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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 3:41:25 PM   
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gee whiz, good to know. I just googled "water to infants under 6 months" and got like 2 dozen sites with water intoxication articles. Makes sense with how tiny their systems are. scary.



I can't see it myself - not just with the odd occasional 1-2oz.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 3:46:13 PM   
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but it's not just about the baby getting through, it's also about the mom emptying her breasts...which isn't going to happen if you don't feed or pump at the time you need to (and IMO/E pumping was never worth it previous to going out because I still needed relief when the baby was ready for their next feeding, which meant feeding or pumping again out in public).

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 4:39:00 PM   
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You could always just buy a small nursing cover...or have someone make you one. It's really not that hard...especially if you're going to church in someone's home. Just comandeer a bedroom and simply state, "My son is hungry and unless you want a shot of boob I'll brb!"

But seriously...I would not recommend supplementing with formula if you want to continue breastfeeding...it's not necessary and he might not even take a bottle. You could just try nursing him at home more under a blanket to get him used to it if you feel you must cover completely up while you nurse 'in public'. You could also just go to your car and nurse in the backseat while Jason is inside talking after your meeting...

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 4:45:13 PM   
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Janine, just take the K'tan to a tailor, they would probably charge you $10 for the alteration(or less). Most dry cleaners have or do tailoring.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 4:48:58 PM   
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Janine, just take the K'tan to a tailor, they would probably charge you $10 for the alteration(or less). Most dry cleaners have or do tailoring.


Indeed...just put it on when there, put Jadon in it and show the seamstress or tailor where you'd like the K'Tan to land on your belly...they'll do the rest. It's so very simple!

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 4:52:27 PM   
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I'll have to take it to a tailor because my small group people who sew are gone.

See, the thing is I can Always use a bedroom, but I miss most of the meeting that way and it just seems pointless to go. It's been a month and I Need to figure out a way to 'get over it' and nurse in public.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 4:54:09 PM   
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Do you have a womens group you could test run with?

By that I mean women that won't mind if they get a little peak, if they happen to look, or that can give you the honest truth of how much you are showing? I"m thinking like a bible study group or something that isn't mixed company. They could be your test market so to speak.

Ok and never in a million years would I have thought of a tailer and the K'tan, what a great suggestion. Filing that away.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 5:02:51 PM   
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I'll have to take it to a tailor because my small group people who sew are gone.

See, the thing is I can Always use a bedroom, but I miss most of the meeting that way and it just seems pointless to go. It's been a month and I Need to figure out a way to 'get over it' and nurse in public.

If you're feeding him just before you walk out the door how on earth are you missing out on that much church?

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 5:12:57 PM   
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Janine, I would encourage you to 'just go for it'. Put on a nuring over or a blanket to latch him, and then move it. You can't spend the rest of your nursing relationship sitting at home pining over not being able to get out of the house! Do what these ladies are suggesting - practice nursing in front of a mirror or with Jason or a good friend watching. Practice every time you nurse for a few days and it shouldn't take you long to get nursing discreetly down pat.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 5:29:06 PM   
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It's a half hour drive to our small group, there is usually 20 minutes of worship, 20-40 minutes of prayer requests and so by the time we finally GET to study I have to leave mid-way through. Feeding Jadon, for me, takes 20-40 minutes.

I guess I could just let him be fussy, keep giving him the passy, and hope he sleeps on the way home and feed him once I get home.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 5:33:49 PM   
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It's a half hour drive to our small group, there is usually 20 minutes of worship, 20-40 minutes of prayer requests and so by the time we finally GET to study I have to leave mid-way through. Feeding Jadon, for me, takes 20-40 minutes.

I guess I could just let him be fussy, keep giving him the passy, and hope he sleeps on the way home and feed him once I get home.

you could also change your order of things...instead of feeding him right before you try to leave, leave earlier and feed him in the car (or another room if the people don't mind you getting there early) when you get there. You could also try letting someone other then you hold him...dad maybe....cause it might simply be that he smells you and therefore is getting hungry or wanting to nurse because of that.


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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 5:40:26 PM   
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It's a half hour drive to our small group, there is usually 20 minutes of worship, 20-40 minutes of prayer requests and so by the time we finally GET to study I have to leave mid-way through. Feeding Jadon, for me, takes 20-40 minutes.

I guess I could just let him be fussy, keep giving him the passy, and hope he sleeps on the way home and feed him once I get home.



Maybe you could give him the paci during the worship, feed him during the prayer requests (which seems to coincide with the amount of time you need for a feed!), then come back in for the study.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 5:52:51 PM   
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Sarah has a good idea... we live about 45 minutes from church, so we would leave a little early, and I would feed him in the car when we got there and then he could make it the whole service.

Do you have a bobby pillow Janine? I find that hides a lot. I used to b/f in front of hubby's family all the time, used the pillow and once he was latched, just made sure that my shirt was brought down close so they couldn't see much. And, if we needed a little more discretion, I put a blanket over my shoulder, just to cover the side view, but didn't put the blanket directly over baby.

ETA... is there a spot that you can pull a chair just outside the group, but still hear what is going on? I used to do that too in our small group, they met in the living room, I just pulled a chair behind the circle and fed him there, just out of view.

< Message edited by firefightermama -- 6/2/2008 6:00:24 PM >


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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 6:32:05 PM   
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Feed him in the car? Isn't that dangerous while driving?

I am writing your ideas down and I plan on implementing something. I THANK YOU for posting your suggestions and ideas. I really needed some outside input.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 6:39:32 PM   
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Uh, in a parked car

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 7:02:52 PM   
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I need some suggestions on a good breastfeeding book. (why am I now, at the second baby, stocking my library?) Anyhoo, I don't have a good breastfeeding reference book. Whatcha got?

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 7:18:13 PM   
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La Leche Leagues guide!!! GREAT thorough book.

I haven't read but heard good things about Dr. Sears' breastfeeding book.. maybe someone else can chime in.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 8:20:30 PM   
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Feed him in the car? Isn't that dangerous while driving?

I am writing your ideas down and I plan on implementing something. I THANK YOU for posting your suggestions and ideas. I really needed some outside input.



LOL...no, not while driving. We got to the parking lot early and parked out back and I fed him there. I kept a spare boppy pillow in the backseat.

I did eventually learn that I can breastfeed him while driving...he is in the centre of the backseat in his rear-facing car seat, and I sit in the back seat next to him and lean forward. It is not comfortable AT ALL, but it worked a couple of times we were in a pinch. And we were both still strapped in. Oh, I guess this would require someone else be driving the car

ETA... (I always think of things after I'm done posting) I often used my hand pump in the car on the way to church. After the first couple of months, we would often be in a rush to get to church, so I would pump in the car on the way while he slept and then I would have a bottle to give him when we got there. I LOVED my hand pump for that reason. Again, hubby was driving.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/2/2008 11:16:45 PM   
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IMO the most comprehensive and correct book about bfing is LLL's "The Womanly Art Of Breastfeeding"

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/3/2008 12:08:38 AM   
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I like you Yolanda. We seem to think alike. lol I can't imagine how much your back must have hurt to feed him in his carseat!!!!

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/3/2008 7:01:32 AM   
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I never did try feeding him in his carseat though a few times the thought crossed my mind. I was to concerned about what passing cars would think. We have nursed in parking lots or rest areas a lot though to get to the next destination.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/3/2008 9:01:30 AM   
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Our van has tinted windows, so I can just lean over and "git er dun!" When you are twenty minutes from home with a screaming baby while the other is still sleeping after ten hours on the road, one more stop is just more than nerves can bear- as is waking the other child...

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/3/2008 9:05:52 AM   
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I fed Hannah in the carseat several times on our last trip to Mississippi. We also have privacy-tinted windows in the back, and no way were we stopping to feed the baby if the other two kids were sleeping! I did have to unbuckle to manage it comfortably, but I was okay with that as long as I didn't have to unbuckle her.

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/3/2008 11:11:37 AM   
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It's a half hour drive to our small group, there is usually 20 minutes of worship, 20-40 minutes of prayer requests and so by the time we finally GET to study I have to leave mid-way through. Feeding Jadon, for me, takes 20-40 minutes.

I guess I could just let him be fussy, keep giving him the passy, and hope he sleeps on the way home and feed him once I get home.



Maybe you could give him the paci during the worship, feed him during the prayer requests (which seems to coincide with the amount of time you need for a feed!), then come back in for the study.



Yeah I like that idea...hold off on feeding him until you get to church and feed him during the prayer time.

quote:

You could also try letting someone other then you hold him...dad maybe....cause it might simply be that he smells you and therefore is getting hungry or wanting to nurse because of that.


Or you could just keep him in his carset if he's content. We used to do that with Hannah...I'd feed her and then if I didn't feel like holding her for the rest of the service I'd swaddle her if she was tired or just give her a couple of soft toys and strap her back into her car seat. Easy peasy!

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RE: Got Mommy's Milk, Take 6 - 6/3/2008 7:01:27 PM   
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I have another question: Learning to bf my daughter was difficult, not impossible, but difficult. For all you who have done it second, third, etc.... Is it easier the subsequent times around? I would think so, even though the baby needs to learn, you would remember, right?

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