Pardon Me for Staring, But… - Arise Daily - January 13

January 13, 2022

Pardon Me for Staring, But…

by Sandi Banks

Have you ever wondered what people watched before Netflix, YouTube, or Direct TV? For me, it was something far more entertaining: People.

How so? Journey back with me to a time when God first taught me a simple but profound truth by watching folks going about their daily lives. It’s the 1960’s and I'm in high school in Las Vegas—a town full of fascinating people. Yet, for me, it's not so much the celebrities who intrigue me, but the "ordinary" people—those who pass by as I sit on my usual bench at Vegas Village.

I watch. And I wonder.

I watch the young mom juggling bouncy kids and bulging bags. I wonder how she's managing, if she's happy in her "mom" role, and if she has a husband at home to help her.

I watch the teen "hoods" strutting by in black leather jackets and upturned collars, streaming smoke and vulgarities. I wonder how they got here, where they're going, and who waits for them at home.

I watch an elderly couple, shuffling slowly by, arm in arm. I wonder what they were like at my age, what they did, what they dreamed of doing. I wonder how they met, and what life in the early 1900s was like for them.

I watch, and I wonder, about the stream of "ordinary" people passing by—where they're headed, what's brought them to this town, what makes them laugh, or cry—and occasionally, what's in their shopping bags.

Many of them fascinate me to the point of wishing they would come sit by me so we could chat, and I could listen to their stories. Thankfully, my people-watching at Vegas Village led to a degree in psychology rather than an arrest for voyeurism.

Today, over 50 years later, I picture that young mom's kids with their own bouncy grandkids ... those black jacket guys with silver hair, or no hair, on Medicare ... and that elderly couple together in eternity.

Life passes by quickly, and the people who file past us day in and day out are far from ordinary. Each has a unique story. God can use them to enhance our lives, and teach valuable lessons, if we look beyond what our eyes can see, to what God sees.

“The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.  Man looks at the outward appearance, the Lord looks at the heart.”  1 Samuel 16:7 (NIV)

I wonder who God will put in my path, and yours, today, to plant a new thought or spark a new interest, or add some new dimension to our remaining days.

In this new year, what if we were intentional about looking, and listening—seeing beneath the surface. We just might find extraordinary treasure hidden in the hearts and lives of ordinary people.  

"Everyone has something extraordinary that can change you. A different perspective, a unique experience, a gift. We’re all ordinary people, but we are all extraordinary in our own way." Skip Pritchard

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sandi banks arise daily authorAbout the author: As a published author, international traveler, and inspirational storyteller, Sandi delights in pointing people to Christ, by weaving insights and hope from His Word into her stories—her struggles, adventures, and humorous misadventures—through forty countries and forty-plus years of life. She inspires others to mine the Bible’s treasures for themselves, and fall in love with Jesus. (Stop by for a visit, at

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