Understanding the Parable of the Ten Virgins: Lessons in Readiness

Emmanuel Abimbola

Emmanuel Abimbola

Contributing Writer
Published Oct 20, 2023
Understanding the Parable of the Ten Virgins: Lessons in Readiness

The wise virgins are not only outwardly ready but also inwardly prepared for the bridegroom's coming. They have a living and active relationship with God, which is evidenced by their good works and fruitfulness.

The parable of the ten virgins is a story that Jesus told in the Gospel of Matthew 25:1-13. It is part of a series of parables that Jesus used to teach his disciples about the end times and the kingdom of heaven. The story involves ten young women who are invited to a wedding feast. They are supposed to meet the bridegroom at night and escort him to the banquet hall with their lamps.

However, only five of them are wise and bring extra oil for their lamps, while the other five are foolish and do not. When the bridegroom is delayed, they all fall asleep. At midnight, a cry wakes them up and announces the arrival of the bridegroom.

The wise virgins are ready to go with him, but the foolish ones realize that their lamps are going out and ask the wise ones to share their oil. The wise ones refuse, saying there may not be enough for both of them, and they tell the foolish ones to go and buy more oil. 

While the foolish ones are away, the bridegroom arrives and takes the wise ones to the feast. The door is then shut, and when the foolish ones return, they are denied entry. The parable ends with Jesus saying, "Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh."

What This Parable Means

The parable of the ten virgins is a metaphor for the Christian life and the need to be ready for the second coming of Christ and the final judgment. 

It warns us against being complacent, careless, or hypocritical in our relationship with God. It also teaches that salvation is not based on external appearances or rituals but on personal faith and obedience. It urges Christians to be vigilant, diligent, and prudent in following Christ and his commands.

Jesus told this parable to illustrate the importance of being ready for his second coming. In this parable, the characters and elements have a deeper meaning and significance. Here is an analysis of each of them:

The bridegroom: He represents Jesus Christ, who will return unexpectedly and reward those ready to meet him. The bridegroom's delay signifies the long period between Jesus' first and second advents, which only God knows. The bridegroom's arrival at midnight signifies the suddenness and unpredictability of his coming, which will catch many people off guard.

The ten virgins: They represent professing Christians, who are divided into two groups based on their preparedness. The number ten may signify completeness or totality, implying that this parable applies to all who claim to follow Christ. The virgins' role as attendants of the bridegroom signifies their responsibility to honor and serve him.

The wise virgins: They represent true believers who have enough oil for their lamps, which symbolizes their faith, love, and obedience to God. The wise virgins are not only outwardly ready but also inwardly prepared for the bridegroom's coming. They have a living and active relationship with God, which is evidenced by their good works and fruitfulness. They are also watchful and alert, not letting the world distract them from their heavenly hope.

The foolish virgins represent false or nominal believers who have no oil for their lamps, which symbolizes their lack of genuine commitment and devotion to God. The foolish virgins are only outwardly ready but not inwardly prepared for the bridegroom's coming. They have a superficial and dead relationship with God, which is evidenced by their lack of work and fruitlessness. They are also careless and sleepy, letting the world lull them into a false sense of security.

The lamps represent the outward profession of faith, which may or may not reflect the inward reality of grace. The lamps are necessary to light the way for the groom and to show one's allegiance to him. However, the lamps alone are not enough to enter the wedding banquet. They need to be accompanied by oil, which is an essential ingredient for keeping the lamps burning.

The oil represents the Holy Spirit, which enables and empowers Christians to live godly lives and bear fruit for God's glory. Oil is a gift from God that cannot be bought or borrowed from others. It is a personal and intimate possession that one must receive from God through faith and obedience. The oil is also a mark of distinction that separates the wise from the foolish, the true from the false, and the saved from the lost.

The wedding banquet represents the eternal joy and fellowship that await those who enter God's kingdom. The wedding banquet is a symbol of God's grace and love for his people who are invited to share in his glory and happiness. It is also a symbol of God's holiness and justice for his enemies who are excluded from his presence and punished for their rebellion.

The door represents the finality and irreversibility of God's judgment, which will separate the saved from the lost. The door is a point of no return, where one's eternal destiny is determined by one's readiness or unpreparedness for the bridegroom's coming. Once the door is shut, there is no second chance or opportunity for repentance. Those inside will enjoy God's favor and blessing, while those outside will suffer God's wrath and curse.

The Main Lessons for Christians Today

The parable of the ten virgins illustrates the urgency and necessity of being prepared for his second coming. This parable has many lessons and implications for Christians today, especially in light of the signs of the times that indicate that Jesus' return is near. Here are some of them:

We need to be ready for Christ's return at any time since we do not know the day or the hour. Jesus said in Matthew 25:13, "Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming." We should not be like the foolish virgins who were caught off guard and unprepared when the bridegroom came. We should live in a state of readiness and anticipation, looking for his appearance and longing for his presence.

We need to always watch and pray since we are living in a world full of distractions and temptations that can make us drowsy and complacent. Jesus said in Matthew 26:41, "Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak." We should not be like the virgins who fell asleep while waiting for the bridegroom. We should be alert and vigilant, resisting the devil and his schemes, and seeking God's will and guidance in everything.

Aside from the parable of the ten virgins, there are other instances in the Bible where Jesus used parables to illustrate the need for us to be prepared for his second coming. 

Christ taught us the need to be faithful and diligent in our service to God since we will have to give an account of how we used our talents and opportunities. In Matthew 16:27, Jesus said, "For the Son of Man will come in the glory of His Father with His angels, and then He will reward each according to his works." We should not be like the wicked and lazy servant who buried his talent in the ground and did nothing with it. We should be like the good and faithful servants who used their talents wisely and multiplied them. We should use our gifts, abilities, resources, time, and influence for God's glory and kingdom.

God’s words also teach us the need to have a personal relationship with Jesus, since he is the only one who can save us and grant us access to his kingdom. John 14:6 says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." We should repent of our sins, believe in his death and resurrection, receive his grace and forgiveness, and follow him as our master and friend. 

We must also learn to share the gospel with others since we cannot rely on others' faith or works to save us or them. Jesus said in Matthew 28:19, "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit." We should realize that we have a responsibility to share the good news of Jesus with others who are lost and perishing so that they may hear and believe.

I urge us all to seek the filling and guidance of the Holy Spirit in everything we do and obey his commands. Use our talents and resources to serve God and others, and share the gospel with those who don't know Him. We should also watch and pray for signs of his coming and be alert to the deception and distractions of the enemy.

Matthew 25:13, "Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour in which the Son of Man is coming."

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Emmanuel Abimbola headshotEmmanuel Abimbola is a creative freelance writer, blogger, and web designer. He is a devout Christian with an uncompromising faith who hails from Ondo State in Nigeria, West Africa. As a lover of kids, Emmanuel runs a small elementary school in Arigidi, Nigeria.