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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/10/2008 11:16:25 AM
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ShallbeRebuilt
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Morning Peeps!
I got knocked off the internet from mid afternoon yesterday until just a few hours ago, so I missed all the fun  .
I think Lisa is putting up labels for who is who in the group pic (there's GOT to be a better one from someone...they took about 12 shots from various cameras). At any rate, I think HumbleInSpirit posted a list over in his PFY in case you still don't have everyone sorted out.
I have an announcement to make. In a way, I have TWO.
1) I am gratified in the extreme to announce that I HAVE FRIENDS.
2) In addition (Nadine are you listening?) I believe that I may now claim, for the first time in my life, to have MALE friends. (you know who you are. If you don't want that distinction, let me know, ok?)
A little background: I don't have a lot of friends. In my experience, true reciprocal friendship is something that is very rare. And even rarer across genders outside of marriage.
Further, in my life as a single, I have had even fewer friends who understand or are willing to understand the challenges.
I have NEVER had male friends except for one who was my friend because he was also my husband's best friend. When my husband was killed, that friendship unfortunately ended.
I think this is one reason why I had so much fun this last weekend at the GT. The result is that I now feel that there are some real, reciprocal potential friendships that started to develop during the weekend--and some of them are male.
For Nadine and others who might be wondering: yes, I had already thought through each male on the trip--God pointed none of them out as potential mates at this time. Sorry...that's just the first thing I think about in cross-gender relationships--I do not think "friends first". The good thing about that is that it leaves me free to build platonic friendships with them. I'm excited about this...these are all WONDERFUL people, and it bears repeating when I say I am incredibly enriched to know all of them (both genders included!!).
Now, please don't think that if you didn't go to the GT I don't consider you a friend...'tis not true. But there is a dimension to our friendship that will be missing unless and until we meet in person.
In other news:
Please keep praying for my dd and her beau. Things are so hard between him and his parents. I have not and will not get to meet them while here. I fixed him a couple of home-cooked meals, for which he was very grateful...he won't allow them to talk to him about my dd, so apparently he's really not welcome to visit home. I've learned even more about the situation since being here (I'm still in KY at this time). God is working: every counselor or mentor the Beau has talked to is giving him the same counsel: this is about who "gets to keep" him, and he must stand strong and allow his parents to work through this. It's hard, though.
Also, pray for them that they can continue to remain pure. They have not even kissed, and don't plan to until they are standing at the altar. But they have NO ONE to hang out with here and so must be alone together a lot. They have set rules for themselves that should help, but...you know it's just tough. I'm very proud of them!!!! They meet in public places, even to the point of braving the heat and the cicadas to sit on the porch and even though they both have dvd players in their apartments, they watch movies on their laptops so they can sit on the porch in public.
Ok...I got to go bake some cookies for them while I pack to leave in the morning. Y'all have fun, now!
besiderself
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/10/2008 11:23:07 PM
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humbleinspirit
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WOW Esther, no PDA's at all? WOW! Also, I will say a prayer for them as well!
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Tinkerbell and I agree that we are more alike than either of us could have imagined. I know, it's strange, but true. In my defense, I will admit that I was definitely in Tigger mode during the GT!
besiderself
You make this sound like a bad thing.  Although I have to say I was pretty shocked.
I really liked when Mike told me in the airport that I was more down to earth than he expected. He thought I would be bouncing all over the pleace or something like that. 
ROFOFOL!!!! In all seriousness, I am glad that you were blessed by my comment as well! Truth be told, she really is down to Earth even if very spunky!
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Does anyone want any coffee? I made a pot of coffee and there's no one around to drink it.... it's chocolate truffle flavored...
I usually do not drink coffee at all, but thanks for offering Tina!
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/10/2008 11:39:44 PM
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ShallbeRebuilt
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WOW Esther, no PDA's at all? WOW! Also, I will say a prayer for them as well!
They hug and hold hands, Mike. They sit next to one another. But they want to save all the rest for MUCH later. And I concur...especially under the circumstances.
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/10/2008 11:40:55 PM
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humbleinspirit
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Ahhh Esther, I understand, that is very sweet of them!
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/11/2008 5:52:10 AM
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WOW Esther, no PDA's at all? WOW! Also, I will say a prayer for them as well!
They hug and hold hands, Mike. They sit next to one another. But they want to save all the rest for MUCH later. And I concur...especially under the circumstances.
besiderself
Thats wonderful!! God Bless Them!!
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/11/2008 7:42:45 PM
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I think Lisa is putting up labels for who is who in the group pic (there's GOT to be a better one from someone...they took about 12 shots from various cameras). At any rate, I think HumbleInSpirit posted a list over in his PFY in case you still don't have everyone sorted out.
I need to see what I have. I just downloaded them to the computer. I may need to tweek them a bit regarding the lighting. I'll post them in my Photobucket account.
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/11/2008 10:07:52 PM
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ORIGINAL: besiderself
I have an announcement to make. In a way, I have TWO.
1) I am gratified in the extreme to announce that I HAVE FRIENDS.
Of course you do silly. Some of us are just still imaginary friends though.  I hope to remedy that some day though. 
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2) In addition (Nadine are you listening?) I believe that I may now claim, for the first time in my life, to have MALE friends. (you know who you are. If you don't want that distinction, let me know, ok?)
Yep! I'm listening. Now you don't think I'm so crazy huh. Guys aren't skeery. Confusing at times (especially if you add in the "online" element) but not skeery.
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A little background: I don't have a lot of friends. In my experience, true reciprocal friendship is something that is very rare. And even rarer across genders outside of marriage.
Further, in my life as a single, I have had even fewer friends who understand or are willing to understand the challenges.
I have NEVER had male friends except for one who was my friend because he was also my husband's best friend. When my husband was killed, that friendship unfortunately ended.
I think this is one reason why I had so much fun this last weekend at the GT. The result is that I now feel that there are some real, reciprocal potential friendships that started to develop during the weekend--and some of them are male.
I am so incredibly happy for you....I am glad that you had a great time. I am a tad bit jealous, but very very happy for you none the less.
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For Nadine and others who might be wondering: yes, I had already thought through each male on the trip--God pointed none of them out as potential mates at this time. Sorry...that's just the first thing I think about in cross-gender relationships--I do not think "friends first". The good thing about that is that it leaves me free to build platonic friendships with them. I'm excited about this...these are all WONDERFUL people, and it bears repeating when I say I am incredibly enriched to know all of them (both genders included!!).
I was not necessarily wondering,  But thank you for sharing that. I do the opposite. Meet, make a friend and think of the other stuff later.
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Now, please don't think that if you didn't go to the GT I don't consider you a friend...'tis not true. But there is a dimension to our friendship that will be missing unless and until we meet in person.
(Sniff) I'll try not to feel too bad.   I'm okay really (sniff) don't mind me. 
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/13/2008 9:34:51 AM
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Morning, Peeps;
Feeling very low this morning. How do YOU deal with it when you feel that God is just letting all kinds of hard things happen to you and/or loved ones close to you--yet you know you are following Him as hard as you can?
I am NOT dealing with it well just at the moment.
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/13/2008 10:00:12 AM
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WaitingforBoaz
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Hugs Esther!
Here is my Temper Tantrum song. Not that you are having one. I do on occasion though and this song always helps. I hope your day gets better!!!!!
Hard to Get
~Blessings~
< Message edited by WaitingforBoaz -- 6/13/2008 10:06:45 AM >
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/13/2008 10:27:05 AM
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Lamentations 3
1 [a] I am the man who has seen affliction
by the rod of his wrath.
2 He has driven me away and made me walk
in darkness rather than light;
3 indeed, he has turned his hand against me
again and again, all day long.
4 He has made my skin and my flesh grow old
and has broken my bones.
5 He has besieged me and surrounded me
with bitterness and hardship.
6 He has made me dwell in darkness
like those long dead.
7 He has walled me in so I cannot escape;
he has weighed me down with chains.
8 Even when I call out or cry for help,
he shuts out my prayer.
9 He has barred my way with blocks of stone;
he has made my paths crooked.
10 Like a bear lying in wait,
like a lion in hiding,
11 he dragged me from the path and mangled me
and left me without help.
12 He drew his bow
and made me the target for his arrows.
13 He pierced my heart
with arrows from his quiver.
14 I became the laughingstock of all my people;
they mock me in song all day long.
15 He has filled me with bitter herbs
and sated me with gall.
16 He has broken my teeth with gravel;
he has trampled me in the dust.
17 I have been deprived of peace;
I have forgotten what prosperity is.
18 So I say, "My splendor is gone
and all that I had hoped from the LORD."
19 I remember my affliction and my wandering,
the bitterness and the gall.
20 I well remember them,
and my soul is downcast within me.
21 Yet this I call to mind
and therefore I have hope:
22 Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
24 I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him."
25 The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him,
to the one who seeks him;
26 it is good to wait quietly
for the salvation of the LORD.
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/13/2008 12:29:26 PM
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Morning, Peeps;
Feeling very low this morning. How do YOU deal with it when you feel that God is just letting all kinds of hard things happen to you and/or loved ones close to you--yet you know you are following Him as hard as you can?
I am NOT dealing with it well just at the moment.
besiderself
usually there is chocolate involved. yesterday i was having one of those "just about to get really depressed about this whole job-search" thing...so the whole drive into town, i just talked aloud to God. "i know You already know...but i'm really struggling here, Lord. i really thot i'd hear something by now...at least have a couple interviews lined up. but maybe Your hand is in that too. i mean, why go to interviews for jobs that aren't right for me? and i have had my son all week...so maybe Your plan was just for me to cherish this time with him and not be all caught up in the job search. i've sent out apps. i've networked. maybe i don't have to do anything else this week but trust You, huh? (sighhhhhhh) all i can think is...i just need Your Spirit to fill me up this morning. fill these holes of doubt. give me a spirit of Your peace. You're all i have to hang onto today, Lord."
and ya know what? it wasn't an immediate FLUSH of peace i sometimes get...but just a gentle breeze...that brought a little smile to my face. it was like God was reminding me that just moving forward with a little smile on my face, holding His hand, is good enough sometimes. it's not all PEAKS, right?
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/13/2008 1:37:12 PM
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I second that chocolate bit too.
Hmm...Chocolate and Lamentations....sounds like it could be catchy. Maybe I'll start a business!!!
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/14/2008 4:32:55 PM
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Hi Esther, I got to admit that all this time I have been reading your userhandle as Besidesherself, even though it is really besiderself instead. Funny how the mind plays tricks on you that way.
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RE: Besiderself's Batty Belfry - 6/14/2008 7:10:19 PM
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ShallbeRebuilt
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Hey, Mike...
No problem, I'm not like offended or anything...just took the opportunity
to let everyone know...
besiderself
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