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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 7:52:53 AM   
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Chelle, a change in routine can definitely do it.

How much jail time would I get for cat-i-cide? One of our cats was outside the gate keeping them from the bedroom areas, just meowing her head off at 3:30am for no apparent reason. The cat feeder automatically dispenses food at the same time every day, so they have no reason to bug us for food. She kept meowing so long I had to get up twice and throw water at her. Then I couldn't really sleep much the rest of the night.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 7:58:11 AM   
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How is he normally about going down?

He is usually good about going down. He will cry 5-10 minutes, but then go to sleep on his own. The longest I let him cry is 20 minutes if he is not asleep by that point then I rock him, which he doesn't resist. He will snuggle up and go right to sleep. This has been our biggest issue from the beginning with him is sleep. He is so much better, but there are still times like last night where he fights it.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 8:04:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Georgia-Peach
This has been our biggest issue from the beginning with him is sleep. He is so much better, but there are still times like last night where he fights it.


I personally think it is unreasonable to expect a toddler to go to sleep when their routine has been upset.

With my ds we *had* to keep his routine the same every night, right up till he was about 3 or 4. If visitors came, they had to take second place to the bedtime routine.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 8:23:22 AM   
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Jen - I can understand you being ticked. We have shared what the name is that we will be using for our first son, even though it has a lot of meaning for us as well, but we refuse to share the name for our second son. It's not common at all and we don't want to go through the situation you're in. However, I have met lots of families where cousins have the same name.

Nicole - unfortunately, I still live in the same city as my family.

Well, today is shopping and swimming! I need to head to two stores across the street this morning (I hope the rain can hold off, otherwise we hang out at the mall until Dh comes home from work). Then swimming at 1pm because they had to cancel it last week so this is a makeup class, and then shopping at two more stores, and then regular swimming class at 6pm.

Oh then, we have to go pick up Dh's sister so he can give her a driving lesson before her road test.

Have a lovely day ladies!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 8:27:03 AM   
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Sarah- dog's name...hmmm...lol- I'll get over it, it just bothers me- I would never do that knowingly... I can't BELIEVE that people treated you that way in the hospital! I enjoyed having visitors, but everyone at least asked about me- I don't care if they brought me anything (of course one lady was there having an NST, so it was just a surprise that things lined up for her to drop in for a minute)- but not to even ask how I was/how things went That is horrid! (off topic military rant- watched a show last night where someone called it censorship that news can't film the caskets of returning soldiers so that people don't get the wrong image of the war I had to leave the room so my bp didn't go through the roof- how about respect? how about the families who are grieving? Ooohhhhh was I mad!)

Chelle- I know how disappointing that is- no matter how long/not long, it is still upsetting every month. God's timing is best, but for me, I've never seen that until after the kids were born- not during the trying time...

Yolanda- did you pee yet? Find a wi-fi cafe to post from?

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 8:28:12 AM   
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Thank you, Jennifer!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 10:58:00 AM   
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oh sarah that is so bad! I thought your mum might have had more sense to ask how it went. Hugs to you! Iknow you don't like hugs, but these are virtual ones

my mom is a totally different person around her parents unfortunately. She is the only person (other then Paul) who has gone to the hospital to see four of our five kids (Emma was born in Germany so she never saw her)...and she has always wanted to get out of there fast, but she never acted like this before either.

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Sarah, I love your new pic of Justice too!!

thanks!!! Paul was excited that he took that pic and that I liked it so much I made it an avatar...lol. He took it last night when we were at the park.

quote:

(off topic military rant- watched a show last night where someone called it censorship that news can't film the caskets of returning soldiers so that people don't get the wrong image of the war I had to leave the room so my bp didn't go through the roof- how about respect? how about the families who are grieving? Ooohhhhh was I mad!)



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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 11:08:59 AM   
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We have been running all morning and now we are back home. Hunter is playing nicely for now by himself. I have the living room, kitchen, and dining room clean so that is done. We are having some friends over for dinner tonight so no rushing around for once, other than making dinner. While Hunter is napping I am going to clean our bedroom and bathroom. Then the whole house will be clean...could it be...lol!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 11:29:45 AM   
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Am I the only lazy bum who relaxes when her baby is napping?

True my house isn't spotless; it takes a near miracle to get me to dust. But it's usually decently maintained. I'm sure it could be much better, though.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 11:33:01 AM   
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Am I the only lazy bum who relaxes when her baby is napping?

True my house isn't spotless; it takes a near miracle to get me to dust. But it's usually decently maintained. I'm sure it could be much better, though.

I do that too....like right now, I am online...and in the afternoon we do nap/rest time after lunch and I lay on the couch...if I fall asleep then I sleep, if not, I relax. I clean when hubby is home to hold Justice....as much as I like wraps I can't wear him and do much because my arms are so short I can hardly reach around him.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 12:21:22 PM   
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I wish I rested more when he napped, but that is when I choose to clean. It is easier (less stressful) to clean without having him under toe. I will do some stuff while he is awake, but there are some things I do not attempt.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 12:34:39 PM   
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I do clean the bathrooms when Nathan sleeps, but vacuuming, dishes, laundry and general tidying are all done when he's awake. Cleaning the kitchen could go either way, but I usually do it when he's awake.

He's gotten quite good at bringing me the dustpan when I'm ready to sweep up the dirt from the kitchen floor. Although, he still sometimes tries to "help" by using his own little broom, which usually results in the dirt being spread around more.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 12:36:10 PM   
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Well I can now clean at any point in the day (unless I'm in labour ... LOL) as dh is no longer working. He had submitted a note to HR ages ago saying he would be taking parental leave from approximately today (my original due date) until 35 weeks from now. Well, YESTERDAY they gave him a termination notice, citing "poor performance" -- apparently the minimum 'score' required was 3.0 ... he had a 2.98 on his last monitor. That is a difference of 0.02 points. So now hubby doesn't have a job to return to after babe arrives. And his benefits (drug, dental, chiropractic, etc) were terminated as of midnight last night ... glad we're in Ontario where primary health care (doctors, hospitals, etc) is covered!

And Sarah ... I suffer from SAS too!!! (short arm syndrome ... can reach easily to pull a child out of danger, but can't reach more than two feet above your head to grab a jar from the cupboard)

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 12:47:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Georgia-Peach

We have been running all morning and now we are back home. Hunter is playing nicely for now by himself. I have the living room, kitchen, and dining room clean so that is done. We are having some friends over for dinner tonight so no rushing around for once, other than making dinner. While Hunter is napping I am going to clean our bedroom and bathroom. Then the whole house will be clean...could it be...lol!


Go Chelle Go! You've gotten so much done! You must feel great!

((((((((((((((Kara)))))))))))))))) Oh my goodness I am extremely upset for you guys. What the heck??? Why did they do that to your husband??? Maybe God wants him to work a different job or what? Did he like his job?


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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 12:53:34 PM   
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((((Kara))))That's horrible! Hopefully, he'll find a better job than the one he had. Glad your primary health care is covered though.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 1:12:00 PM   
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Kara- I will be praying for your husband's job situation. The company dh worked for about 8 years ago went bankrupt, so dh lost his job. God took care of us during that time, including giving dh opportunities for taking on odd jobs that amounted to him making more money than he would have at his job when we looked back. God will take care of you, too, over and above your expectations.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 1:24:24 PM   
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Thanks, Nicole...I feel like I have my own personal cheerleader when I read your post. So encouraging!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 1:53:22 PM   
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Ruth, I'm relaxing. I did clean the bathroom first. But I'm not doing anything now.

Sarah--I *love* your new avatar pic. Adorable. Does he have red hair or is that just the lighting of the picture?

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 2:29:00 PM   
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Am I the only lazy bum who relaxes when her baby is napping?


Nope, I do too Nap time is my "me" time...

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 2:48:55 PM   
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Am I the only lazy bum who relaxes when her baby is napping?


Nope, I do too Nap time is my "me" time...

Same here...I do try to get things done, but after schoolwork with Manda..I spend as much time farting around as I can...
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 3:05:10 PM   
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k Yo...where the heck are ya?
We're all on pins and needles here...what's the scoop Mama?

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 3:17:41 PM   
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Apparently I am the weirdo around here since I am the only one who cleans during naptime...lol

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 3:21:17 PM   
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I'm home...

I went to town this morning and held it and held it....all through the building permit application and everything. So we rush over to the dollar store....and they don't have any tests! So, I was next to the grocery store and was going to go get an expensive one, but I couldn't hold it any longer, i had to run to make it to the bathroom.
So later on in the afternoon when we were getting groceries, I got a test, and just decided to wait until we got home because we were going right home and the grocery store bathroom looked yucky.





Anyway....we got home, and I couldn't find the test anywhere!!!!! I thought for sure I left it at the grocery store, since I didn't remember putting it in the cart when I was leaving.





Then, I looked in the trunk again, and it was there, tucked under the stroller. So I brought it in, and by this time, I had to run (again) to get to the bathroom, and I just made it....and found that I didn't even need to test...my period has arrived.

Anyway, that sure explains the migraine that I'm dealing with today...though that has been a pregnancy symptom in the past too. Anyway, I'm a little disappointed, but this is sooner than we had "planned" anyway, so it might be a little while yet. Or next month, who knows. Depends how many accidentally-on-purpose accidents we have...

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 3:31:45 PM   
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Apparently I am the weirdo around here since I am the only one who cleans during naptime...lol


I clean during naptime sometimes...though the house is usually picked up. I usually do the breakfast dishes during the morning and then have time for playing with Hannah & Jael, my workout, getting showered/ready for the day so that in the afternoons I can just relax and maybe get on the pc or watch an episode of Monk (or both!).

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 8/8/2008 3:39:42 PM   
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Crys, how's work going?

Jeanie


Great, thanks for asking! Keeping busy lately, which keeps me happy.

Chelle - feel free to come clean my house while I nap. I won't think you're a weirdo. Promise. I'll even bake you cookies. Who couldn't use a cookie?

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