Feeling Like You Don’t Have the Capacity? Why Your Limits May Be a Gift from God

Gina Smith

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Updated Oct 21, 2025
Feeling Like You Don’t Have the Capacity? Why Your Limits May Be a Gift from God

Discover how your perceived limitations are actually divine gifts, designed to foster dependence on God and showcase His strength. Embrace your capacity as an invitation to rest, humility, and a deeper connection with Christ, revealing that true sufficiency is found not in our abilities, but in His limitless grace.

But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’”  {2 Corinthians 12:9}

I was talking with a young mom recently, and I asked how she was feeling about a very challenging relationship that had caused her a lot of anxiety in the past. She said, “With all I have going on right now, taking care of the baby and trying to get everything done, I just haven’t had the capacity to think about it!” Her answer struck me and caused me to contemplate what God might be doing when he gives us the capacity we have been given. 

Our culture celebrates those who can juggle jobs, marriage, kids, ministries, travel, and hobbies seamlessly. And the snapshots that we see on social media can often be used to make us feel like everyone else is doing it all but us!  In fact, I would venture to say that most of us usually don’t feel very strong, organized, or capable, but are ashamed to admit it, and, in our hearts, we wonder if there is something wrong with us.

Could it be that our limited capacity is actually a gift from God? Something given to us as a forced rest from burdens or overdoing it? After taking some time to think and pray, I have come to see that God is the one who gifts us our limitations. Not only that, he actually works through them!  In fact, Scripture shows us again and again that our weakness is the very place where His strength is made perfect.

Your Limits Remind You of Your Need for God

From the very beginning, God created us with limits. Adam was placed in the garden “to work it and take care of it” (Genesis 2:15), but he also needed rest (Genesis 2:2–3). Limits were not a result of sin; they were part of God’s design. When we face our low capacity, it reminds us that we are not God. We are dependent creatures, and that dependence is good. 

Psalm 73:26 says, My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Your low capacity is an invitation to lean on Him more fully and an invitation to be able to turn down an invitation or say no to a request, and experience no guilt.  God often guides us through our limitations! 

God’s Power Made Perfect Through Weakness

The apostle Paul wrestled with his own “thorn in the flesh” – something God had allowed into his life, a limitation that wouldn’t disappear. Yet he learned to see it as a place where God’s strength could be seen: For when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:10). You may not have the stamina of others, the multitasking ability of your friends, or the emotional bandwidth you wish you did. But that doesn’t disqualify you. It positions you to be a living testimony of God’s sustaining power. When others see you and see perseverance in weakness, they see Christ at work.

Low Capacity Creates Space for Rest

Sometimes our limited capacity is the only thing that forces us to stop. Rest is not laziness. It is obedience. Jesus Himself modeled this, often withdrawing to quiet places to pray (Luke 5:16). Your low capacity may be God’s way of protecting you from a life of burnout, teaching you to say no, and reminding you that Sabbath is not optional but essential. It may be how God keeps you from being involved in things or with people with whom he never intended you to be involved.

Resting in God is not wasted time; it renews your soul, refreshes your perspective, and reminds you that He carries the world—you do not. 

Low Capacity Teaches Humility and Compassion

When we accept and embrace our limited capacity, we can learn more humility because we can’t boast about doing it all; we can only point to God’s enabling grace. This humility can be used to work within us a heart of compassion. Those who know their own weakness tend to be gentler and more understanding with others. 2 Corinthians 1:4 reminds us that God comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” Your weakness can actually be used to make you more relatable, approachable, and compassionate toward others.

Low Capacity Helps Keep Christ at the Center

If you had the capacity to do everything, you might never see your need for Jesus. If you excel at everything, you might be tempted to hold yourself up as the standard for everyone to follow, rather than encouraging others to seek after God. When you admit your limits daily, you are reminded of the One who is limitless. Colossians 1:17 says, “He is before all things, and in him all things hold together.” You are not the glue that holds your family, marriage, job, relationships, or church together - He is. Your low capacity frees you from carrying the weight of trying to be everything to everyone. 

A Gift in Disguise

Having a low capacity doesn’t mean you’re failing - it is God’s gift to humans who have limits. And in God’s economy, your limits are not liabilities. They are platforms for His grace, invitations to rest, and reminders that He is enough. The gift of low capacity is this: it frees you from striving to be everything and reminds you that you already have everything you need in Christ.

So, the next time you are tempted to feel “not enough,” remember: You will never be enough, and God has never asked you to be enough. He asks you to be His, to trust His strength, and to rest in His sufficiency.

How Do We Prioritize and Live Within Our God Given Capacity? 

  1. Prioritize what matters most: Not everything is urgent; ask God to help you focus on what truly matters each day. 
  2. Don’t be afraid to ask for help: Let others share the load. This will build community and reflect the body of Christ (Galatians 6:2).
  3. Do one thing at a time: Feed the baby, finish the laundry, run an errand, encourage a friend, take a nap. Just be faithful and do the next thing. 
  4. Ask God for Strength: When you find yourself in a place where you need to give more of yourself than you feel you can, ask God for strength. He will give you strength in times of need.  

Let’s Pray

Father, thank You for meeting me in my weakness. Thank You that my low capacity is not a failure but a gift, a reminder that I need You. Forgive me for the times I’ve tried to do life in my strength. Teach me to rest in You, to ask for help, and to trust that You are enough for me and my family. May my limits point others to Your limitless love. Amen.

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Gina L. SmithGina Smith is a wife of 37 years, mom of 2, and grandma of 3. She is  a writer and author, writing her very first published book in her empty nest years. She has a passion to come alongside the younger generation to encourage them, strengthen them in God, and learn from them.  You can find Gina at her website www.ginalsmith.com, and her book Everyday Prayers for Joy can be found anywhere books are sold.