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ry_guy -> Confidence and Funny (6/30/2008 10:21:44 PM)

I often hear this is what women want.

What though if one is in constant pain every day for years due to a medical problem that limits activities and so forth? What also if this medical problem makes one depressed and unable to be as funny as usual? What if God doesn't answer prayers for healing? It's very frustrating.



Grace-N-Mercy -> RE: Confidence and Funny (6/30/2008 10:39:04 PM)

Don't worry... confidence and humor are very subjective. You are the way that God made you and what women really want is for you to be yourself and to be confident in who you are... depression and all. I used to live in constant pain (well, it hasn't totally gone away yet) but I learn to live around it. I even make fun of myself once in a while (confidence AND humor [sm=thumbsup.gif]). Just be yourself and not who you think they want you to be!



song -> RE: Confidence and Funny (6/30/2008 11:38:55 PM)

The woman you end up with will be attracted to you, whoever you are. You only need one woman, remember? [8D]

Every woman is attracted to different things. And I'm sure there's someone out there whose attracted to the kind of person you are. [:)] Don't despair!



free-to-worship -> RE: Confidence and Funny (7/1/2008 1:26:44 AM)

I have some medical issues myself, and I've had and sometimes still have some of the same issues with it as you do, but you have to know and believe that God is still a healer. If a woman really wants to be with you, then she will accept for who you are, and pain is not who you are. Pain is something you deal with, but it does not define you. You may not always be in the mood to be funny or confident, but those things come from you naturally, and you don't have to work at them, just be yourself. Tolerate as much activity as you can withstand, but when you're not feeling up to it, then just be honest with the person you are with. If the person really wants to be with you tehn they will understand, if not then they are just not the person for you, and that's okay.



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