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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 12:43:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mutinywxgirl

Anyone want to give me a pep talk? I'm feeling like hiding from the world again......



Whooo boy...I'm needing that same thing. Well...are you talking specifically in the area of singleness and making the first move, or just in general?

besiderself


In general - I'm in a funk, and not sure why or how to get out of it. There are a lot of things going on in the family right now, so that is part of it - and it's keeping me from even *thinking* about making any kind of first moves. Honestly, after the past two years - I honestly doubt there is anyone for me.

Stop it!! You don't know that, and it isn't healthy to think that way!! That kind of thinking will send you spiraling deep into Funkland. Please don't make that first move towards that land.

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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 1:11:27 PM   
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Ooooo, Lisa. It looks like you and I have contracted the Eeyore virus.

Shema's right...we gotta start thinking more truthfully.

It's helped me, though, just to find some others on CW who are not feeling very positive and try to encourage them.

w00t...hey I just realized I know the PERFECT SPOT for thinking truthfully...

Come on, Lisa...let's head over to Pooh's Thotful Spot.

besiderself

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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 1:17:11 PM   
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mutiny...do you have a profile with any of the dating sites? Send it to the self-professed dating coach and we'll see if we can't tidy it up a bit (lol).

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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 2:22:13 PM   
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I think a male gains more respect from a woman when he initiates.
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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 6:20:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Tinkerbell_

Quite frankly some guys don't realise that a woman is interested so it behooves us to wack them upside down with a small clue club.

After that, it's up to him to pursue me.

Much better...


LOL!!
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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 6:33:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mutinywxgirl

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ORIGINAL: besiderself

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ORIGINAL: mutinywxgirl

Anyone want to give me a pep talk? I'm feeling like hiding from the world again......



Whooo boy...I'm needing that same thing. Well...are you talking specifically in the area of singleness and making the first move, or just in general?

besiderself


In general - I'm in a funk, and not sure why or how to get out of it. There are a lot of things going on in the family right now, so that is part of it - and it's keeping me from even *thinking* about making any kind of first moves. Honestly, after the past two years - I honestly doubt there is anyone for me.


Honey, don't go there! That's not Lisa talking. The Lisa I know is very confident and sure of herself.

Wanna know what helped me last night? A good, old-fashioned gully-washer of a cry. It's very cleansing!
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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/21/2008 7:40:39 PM   
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Should women ask men out on dates if interested or should the man always lead in asking a woman out instead? Also, who should pay for the date afterwards? Should the man always pay, or should the woman pay as well? This thread is open for both men and women to respond.

Inquiring minds want to know!


I am a young female chivalrist, and I believe the man should ask the woman out--and please, facebook doesn't count. LAME. I believe one should ask another out in person or at least on the phone. I hate being the one to ask a guy out...I find it much more attractive (and manly!) when a guy asks me out instead. I also believe if the man offers to take the lady to dinner, he should pay. If both decide to go to dinner it sure doesn't hurt for a girl to offer to at least pay her part or pay for it all every now and then!

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RE: Who Should Make The First Move? - 7/22/2008 8:43:08 PM   
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if I don't have a girl's number, facebook is pretty much the way I have to go...but I try to move up to phone, but some girls I know prefer to keep it at the online level for a time until they get to know somebody better.

sometimes we guys have to go with what the girl will accept. especially when we're trying to get to know someone.
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