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Emily began writing short stories and poetry as a little girl, entered the blogging world in her early 20's, and recently released her first book, Yielded in His Hands (eLectio Publishing). She enjoys being a stay-at-home momma while still being able to freelance write. Believing she has been forgiven of much, she loves much, and desires to point others to Christ and His redemptive and transforming power. If you would like to connect with Emily or learn more about her book, you can visit her website: www.emilyrosemassey.com

Expecting: What will be birthed through me in 2018?

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Emily began writing short stories and poetry as a little girl, entered the blogging world in her early 20's, and recently released her first book, Yielded in His Hands (eLectio Publishing). She enjoys being a stay-at-home momma while still being able to freelance write. Believing she has been forgiven of much, she loves much, and desires to point others to Christ and His redemptive and transforming power. If you would like to connect with Emily or learn more about her book, you can visit her website: www.emilyrosemassey.com

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January 4th, 2018. 

4 days into the new year. How's 2018 going so far for you?

For me, it seems like I am finally finding time to write down goals/dreams and be still to listen with more clarity to what God wants to do in and through me this year.

Some people use the end of the year to reflect upon the past year and look forward to what is ahead when the clock strikes midnight on December 31st.

I'd like to say that I had ample time to do some mega reflecting, soul searching, and waiting on the Lord for direction and vision for 2018 at the end of December, but like so many other people because of the rush of the holiday season, my life was pretty full, frantic, and fast-paced for much of the month of December.

Aside from birthday celebrations, my wedding anniversary, Christmas, and New Years, (and oh yeah, GROWING A HUMAN!), December truly was just the culmination of much hard work for probably 6 months, especially regarding completing tons of writing deadlines, serving on a team at the Gateway House of Prayer as a singer, and one specific Kingdom assignment- writing, producing, and directing a Christmas production for my church! Although that assignment is now complete, I know there is still much Kingdom work to do that God is calling me to!

All of this was a huge change of pace for me, considering I was in a "season of rest" and "pressing pause" on many responsibilities for like...um...2.5 years! 

Instead of merely reflecting on 2017, God really has been highlighting a period of time where He had to intervene before the train completely derailed, and I ended up in a padded room somewhere.

For reals. 

No, instead of focusing on 2017, I feel like I need to reflect and give God glory for this last extended season of the soul because I am truly no longer the same woman.

I sit here and also reflect upon the fact that I am about to give birth to my second child within the next month, after months and months of growth and development of a life inside of me, experiencing a change in my appetite and a major change in the way I walk.

Just like my second baby boy that is about to be born soon, I believe God is going to "birth" something through me this year that has taken more preparation, growth, and change in me than a mere 40 weeks, I can tell you that much...how about a spiritual pregnancy that has probably lasted over 3 years!

Ironically enough, all of this preparation, growth, and change in appetite and change in my walk started when my son was born, on October 11th, 2014- the day I became a mom

Because I thought that I could go on with "life as usual," I was seriously shaken by the fact that life would never be the same, that I would never be the same.

EVERYTHING CHANGED! 

Things that I thought I had overcome reared its ugly head and began taunting me. 

Rejection. Depression. Anxiety. Fits of anger and rage.

Just a few months into motherhood, I heard God whisper that I needed to learn how to "just be," but it was so completely foreign to me that I just kept trying to run full speed ahead (especially regarding the many leadership hats I wore at my church, my writing ministry, and the release and promotion of my book in 2015- radio and TV interviews and networking with ministry leaders filling up my schedule and my focus). I was seriously running on fumes from utter stress and mega sleep deprivation (because my son refused to sleep until I was holding him or laying next to him), and then trying to get high off of the fumes from my accomplishments and productivity, thinking that (and coffee) would fix everything. 

It all caught up to me, and I started to severely struggle in my physical and mental health in ways that I never had before.

More anxiety. More depression. More panic attacks. Weird physical symptoms like restless leg syndrome, insomnia, chronic ulcers in my mouth, and eventually an irregular cycle that would lead to a chemical pregnancy later on.

I felt like the air was being sucked from my lungs.

I felt so completely broken, but I would have no choice but to continue to stand on the promise that God would bring restoration to my life!

Little did I know that I wouldn't see that promise start to come to fruition for another 2 years...in 2017! 

Within that span of time, God told us to sell our house and move back to the county, step down from ALL leadership at our church home of 4.5 years and transition us and prepare our hearts into searching for a new church home (which all sadly came with much wounds from rejection and abandonment from ministry friends- but praise be to God for healing this area of our hearts over time), all while completely deconstructing every single Christian ideology/theology Paul and I stood upon in our marriage. We truly learned (and are continuing to learn) why we believed what we believed for the first time in either of our lives, immersing ourselves in the scriptures for ourselves and not clinging to what our upbringing, our pastor, or TV preacher told us was truth.

We became like the Bereans discussed in Acts 17:

The brothers[b] immediately sent Paul and Silas away by night to Berea, and when they arrived they went into the Jewish synagogue. Now these Jews were more noble than those in Thessalonica; they received the word with all eagerness, examining the Scriptures daily to see if these things were so (10-11, ESV).

In January 2016, after months of wrestling with all of these changes and realizing many doors were going to stay closed for me for a long time, I finally embraced the call the "just be" and rest. I finally surrendered to God as He stripped me of any title that I tried to find my identity in. 

So much happened in me from January 2016 into Spring 2017. I learned how to simply be "Beloved" and "Daughter," and learned how to find my rest in God alone. 

It was from that place of rest that I would eventually find healing and restoration- physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually- truly learning how to become a vessel for God's glory- spirit, soul, and body.

That process did not come without resistance and struggle though, and there would be countless opportunities to become discouraged, as we began dealing with Isaiah's nightly wakings again- every night, 3-5 times a night for almost six months, all while I was trying to serve on a night-watch prayer team for two 10 week terms back to back, and hold down a part-time retail job in customer service at the height of the holiday season. Yep, all of that will definitely try your faith!

But we held onto HOPE the best we could! 

Eventually, we experienced such great breakthrough with Isaiah's sleep because of our church community's willingness to stand with us in intense prayer...for that I will be forever thankful!

Then on Resurrection Sunday 2017, I realized God had been so faithful to bring restoration and resurrection life in so many areas of my life. That morning, one of my pastors approached me during soundcheck on my first Sunday leading worship at our new church home (after not standing in that role for a year and a half by that point) and told me that the Lord had put me on his heart recently during prayer and kept hearing the word "restoration." 

"Does that mean anything to you?" he asked.

Yes, yes it did! He was restoring my joy again, just like He promised!

And the restoration continued throughout 2017:

  • Where we had issues conceiving, I found out I was pregnant shortly after Mother's Day. Timely... :)
  • God restored my writing and teaching ministry- countless articles written, reaching and encouraging readers from all over the globe that email me constantly, more networking connections made and freelance job opportunities, and being able to continue to lead a group of precious women through the Bible at Diane's House (Teen Challenge St. Louis).
  • God restored and breathed new life into my creative outlets with singing at the House of Prayer here in St. Louis and brought theater back into my life with the assignment of writing and directing the Christmas production. 
  • God restored the assignment of testifying for Him and sharing more about my book with my church community where my book is given out to visitors for free! More reached for Christ!
  • God restored and strengthened relationship after relationship, bringing genuine friendship into my life, as we learned how to encourage and pray for each other in our struggles and trials. I have some of the closest relationships with godly women in my life right now- it seriously overwhelms me with so much JOY to even think about it! An answer to a prayer that I have believed and ask for MANY YEARS!
  • God restored and strengthened my marriage on such a deep level as we survived the first 3 years as parents and learned how to always fight to hang onto loving and forgiving each other, no matter how difficult it may get. I don't know where I would be without the support of my best friend who works so incredibly hard for our family (yay for TWO promotions in ONE YEAR!). Super huuuuuuuuubbbbbssss!! 
  • God even restored and is restoring relationships within my family that I thought would be impossible to ever see reconciliation. 

For over 2 years, all I knew to do was to keep breathing, even though I had to fight for air so many times. 

But God gave me my breathe back. The air is back in my lungs, and I can run without growing weary because of how He has taught me to wait and rest upon Him (Isaiah 40: 28-31), one of the hardest lessons I have had to learn to date, let me tell you!

So what does all of this mean for me for 2018? What is going to be birthed through me this year?

Well aside from another baby boy, obviously, I don't know exactly what will all transpire this year, but I can tell you that I am expectant!

The Lord has already been giving me specific instructions as to what He wants me to focus on this year as He strengthens me and gives me courage to face all that is ahead in this new year and new season (STRENGTH and COURAGE being my words for 2018). 

I feel like since 2017 gave me the breath back in my lungs, I have gained the momentum to hit the ground running into 2018. I'm starting this year in wholeness, not brokenness. 

Some of you had a really difficult 2017, experiencing so many trials, storms, disappointments, and setbacks. Feeling broken and bruised, your faith really took a beating.

That wasn't really the case for me this last year. 

I don't share that to rub it in your face, beloved.  My faith has definitely taken a beating in the past, and I have experienced those times of trials and storms and disappointments just like what I shared with you in this blog post and through so many other blog posts I have written over the last three years on this journey to restoration.  

Those storms, trials, and setbacks are not the end of your story, my friends! Just like they were not the end of mine!

Hope is on the way! Joy is on the way! Peace that passes all understanding is on the way! No matter what, God has good in store for you! Don't give up, don't give in! He's going to turn it all around...just wait and see! He is so incredibly faithful!

I pray that this year, I will be able to continue to lead and encourage many more people as the Lord infuses me with His strength and courage! I want to help you get your breath back so I can see you run alongside of me and help others on their journey to complete wholeness, as we learn to give God all the glory with every fiber of our being!

Blessings to you in this new year! Expect a miracle...expect a breakthrough!


Yielded in His HandsCheck out more of my blogs on www.emilyrosemassey.com! Also, visit my website for more information on how to stay connected with me, as well as info about my book Yielded in His Hands- now available on Amazon.com!

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