program, speaking events, conferences, monthly magazine, resources, online communities, and Gather and Grow groups. We are real women offering real-life solutions to women who are striving to maintain life’s balance, in spite of today’s hectic pace and cultural pull away from godly principles. Wherever a woman may be on her spiritual journey, Proverbs 31 Ministries exists to be a trusted friend who takes her by the hand and walks by her side, leading her one step closer to the heart of God.
May 26, 2011
Don't Eat Your Way Out of the Pit
"Three times a day, he got down on his knees and prayed, giving thanks to his God, just as he had done before." Daniel 6:10b (NIV)
Have you ever been in a pit? Yesterday I was. And you know what pits make me feel besides frustrated and down? Hungry.
Usually my pit comes when circumstances roll into my life that I can't control.
Circumstances that affect me, but that are beyond my control, make me want to find comfort in things I can control. And eating sure does feel like an easy to get comfort.
But, in these situations, what feels comforting going in my mouth often doesn't settle well with my heart.
Overindulging in junk food makes me feel guilty. And once guilty joins me in my pit, it only compounds my issues. So, if we can't eat our way out of a pit with junk food, what can we do?
If I'm truly hungry, I grab a healthy option. Then, I intentionally look for something for which to be thankful and get my mouth busy praising God.
Even though I may not feel like praising God in the midst of my pit, something starts to shift in my heart and in my attitude when I see blessings in the midst of burdens. Each thing for which I verbalize my thankfulness is like a stepping stone out of the pit.
And this isn't just my idea. It's biblical. Look what happened when Daniel took this approach to the pit he found himself in.
In Daniel 6:10, Daniel had just learned that if anyone was caught praying to anyone else besides King Darius, they would be thrown into the Lion's Den. That's a serious pit! But Daniel's reaction is amazing.
He went home, threw his windows open, and prayed anyway. I'm not thinking he did this because he felt good. I'm imagining he felt like anyone would feel in overwhelming circumstances. But he rose above his feelings to make a choice.
And do you know what he chose to pray?
"God, save me!"
"God, it's not fair!"
"God, this is too much!"
"God, smite my enemies and wipe them out!"
"God, You know I can't handle this without extreme doses of chocolate!"
No. None of the above.
What Daniel prayed is a powerful lesson for me.
Daniel prayed, Thank You God. "Three times a day, he got down on his knees and prayed, giving thanks to his God, just as he had done before." (Daniel 6:10b, NIV)
Since Daniel's response is so opposite of the way most of us would react, it makes me stop and ponder. Our initial responses are usually a by-product of the rituals we've established in our life. Daniel had made it his habit to be thankful.
Therefore, who God is and what God provides was front and center in Daniel's heart — even in the midst of heartbreak.
I am so challenged and inspired by this. Where do I run when life presses in on me? Who or what am I really dependent on? Do I have a habit of inviting guilt to join me in my pit? What might happen if I stopped grabbing for comfort and instead embraced the perspective change of thanksgiving?
Yes, life will be full of pits. But, that doesn't mean I have to be a pit dweller or a pit eater.
Dear Lord, I know it is normal for us to sometimes find ourselves in a pit. But we don't have to stay there and we don't have to try and eat our way out. Thank You for providing Your timeless Word to point to the way, the truth and the life. In Jesus' Name, Amen.
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What might happen if we stopped grabbing for comfort and instead embraced the perspective change of thanksgiving? Ponder this thought today and decide how you can live each day differently with a heart of thanksgiving.
Where do I run when life presses in on me? Who or what am I really dependent on? Do I have a habit of inviting guilt to join me in my pit?
Hebrews 12:28, "Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe." (NIV)
Colossians 3:15, "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful." (NIV)
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