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URForgiven -> RE: Mistaken (6/30/2008 8:49:22 PM)
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My question for advice was regarding some people I work with, mainly one, who at times has seen me at my worst. To the point I am not sure he knows where my faith lies, or if he does, he may think I am just a typical Christian(talks the talk, doesn't walk the walk). For some reason I can not come straight out and tell him I am a Christian, and when I am around him I tend to do things I shouldn't, like ogle woman at work, curse, which I am trying desperately to stop doing, and complain about work, which I don't like to do. He says all the time that he doesn't believe in God, and yet still thinks he is going to hell. I recently got the impression that He is the reason I am at this job. I need to witness to him, but don't know how, now that he has seen the side of me I am trying to put behind me. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks again. Oh wow, SavedByGraceMD, what you are sharing is THE PERFECT scenario for witness. WE ARE NOT GOOD. That's the whole reason we need a Savior. And that's the whole trouble with most of Christianity. We're all trying to be good, pretending we are good, denying our badness, and everyone but us sees it! So, the KEY? Live HONESTLY, TRUTHFULLY! Confess your badness to your unbelieving friend. Confess your badness and share about your most merciful God! It is our SIN that is our biggest point of testimony. And your confession of it is the most real evidence of the life of God in you! So when you curse, confess it as sin. It is a bad sin habit and often our habits take time for us to break. Our minds are like steel traps at times and it seems bad habits stick hard. So when those wrong thoughts and wrong actions come out, just be honest. And don't be so hard on yourself. We are all works in progress---His work and He is doing it and will accomplish it. It is our part to abide, remain, stay close and cozy with, listening to His voice and responding. Spend quiet times at His feet and you will hear His whispers of mercy---something those who think they no longer sin will never hear. His whispers of mercy are for those who are willing to come to the light, have their deeds exposed as having been wrought in God and that means even your curse and confession. Be honest with yourself, God and others and your friends may desire to know this God you worship and love. Bless you![:)]LL This is so true LL. Maybe, hopefully, the Lord will use my shortcomings with him, to open his eyes. Just because we are Christians, we are not perfect. I tend to lose sight of this, as I let another opportunity to use the time I have for good, but instead wallow in the pit of failure. I am not perfect, but He, the One who saved us is. I hope and pray the Lord gives me the words to use with him, and anyone else whom He brings in my path. Thanks again, it is so truly appreciated. LL has given you good advice. I cannot tell you many times I have heard unbelievers say that Christians think they are better than unbelievers. My reply is always that we are no better than anyone else...we are just better off. The world does have this idea that we Christians are supposed to be perfect, and many who call themselves Christians have perpetuated that myth. There is only One who is perfect, and it is none of us. Your heart is in the right place brother, that is the important thing. Continue to be available to Him, and if it is God's will, He will create the opportunity for you. And when those opportunities come, He will also bring to your mind the words that will result in what He desires. Peace
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