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noblesinger -> Songs of the Noblesinger (4/19/2005 2:43:11 PM)

09:20am Mar 17, 2004

Well. So this is what Blog Town looks like. Seems to be a nice place to put down some roots, so I think I'll do just that.

Actually, I've been hanging around here for a few days now, just reading some of your Blogs: Christine, Ellie-Mae, Fritz, Lisa, etc. I have found them to be entertaining, informative, and just plain sweet. It's my hope that you find mine to be the same ways.

There will be many items finding their way into this Blog: songs that are currently speaking to my heart (Hence the name. Get it?), notes from my Pastor's sermons, things gleaned from the Scriptures, my thoughts and feelings on current events...you know, kinda like my regular Posts. It's just that I'll have bit more leeway about their length, but will still keep the TOS in mind when it comes to their content.

OK, that's enough rambling for now! I pray that these words may be a blessing to you all. Bye, y'all!!

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/19/2005 2:49:34 PM)

10:18am Mar 18, 2004

You know that it’s an election year when our roadsides, front yards, utility poles, mailboxes, and airwaves become polluted with that most annoying of all things created – the political ad.

Mary and I both keep our finger on the ‘Mute’ button while we’re watching TV. They can be so pushy. Blessedly, since I primarily listen to K-LOVE on my car & truck radios, I’m spared from that “fate worse than death,” although I do hear them when I listen to Rush Limbaugh.

These “Vote for Me” signs, card, flyers, etc. really kill me. They all promise more jobs, better schools, safer neighborhoods, affordable health care, etc., etc., ad nauseum. And they also tell you how their opponent is a no-good, lying, slimeball, so don’t vote for them. Give me an everlovin’ break! What they need to tell you is how they plan on paying for this increased governmental spending – on your backs, by way of tax increases!

Speaking of politics, a Massachusetts senator spent some time in Huntington, WV. He sat in a booth at Jim’s Steak and Spaghetti House, spoke to the people and made some friends. His initials are JFK. Think I’m talking about John Forbes Kerry? Wrong-o, tiny ones! I’m speaking of John Fitzgerald Kennedy. 44 years ago, John Kennedy came to West Virginia, went to this restaurant in Huntington, and ended up in the White House. Now John Kerry is trying to follow in his footsteps; he came to WV on Tuesday, went to Jim’s, sat in the same booth, put a 7 year-old boy on his lap, signed an autograph, and spoke to the folks that were there. He seemed charming…at least on the surface. But it’s what lies underneath that worries me about him.

During a speech later that night in Charleston, Sen. Kerry criticized Pres. Bush’s ads by saying, in true liberal doublespeak, “I voted for the military appropriations bill…and then I voted against it.” Huh? How could you do both, Sen. Kerry, then still claim to be pro-military? There are so many inconsistencies in this man that it’s ridiculous. Don’t let this man anywhere near the White House, unless it’s to receive a briefing from its current occupant, George W. Bush.!

Well, that's enough "politickin'" for now. Hopefully, nothing else will push my hot buttons for awhile! See you all later!

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 10:54:42 AM)

11:00am Mar 19, 2004

I told you that one of the things that might find its way into these pages are songs that are really speaking to me. Back on the 29th of February, one such song got through my defenses.

It was our week to sing with our Praise Band, and Mary and I were looking forward to giving the Father our offerings of praise and worship as well as leading the rest of the congregation into His glorious Presence. At practice on Thursday evening, we got the order for the set. One of the songs jumped out at me, because it’s one of my favorites. “Come And See,” written by Graham Kendrick, is a simply gorgeous song. It invites people to come and look at the One being whipped and beaten, mocked, spat upon…all for our sake. With the movie The Passion of The Christ out, and it getting closer to Easter, I knew that this song would really speak to the hearts of our church. What I didn’t know was, that God was about to break through all of the noise and clatter of my life and remind me of the fact that it was my sin, my fallen nature, my evil thoughts, my sickness that was nailed to the Cross that day.

This song was done as the Offertory that morning, with me doing the first 2 verses and choruses, then one of my best friends taking the lead on Verse 3 and me adding harmony. As I began to sing, the Holy Spirit moved me to very gently weep as I considered the words that were coming from my lips. It turned out to be a “holy moment,” because when we finished, instead of applause, there was only silence. I was absolutely drained emotionally by the experience. I hope that as you read the words, you, too, will be reminded of just why He died, and be moved to worship.

COME AND SEE (Graham Kendrick)
Come and see, come and see – Come and see the King of Love
See the purple robe and crown of thorns He wears
Soldiers mock, rulers sneer, as He lifts the cruel cross
Lone and friendless now, He climbs up toward the hill

WE WORSHIP AT YOUR FEET
WHERE WRATH AND MERCY MEET
AND A GUILTY WORLD IS WASHED BY LOVE’S PURE STREAM
FOR US HE WAS MADE SIN – O HELP ME TAKE IT IN!
DEEP WOUNDS OF LOVE CRY OUT, “FATHER, FORGIVE!”
I WORSHIP, I WORSHIP THE LAMB WHO WAS SLAIN

Come and weep, come and mourn for Your sin that pierced Him there
So much deeper than the wounds of thorn and nail
All our pride, all our greed – All our fallenness and shame
And the Lord has laid the punishment on Him!

Man of heaven, born to earth to restore us to Your heaven
Here we bow in awe beneath Your searching eyes
From Your tears comes our joy – From Your death our life shall spring
By Your resurrection power we shall rise!



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:13:02 PM)

60 10:47pm Mar 20, 2004

Speaking of "The Passion of the Christ," Mary and I finally went and saw it this afternoon. To say that it was sobering is the understatement of the year. I was reminded, once again, that Jesus was not a wimp. I have heard Christianity referred to as a "religion for wimps." Well, the persons who say that obviously don't know what they're talking about. For Jesus to go through the beating and the flogging and the carrying of His cross, and not scream in utter agony...that's not the behavior of any wimp I've heard of. I've said all along that Jesus was more of a man than any of the so-called "real men" that I've met.

One thing that bothered me about "The Passion" was at the end. It's only a minor point, but I don't think that at the Resurrection, Jesus would have had a blank look on His face like Jim Caveziele did. I can imagine Him having this triumphant smile like no one had ever seen before, or will until the End of All Things. Other than that minute point, I thought that it was a brilliant movie. The cinematography is magnificent, the music is excellent, and the costumes & makeup were incredible. I really thought that Jim' body had been laid open by the whips. That is the mark of somone who knew their craft!
And as for coming out of the theater filled with hatred towards the Jews, as is the fear of the ADL, I did come out filled with hatred - of myself. As I said in my last Post, it was my sin, my fallen nature, my evil thoughts, my sickness that caused God to send His only Son to the Cross. It was for His ultimate Glory that Jesus went to Calvary to redeem me, and Mary, and Kimmie, and Christine, and all of the rest of us. And that is the most amazing thing that I've ever heard!

Gotta go now! I need my beauty sleep before church tomorrow morning. Happy First Day of Spring everybody!

Duane

"Ordinary fruit, extraordinary work; The Blood of Jesus poured out for me. Take and drink, taste and see; This fruit becomes the breath of God in me." "Taste And See The Lord is Holy," by Lyle Helmick, copyright 2002



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:15:51 PM)

03:28pm Mar 25, 2004

Good grief! I didn't realize that it had been 5 days since I last Posted here. That's entirely too long an interval, so I'll give you an update on what's going on.

Sunday was kind of a mixed bag around here weather wise; rain, snow, cold winds & temps, with a little bit of sunshine...but not nearly enough for me! It also was a bad day in that my Mom and I had a bit of an argument on Saturday evening, which she wanted to hang on to on Sunday morning. She informed Mary and I that she wasn't going to church and that she wasn't cooking. We could do whatever we wanted. That really put a damper on the emotional part of my day, but not on the spiritual.

Then, during Sunday School, my Pastor brought up Friday's verdict by the Methodist Church in Washington concerning that lesbian "pastor." The last word was typed with my fingers firmly in my cheek, in case you couldn't tell. Excuse me, but what were those people thinking?!?! First of all, I'm ashamed to say that a retired Methodist minister from West Virginia was sitting in charge of that court. I must say that he is going to have a lot to answer for on Judgement Day, because Scripture tells us that bishops/elders, meaning preachers, are under a stiffer standard of judgement. Secondly, how can any born-again Christian read the Bible and say that it doesn't condemn homosexuality? That's utterly impossible to my way of thinking. It just goes to show the level of biblical illiteracy in this nation. Woe to us!

Last night after I returned home from Bible Study and Choir Practice, I looked at my e-mail and found an urgent Press Release from West Virginians For Life. It seems that our "illustrious" governor, Bob Wise, vetoed the Unborn Victims of Violence Act. Commonly referred to as our version of the "Laci Peterson Bill," it would have made the killing of an unborn baby through traffic accidents, murder, assault on the mother, etc., a punishable offense. It never mentioned abortion at all, only crimes against the mother. I personally believe that abortion is a crime against the mother as well as the unborn baby, but that's for another day. I'm so glad that this man isn't running for a second term. There's no telling what he might pull in the next 4 years! BTW, he would have been running except for one little thing: he got caught in an affair and pulled out of the race. Rumors were flying last summer, and by the early fall they'd been proven true. His mistress quit her job in the government, and he is trying to put his marriage back together. I’m just not sure if he's asking Jesus for His help in doing that. In a funny and delicious twist, the ex-husband of the mistress...is running for governor! Can you believe it?! He doesn't stand a snowball's chance in a blast furnace, but it's still funny as all get out!

I guess that enough for now. I'll see you folks later!

Duane

"Ordinary fruit, extraordinary work; The Blood of Jesus poured out for me. Take and drink, taste and see; This fruit becomes the breath of God in me." "Taste And See The Lord is Holy," by Lyle Helmick, copyright 2002




noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:19:36 PM)

01:20pm Apr 1, 2004

Sorry for not posting for the last 7 days, gang! My life has been a bit crazy lately; minor glitches with my home PC's modem, the annual Missions Conference at church (which Mary and I only made it to one night of, due to just feeling kinda achy and out of sorts), then I got a call at the office on Monday that CSX Railroad was going to be upgrading a crossing beginning at 8:30 Tuesday morning, which means no time to even check in here at Crosswalk. I've got to tell you all about that last little blurb.

As part of my duties as a Utilities Inspector, I'm required to be present whenever the 2 railroads that run through WV (CSX and Norfolk Southern) do any kind of upgrade to their crossings, such as new lights, gates, crossbucks (you know, those 'X' symbols that read "RAILROAD CROSSING"? Relax, I'm not shouting. That's how they're printed - in all caps.) Well, for the last two days, I have literally not stopped to go to the john here at the office. I've run in the door, signed in, grabbed a cup of coffee, and hit the road. It takes about 30 minutes to drive to this particular location, which is near one of my favorite golf courses. Thinking that I'd go over and hit a few balls that I'm testing out for a manufacturer (that's another Post!), I packed the balls and two clubs in my trunk on Monday evening. Tuesday morning, I get up and what do I find? It's drizzling rain! The weather system is practically stalled over WV and OH, which is making for two really lousy, dreary days. And to top it all off, the railroad crew didn't get started until late yesterday morning, then were unable to finish the job, saying they'd be back this morning to complete it. I go out there again today, arrive on site at about 8:10...and proceed to wait until 10:20 for these Bozos to show up! AAUUUUGGGGHHHH!!! Then they just put some bags of temporary asphalt down to smooth out the transition over the tracks. I was told that their boss would call me next week when it would be finished. For cryin' out loud! Is this any way to run a railroad? Oh well. I must tell myself, "I'm a tree! I can bend in the wind!"

Gotta go for a few minutes. I'll be back to Post a copy of an e-Mail I got from Jerry Falwell. See ya!

Duane

"Ordinary fruit, extraordinary work; The Blood of Jesus poured out for me. Take and drink, taste and see; This fruit becomes the breath of God in me." "Taste And See The Lord is Holy," by Lyle Helmick, copyright 2002



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:24:54 PM)

01:41pm Apr 1, 2004

I told you I'd be back! Just had something I had to do first.

I received this e-Mail this morning from Jerry Falwell, though I'm not sure how I ended up on his mailing list in the first place. But, anyway, after reading it I thought that it would be good to share with all of you. I consider Alan Keyes to be one of the most brilliant men in America today. The fact that he's a brother in Christ is just the icing on the cake! Why he isn't a part of the Bush Administration I'll never understand! I hope that you all enjoy reading it as much as I did!

Duane


Falwell Confidential
Date: March 31, 2004
From: Jerry Falwell

KEYES SAYS CHRISTIANS MUST BATTLE 'NEW ERA OF OPPRESSION'

On Wednesday, Dr. Alan Keyes electrified a packed audience of students and faculty during a special Liberty University convocation service. Mere words cannot do justice to the passionate Dr. Keyes' discourse in which he told students to uncompromisingly live out their faith in the social and political worlds in order to halt the modern-day movement to silence Christian expression - and even the mere appearance of Christian faith - in the public square.

The theme of Dr. Keyes' address was that the fundamental truth of the authority of God has been willfully forgotten and shunned by many leaders in our nation. Subsequently, Christians have been cast as second-class citizens who are characteristically accused of being hate-mongers solely because they embrace the truth of the Bible.

"We can't build a house on shaky foundation and expect it to stand," Dr. Keyes admon-ished, utilizing a biblical context. He said that while our Founders built this nation on godly principles, we continue to witness the deterioration of our rights as leftist politicians and judicial activists attempt to cast the nation in their image - the image of secularism.

Dr. Keyes, who served as U.S. ambassador to the United Nations Economic and Social Council in the Reagan administration, said that in virtually every component of our lives, we are abandoning our foundation.

"We walk down a path that must and will lead to ... a new era of oppression for us and for all of human kind," he said, clearly stating what the future holds for people of faith if we continue to allow our rights to be eradicated.

"We are at the end of our rope as a free people," he continued as the rapt audience reflected on his ardent warning. "We either turn around or this must happen - there is no way to avoid it."

But Dr. Keyes offered a solution to the soulless invasion of secularism that is being forced on America. He said the simple solution is that we must look to Christ in the "confrontation of evil."

"Like [Christ's] disciples when He sent them out to preach to the lost sheep of Israel, we must be ready for all of the challenges we must face," he said, pulling no punches on the fact that people of faith will face even more aggressive persecution if we choose to rise up against the growing tide of abject secularism.

Dr. Keyes told of the recent rally he and I attended for Chief Justice Roy Moore, citing him as an example of what can happen when we stand up for our faith.

"What did the chief justice do wrong?" he asked. "He simply refused to give up his right to acknowledge God almighty." As a result, he lost his job. Chief Justice Moore's case served as a reminder to all Christians, he said, that we are confronted with the fact that we are being compelled to accept social policies that directly counter what the Bible teaches us.

"The comfortable life is over for Christians in America," Dr. Keyes advised, again referring to a biblical passage supporting this notion: "And ye shall be hated of all men for my name's sake" (Matthew 10:42). Dr. Keyes then suggested that Christians will one day face bona fide persecution because we refuse to give up our right to believe in and live out the Word of God.

He utilized this stark warning in order to encourage those present to be politically active and informed voters who step into the voting booth ready to elect officials who reflect the godly principles we love. The only people who can sustain our freedoms, he said, are those people who live in the basis of a trust in God. He also deeply criticized "so-called Christian voters" who often believe we can afford to choose "the lesser of two evils" in political terms.

"In Christian patriotism," Dr. Keyes advised, "the Christian comes first."

"We must be uncompromising in the insistence of our rights to worship and acknowledge Him as a free people - not only in our thoughts, but in our actions," Dr. Keyes added.

Finally, Dr. Keyes encouraged young people in the audience to not only be politically active, but to go out into the world with the idea of making a positive impact on the culture.

"If we are truly Christian patriots ... we must show that true love that ought to be characteristic of the Christian heart. [This nation] started out with a treasure trove of truth - the authority of the Word of God. We must be a reminder of the truths of that great treasure ... so that once again our nation can be made whole on the basis of that foundation. ... If it does not begin with us, that foundation will be permanently destroyed."

He warned that such action will "require sacrifice," but "we must stand for it in our citizenship if this country is to be saved."



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:28:06 PM)

01:38pm Apr 2, 2004

Some of you may be wondering why I use portions of songs in my Siggy line. Well, the reason is actually very simple: because I can! LOL! No, seriously though, it's because God sometimes is able to speak to me faster through a song's lyrics than anything - except, of course, His Word. It may be due to the fact that music is so much a part of my life, starting with my name.

You probably have heard the story of how I came to be known around here as "Noblesinger" - my Dad named me Albert (which means "noble") after his Dad, and Duane (meaning "singer" or "song") after his boyhood friend, the man who became my godfather. So music was destined to be a big part of my very existence from the start.

I began singing along with the radio and my records at an early age, and it has just grown from there. Children's choirs, Adult church choir, plus junior high and senior high school choirs led me to entering Marshall University as a Music Education major. It wasn't that I wanted to be a teacher, but that was the only way at the time you could go into the music program. That has since been changed, just too late for me. Nuts!

After leaving school about a year-and-a-half following the death of my Dad (more on that later), I got involved with the new youth fellowship at church. In addition to the Bible studies we did, we also formed a youth choir, called "In His Presence", that performed at churches in the area, and even some out of the area, such as Winston-Salem, NC and Stone Mountain, GA. I reached the upper age limit of that group when I turned 26, so for a long time I had to be content with singing in the Adult choir. But God was preparing me for a real life-changing experience during that time. More on that later!

Duane

"Ordinary fruit, extraordinary work; The Blood of Jesus poured out for me. Take and drink, taste and see; This fruit becomes the breath of God in me." "Taste And See The Lord is Holy," by Lyle Helmick, copyright 2002



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:33:19 PM)

10:05am Apr 6, 2004

I often wonder about why God allowed my life to take the turns that it has: moving from the place of my earliest memories to a city I was familiar with, but where I knew no one but family; being picked on in 7th grade for wearing a flat-top when every other guy has let his hair grow longer; getting a paying part in a summer production of two musicals, only to lose it after one week because they told me I was too immature; losing my Dad to suicide when I was 19 years old; throwing a "pity party" for a year and a half, then being asked not to return to college (at least not full time); plus other incidents that are too numerous to mention. But then I'm drawn back to something I learned at our Missions Conference 2 or 3 years ago - "It's all about His Glory. Not ours." And that pretty much settles the conflict within me for awhile.

I was writing earlier about a life-changing experience, so I'll pick up the story again now. In 1995, our Pastor, Nate Atwood, was moved by the Lord to get a group of men together for a trip to Atlanta for a Promise Keepers rally. I hadn't planned to go, but something kept gnawing at the back of my mind about it, so I paid my money and went. We left Cross Lanes at 5:30 on Friday, June 30th. Arriving at the Georgia Dome just in time for the opening session, we took some seats in the upper deck. During the praise & worship, I heard the rain start falling on the roof. It wasn't too long after that that the power briefly went out. Now that was a real trip - to be sitting in that huge arena with the lights out! It only lasted a few seconds, but the lights never fully came back up the rest of the night. Before we left, we were told that Jack Hayford would be not only speaking the next morning, but would be leading worship as well. I was looking forward to that, because I greatly appreciated his music writing ability as well as his preaching.

The next morning, Pastor Jack, began leading over 67,500 men in worship, and the Spirit fell upon us in a big way. I was in tears before he ever started preaching. His text was from Exodus 3, where Moses turned aside to see the burning bush. By the time he stopped, I was a blubbering mess; weeping almost uncontrollably, in great heaves and sobs, as the Spirit of God did a major work in my life. He showed me that I had a lot of "head knowledge" about worshipping Him, but that it needed to get from my head to my heart, and He was about to accelerate the process. The rest of that day was filled with moments of instruction that radically altered my thinking. As we drove back home that night, so that we could be back in time for church, Nate told us that we were going to be the sermon; he wasn't preaching. There were about 6-7 of us who were chosen to share some of our observations, feelings, experiences, whatever, at the morning service. I was one of them, and I simply told what had happened to me. I could see that puzlement on the faces of some people when I stood up, so I said something that turned out to be rather prophetic: "You may be wondering why a single guy would go to Promise Keepers? Simple. I wanted to learn what it takes to be a real man, so that my wife would not have to suffer while I learned them during the early years of our marriage."

That was July 2nd. In October of that year, Pastor Nate prayed with me that I would be able to accept being single, if that was God's will, but also that I would find my life's mate. The next morning, while praying on my way to work, I surrendered my dream of being married. I saw myself opening my hands and releasing a dove, which I knew immediately was my desire to be a husband. But I also realized that, if God willed it, that the dove would come back to me. By February of '96, Mary and I were dating again (after 5-1/2 years apart!); in April, I asked her to marry me, and she said "Yes!"; in June we told Mom, and in August she gave us her blessing by giving me the diamonds from her rings to have remounted as Mary's engagement ring.

See? I told you it was life changing experience! I firmly believe, to this day, that if I hadn't gone to PK '95...I would not be married. It was that radical a work that God did!

Well, that's enough for now. See ya later!

Duane

"Ordinary fruit, extraordinary work; The Blood of Jesus poured out for me. Take and drink, taste and see; This fruit becomes the breath of God in me." "Taste And See The Lord is Holy," by Lyle Helmick, copyright 2002



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 1:36:24 PM)

12:11pm Apr 7, 2004

Once again, God has broken through to me by way of a song. I recently purchased the newest WOW Worship CD (Red), and there's a song on it from Mark Schultz. Written by Charlie Hall, it's entitled "Give Us Clean Hands," and BOY! is it powerful! It is swiftly becoming one of my favorite songs, and I've only had it for a week! It speaks of setting aside all of the things that we set up in our lives that can become idols, and asking God to purify us. Let these words really sink in and ask yourself if there's anything you need to lay down.


Give Us Clean Hands

We bow our hearts
We bend our knees
Oh Spirit come make us humble
We turn our eyes
From evil things
And Oh Lord we cast down our idols.

(Chorus)
So give us clean hands
Give us pure hearts
Let us not lift our souls to another
Give us clean hands oh God
Give us pure hearts
Let us not life our souls to another

And oh God let us be
A generation that seeks
Seeks your face
Oh God of Jacob
And oh God let us be
A generation that seeks
Seeks your face
Oh God of Jacob

We bow our hearts
We bend our knees
Oh Spirit come make us humble
We turn our eyes
From evil things
And Oh Lord we cast down our idols.

(repeat chorus 2x)



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 9:34:39 PM)

11:44am Apr 13, 2004

I just finished reading Fritz's entry in his Blog. It led me to read Dr. Mohler's entry as well. I have been thinking about much the same things lately, as I hear the evening news or check out the Christian news that I find here on .

My mind almost immediately leaps to righteous anger, as well as utter incredulity, at the total lack of Biblical understanding and knowledge in US churches. It makes me wonder whether or not the people have even read the Bible, let alone heard it preached from the pulpits. But at the same time, my heart also grieves for these people. They prove out the Scripture which says, "Claiming to be wise, they became fools," (Rom. 1:22 ESV). In fact, that whole section of Romans 1 is played out in their behavior. Look at what I mean:

[18] For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. [19] For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. [20] For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. [21] For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. [22] Claiming to be wise, they became fools, [23] and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.

[24] Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, [25] because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen.

[26] For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; [27] and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

[28] And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. [29] They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, [30] slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, [31] foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. [32] Though they know God's decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them. (Rom. 1:18-32 ESV)

See what I mean? I think that a "perfect" example of this sort of behavior is described in this month's issue of Charisma Magazine. The editor, J. Lee Grady, has a column each month called "The First Word." I'm posting the link to their on-line version so that you can read it for yourself. Entitled "Heretics Among Us", it gives some details of a gathering of "leaders" who have, in my opinion, gone off the deep end in their beliefs. I won't say any more than that. Just read this: Heretic Among Us

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 9:43:21 PM)

10:04pm Apr 17, 2004

I told you recently about my friend and former Praise Band leader, Lyle Helmick, and his songwriting abilities. Here's a song that he wrote about 10-12 years ago, called "Wonderful Counselor":

CHORUS
Wonderful, Counselor,
The Prince of Peace,
Almighty God,
The Great I Am,
The Son of David,
Holy, Holy Lord

Because You are the great I Am
In reverence to Your name
I lift my hands to worship You
In an attitude of praise
Just because You are
The Sovereign, Mighty God
We praise You in the sanctuary
Just because You are
Magnificent, remarkable
The awesome Mighty God.

CHORUS

This next one was written about 7-8 years ago, and was recorded by Lyle on a worship album in late 2002.

Give Me A Soft Heart
Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
An ear to hear what Your Spirit said.
Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
Prepare me, Lord, to go where I am led.

Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
An ear to hear what Your Spirit said.
Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
Prepare me, Lord, to go where I am led.

Go, I will go where You lead me.
Stay, I will stay where You say.
Teach my heart to hear You,
Through Your eyes to see;
Teach my mouth to praise You,
Teach my heart to sing.

Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
An ear to hear what Your Spirit said.
Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
Prepare me, Lord, to go where I am led.

Go, I will go where You lead me.
Stay, I will stay where You say.
Teach my heart to hear You,
Through Your eyes to see;
Teach my mouth to praise You,
Teach my heart to sing.

Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
An ear to hear what Your Spirit said.
Give me a soft heart, open eyes,
Prepare me, Lord, to go where I am led.
Prepare me, Lord, to go where I am led.
Prepare me, Lord, to go where I am led.

These are just two of the many songs that God has ministered to me with through the pen and guitar of Lyle Helmick. If you would like to possibly learn more of Lyle's ministry, log on to the Web at www.kpc.org and browse the pages. And if you're ever in Va. Beach, I'm sure that you would be welcome at their services.

Well, it's just after 11 o'clock and I need to go to bed. Tomorrow is the Lord's Day, so let's go to His house eagerly anticipating what He is going to do in us.

Duane

"Ordinary fruit, extraordinary work; The Blood of Jesus poured out for me. Take and drink, taste and see; This fruit becomes the breath of God in me." "Taste And See The Lord is Holy," by Lyle Helmick, copyright 2002



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 9:47:53 PM)

02:28pm Apr 23, 2004

I've been putting off Posting this for a couple of days, but I guess I'd better do it now so that my Blog doesn't go the way of the dodo bird...extinct!

I was able to help welcome home some of our heroes the other evening. One of the brothers from our church is part of the 321st Ordinance Battalion, and they have been over in Kuwait for 15 months. It's been hard on his wife and their 2 sons, Joshua and Matthew - Matt especially. He's the youngest (9, I think) and really loves his Dad. The Body has done what we could, but no one can quite take a father's place. It was so good to be able to take part in the Welcome Home party that the families threw. Our church was asked to provide some of the food, and Mom made chicken salad and tuna salad croissants.

Our guys arrived back in the States at Fort Hood early last week and had to undergo some debriefing or something, which delayed their departure for WV until Tuesday morning. And the Army didn't even have a plane for these guys. They gave them a bus to ride on all the way from Uncabeeil Land (New Jersey for the uninformed)! Gofigya! Anyway, they left early Tuesday morning and right from the git-go there were problems...bus problems. As in overheating and such things. What was a long ride anyway became a 14 hour ordeal. But these guys were just so glad to be coming home that it really didn't matter that much to them. They were given a State Police escort from the Maryland-West Virginia border, and the cell phones were burning battery power all the way. Our district Congresswoman and the Philanderer, I mean Governor, were there, along with the local news media; it turned into quite a shindig!

One really neat thing happened while we were waiting in our car. Mom, Mary, and I had grabbed some Mickey D's food and sat in the parking lot to scarf it down. When it began to get close to the time for them to arrive (originally), we saw an Army officer come to his vehicle to leave. Mom asked him if the reception was just for the family or could anyone go in. He told us that anyone could go in, but you had to sign in at the front desk. This 1 question led to a nice conversation with Major Cook, who told us that he was a Christian and had really appreciated the prayers back here at home. We spoke at length with him before we went in to the Armory. One thing he told us was that this particular HQ was in charge of multiple units from a number of surrounding state, and some of the men returning home had been staged here from other states. This meant that they had no familiar face to welcome them home. Major Cook asked us to watch for guys just kinda standing off to the side, then go up and shake their hand and say "Welcome Home, soldier! Thanks for your service!" We did just that.

As the bus drew close, we were told to go outside to the back of the building where the bus would pull around to. The crowd was fairly thick, and young Matt couldn't see a thing, so I asked him if he'd like to get up on my shoulders so he'd be able to see his Daddy. That was like asking Garfield if he wanted some more lasagna! Quick as a wink, he was in behind me and climbing up. I stood there for about 15 minutes with this highly anxious young boy on my shoulders, and you couldn't have paid me enough money to trade him from me to you! I felt so wonderful, just being able to allow Matt to see his Daddy when he got off the bus. Finally, the bus pulled in and the crowd went nuts. I waited until I saw Rick, Matt's dad, in the aisle, then I said, "Matt, he's coming off in a minute. You want to go hug him?" Another dumb question! He was off me faster than greased lightning and making a beeline for Rick. That sight brought tears to my eyes, needless to say. There were hugs all around for all of his family (including his twin brother), then the rest of us got in on the act. What a time it truly was!

I've thought about it since Tuesday, and I realized how much like it, yet how different it will be, when we are all "welcomed home" by our great Family, the Body of Christ that has gone on before us. We'll see all of our ancestors, the people who gave us such a legacy of faith, and all of our dear friends too. But then, the crowd is going to part, and the One Who is altogether lovely, the One Who loved us with an everlasting love, the One Who gave His life for ours, our Elder Brother...Jesus...is going to come into view. He'll walk up to us, pick us up from our knees where we fell when we first caught sight of Him, and He'll hug us tight and say, "Welcome Home, child! It's so good to see you! I've been waiting for you since before time began! You and I will have much to talk about and we have all eternity to do it. But for now, enter into My rest! You've made it to the Place you were created for, the Home that you caught little glimpses of and heard little bits of it's Songs as you struggled in the Shadowlands. No longer, however! You have come home."

I don't know about you, but I can't wait for that day!

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/21/2005 9:55:04 PM)

08:56pm May 2, 2004

I'd like to Post another song from my friend, Lyle. He ended up using a section of it as the chorus of the title song of his recent worship album, as well as the conferences he has been leading. BTW, I know that I haven't been doing a very good job of keeping this Blog up to date; you know, waiting 5 or 6 days between Posts. I'm going to try and correct this problem. Keep praying for me! Here's the song:

Your Name is ADONAI

Darkness and great fear, a flash pot and a flame
The stay within my heart, Mighty is Your name
I am not afraid, You will be my shield
My very great reward, You are the Sovereign LORD

And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
Mighty God, my righteousness, You are ADONAI
And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
Sovereign Lord, my covenant, You are ADONAI

The Lord at my right hand, a help to those in need
Your Kingdom knows no end, ever heir of everything
Lord of all the earth, high above all things
Given as my sacrifice, risen King of Kings

And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
Mighty God, my righteousness, You are ADONAI
And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
Sovereign Lord, my covenant, You are ADONAI

And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
ADONAI, ADONAI

High, high I lift Your name on high
Up, up I lift You up
High, high I lift Your name on high
Up, up I lift You up (Repeat)

And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
Mighty God, my righteousness, You are ADONAI
And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
Sovereign Lord, my covenant, You are ADONAI

And Your name is ADONAI, ADONAI
ADONAI, ADONAI, ADONAI, ADONAI

Can you begin to see why he's one of my favorite songwriters, as well as a dear friend? There beats within his heart a love for the Lord that is just huge. I hope that you will indulge me as I introduce more of his work to you.

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:20:25 AM)

09:35pm May 9, 2004

Here it is another week between Posts. This is starting to annoy me. Why is it that all of my good intentions concerning keeping up with this Blog are falling by the wayside? Could it be something to do with the Scripture that says, "For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing." (Rom 7:19 ESV)?

I told everyone at Kimmie's Bistro about what my wife, Mary, and I are going to be doing this weekend. We will be attending the Family Life "Weekend to Remember" Marriage Confer-ence at the Charleston Marriott Hotel, spending 2 nights there. It's really going to be good for us. We have a good marriage, but we want to make it better. It's kind of like a house that you're thinking of purchasing. It looks fabulous on the outside, but on the inside there can be some problems. Or better yet, your own body. You feel great, but upon having some blood work or other tests, you discover a problem that was going undetected. That's why we want to go for this weekend. Well...that, and the fact that we're spending 2 nights in a very nice hotel!

Gotta go! See ya!

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:22:57 AM)

09:07am May 14, 2004

I was watching "Good Morning America" this morning and was very disturbed by something that I saw and heard. Michael Berg, the father of Nicolas Berg, the young American whose brutal beheading has shocked and saddened us all, said that his son died for the crimes of George Bush.

Excuse me? Did Pres. Bush rob a bank? Knock over a liquor store or 7-11? Did he run a homosexual brothel in an apartment (think back to Rep. Barney Frank)? No. He did none of these things. All he has done is to seek to rid the world over terrorism, thus making our country and the world a safer place. But Mr. Berg seems to equate President Bush's efforts with those of al-Queda. Yes, al-Queda! The very group whose maniacal leader, Osama Bin Laden, plotted and carried out the attacks of Septemeber 11, 2001.

Now, I can certainly understand Mr. Berg is distraught over the loss of his son, but to link George W. Bush with Osama Bin Laden is nothing short of stupid in my book. If I were to dig a little bit, I would probably find out that Mr. Berg is a registered Democrat who supports John Kerry. But, then again, I could be getting my morning exercise by jumping to a conclusion. If I'm wrong, then I sincerely apologize to everyone.

I grieve for Nicholas Berg. He was an innocent American citizen, seeking to help rebuild Iraq and make a little cash, but he ended up losing his life because of some evil men. Men who hate all Americans, simply because we are Americans. They hate us because of our support for Israel, our exporting of filth through pornography, but most importantly, because of our Christian heritage. Satan is the driving force behind the Islamic religion, and he is the one who is making these men to be so filled with hate. If Mr. Berg wants to be angry at anyone, let him be angry at Satan. But he probably doesn't even believe that he exists. I pray that Mr. Berg comes to his senses...very soon.

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:26:03 AM)

07:42pm May 16, 2004

Well, the "Weekend to Remember" is over. Mary and I really had a blessed time. I took the entire day off so that we wouldn't feel rushed. I took Mom to the beauty shop at noon, then Mary and I ate lunch at Golden Corral. That made sure that we were full enough to now need to eat until after the first night's session.

We checked into the Marriott at around 5 o'clock, got to our room, then relaxed for awhile till the first session began. The topic was on "The 5 Threats to Oneness": Difficult adjustments, the world's pattern, selfishness, inevitable difficulties and trials, and extramarital "affairs." Those affairs are not only the one we're familiar with (Love), but others like Activities, Materialism, Career, and Family.

After room service pizza and a night's sleep, we began Day 2. Session Two was on "God's Purpose for Oneness", Session 3 was on "God's Plan for Oneness", Session 4 was "God's Power for Oneness", Session 5 was "Resolving Conflict", Session 6 was a separated one; "The Husband's/Wife's Responsibility for Oneness", and the last one was "Sexual Intimacy". Whew!! That was a lot of stuff to absorb, but we did it! And would you believe that we were out of there by 5:15 pm? After talking with our friends on the staff team and asking them to witness our covenant to strive for oneness in our marriage, it was "Date Night". Mary and I changed our clothes (I did take a break to watch the Preakness), then we went to dinner. I gave her the choice between two of her favorite restaurants: Bennigan's and Olive Garden. She chose Bennigan's so she could get Death By Chocolate for dessert. After a wonderful meal, we looked around the mall for a bit. She tried to find an outfit with the money her Dad gave her for her birthday (which is today by the way! Happy Birthday, Sweetheart! ), but she couldn't. We went back to the hotel and relaxed; she watched a movie while I took a dip in the pool and the whirlpool. Then we retired for the night. Unfortunately, the bed was a bit too soft for my tastes, so I didn't sleep well either night. But I was with my darling wife, so it evened itself out.

This morning, we checked out at around 7 and came home to eat breakfast then headed for church. Afterwards, Mom took Mary and I out for a Chinese birthday dinner for Mary. Since then, we've just kinda chilled out here at home. You know, I've got tell you guys: If you're married, I encourage you to go to a Family Life Conference - it will change your relationship. If you are engaged to be married, go to the Conference and get a head-start on your relationship. Just stay in separate rooms, OK?

Mary and I learned a lot this weekend, so I'll spend the next few days telling you about the teachings in small doses. See you later!

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:31:23 AM)

11:48am May 19, 2004

As I said earlier, Session One at our "Weekend to Remember" was on "5 Threats to Oneness." The first one out of the box was how difficult adjustments threaten a couple from becoming one. I had always been under the impression that it was the adjusting to those differences that brought a couple together; you know, kinda like how opposite magnetic poles attract each other. Yet, here I am being taught something totally different. But here's how it works:

"There is little in our culture today that encourages two people to make the difficult adjustments required to achieve marital oneness." That is a quote from the workbook we used. And after seeing some of the societal changes listed between the 20th and 21st centuries, I firmly agree. When you look at marriages and families 50 years ago, the contrast to today is startling. Once, family and home were highly valued, religion was an esteemed part of culture, we had a Judeo-Christian ethic, commitment was valued, the roles in marriage were commonly accepted, fathers were present and active, mothers were highly valued and esteemed, and kids were a blessing. As a result, family life was imperfect but intact.

Today, however, is another story entirely. And we all have seen the evidences in our books, magazines, and newspapers, but most of all in the entertainment media. TV fathers are basically buffoons, mothers are the smart ones that solve all the problems of the kids, and the kids are just half a step from being juvenile delinquents. Even the family is constantly being redefined. and if you don't believe me, remember "Murphy Brown"? Now we've got "Will & Grace" and "Friends," not to mention "Sex & the City." This is family? I don't think so! Not by God's standards, and not by mine!

Other adjustments are contrasting backgrounds (values, vocations, religion, etc.), superficial motivations ( [sm=icon_smile_sing.gif] "Feelings... [sm=icon_smile_sing.gif], sexual attraction/involvement, escape), and differing expectations (roles, expressions of love, sexual performance, and future plans).

As we learned in the book: "When couples fail to make necessary adjustments to move toward oneness, isolation is inevitable." Inevitable. There is such a ring of finality to that word. I pray that all of us will make those adjustments so that, in our marriages, "isolation is not inevitable."

More later.

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:35:05 AM)

10:00pm May 31, 2004

And now, the rantings and ravings of a lunatic mind...


Sorry for being gone for so long, gang, but I've been swamped at work and at home with things. But I think that the storm has calmed down now, so I'll get back to telling you more about our "Weekend to Remember."

Session 2 was on "God's Purpose for Oneness." Right off the bat, the first question that many people today ask was addressed: "Why marriage in the first place?" Easy. It's God's design. He designed it to be a lifetime commitment between one man and one woman, as the first social institution in life, the first system of interdependent relationships, and as the priority relationship of the family. Oneness can be defined as "being in joyful agreement with God's will and purposes," and is to be experienced on two levels: Vertically with God and horizontally with each other.

Our 1st purpose is to mirror God's image. Time Magazine (finally) recognized several years ago that boys and girls (ergo, men and women) are made differently. God did that so that together we would reflect the image of God (See Matt. 19:4-6; John 17:22-23; Eph. 5:22-33). When we mirror God's image, we experience oneness with our Creator.

Purpose 2 is to mutually complete one another (experience companionship - Gen. 2:18). Companionship replaces isolation. It's God's provision to meet our deep longing for close, intimate relationships.

Purpose 3 is to multiply a godly legacy (Gen. 1:28a). We were created to be His ambassadors who would glorify Him on earth. Marriage, which He designed, provides the divine context for having children. Oneness in marriage is necessary in order to multiply a godly legacy. Couples who multiply a godly legacy experience oneness with their children.

That's not all in that we learned in this Session, but it's late and I've got to go back to work in the morning. I'll complete this tomorrow.

Duane

"Having cancelled out the certificate of debt against me, He has taken it out of the way and nailed it to the Cross. And the blood He shed has removed the evidence against me; there's no more chains, for He freed me at the Cross." "I Am Free", by Lyle Helmick, 1997



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:38:05 AM)

12:53pm Jun 11, 2004

These last several days have been very difficult for me. One of my heroes has died. We all have been watching the almost incessant coverage of the homegoing of President Ronald Wilson Reagan. I was not a supporter when he first ran for the White House, but it wasn't long before his optimism and faith won me over. I will always be grateful to God for His providence in loaning Mr. Reagan to America for those 8 years, which made such a change in our nation.

I've spent the last couple of hours listening and watching Pres. Reagan's funeral service. It's been kind of hard to do since I'm at work, but (blessedly) there is a TV available in the Conference Room, so I've seen some of it.

I was struck by the remarks of Pres. Bush 41 and Pres. Bush 43, as well as Lady Thatcher and Prime Minister Mulroney. Mr. Bush had me in tears one moment and stitches the next, especially when he told Pres. Reagan's description of how his meeting with Desmond Tutu went: "So so!" I laughed until I couldn't see straight! Brian Mulroney's remarks were touching, especially the part about how he and Mr. Reagan were waiting on their wives, and when they finally arrived, Mr. Reagan said, "You know, Brian, for a couple of Irishmen, we married up pretty well." Lady Thatcher disturbed me when she referred to God as "the Big Guy Upstairs," but overall she was very good. They were all exceptional, but I have to believe that I've never been more proud of "W" than I am today, except for his post-9/11 speech.

This, indeed, is a President that we can all be proud of, especially taken in contrast to his predecessor. I noticed once, when President Bush made a remark about Mr. Reagan's economic policies and how they worked, he glanced slightly down and to his left.....right at Bill Clinton! That subtle gesture spoke volumes about both Clinton's lack of economic vision and the clarity of Mr. Reagan's vision.

I understand that Bill was upset that he wasn't asked to speak today, but I can understand why: he wasn't a friend of Ronald Reagan. For him to be feeling that way is indicative of what he was all about - himself. He probably thinks that Toby Keith wrote "I Wanna Talk About Me" just for him.

Well, I think I've rambled enough. I'll get back to my notes on the "Weekend to Remember" later.

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:41:57 AM)

12:55pm Jun 11, 2004

Oops! My bad! [sm=blush.gif] Clinton was to Pres. Bush's right, not his left. Except politically! [sm=crazy.gif]




noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 9:46:11 AM)

01:56pm Jun 14, 2004

Back to the marriage seminar's teachings:

The last time I Posted, I shared about God's Purposes for Oneness. I had to stop before I could finish with that topic. God's purposes for marriage are chalenged, of course, by an opposing force. We all know who that is. Satan's opposition is focused on independance from God. God chose to place mankind within the context of this spiritual battle. Why would He do such a thing as that, knowing that man would fall? Because it would accomplish His ultimate purpose - redeeming mankind and bringing glory to Himself.

There are 3 consequences suffered by man as a result of Adam's choice of indepen-dance: 1) The image of God in humanity has been defaced; 2) Marital companionship has been treatened by shame, guilt and fear, blame shifting and, a battle for control; 3) A godly legacy has been challenged by a godless legacy (Cain slaying Abel).

Satan's power is threatened by couples who are becoming one, so he concentrates his major attacks on them. If you're just being lukewarm in your efforts, just like being lukewarm in your faith, then the enemy is gonna leave you alone. But if you make the decision to go for it full bore, hang on: the battle is definitely going to heat up.
If you take away nothing else from this section, remember this simple sentence....

My Mate Is Not My Enemy!



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 10:01:53 AM)

10:23am Jun 21, 2004

Today is a day off for me. As an employee of the State of West Virginia, it's a holiday for all of us. Yesterday was the 141st anniversary of our statehood. On April 20, 1863, Pres. Abraham Lincoln signed the proclamation grating us statehood. It then went into effect 3 months later on June 20th. My great-great grandfather and great-great uncle posed for the portrait which became the Great Seal of the State of West Vriginia. Knowing these facts has made me extremely proud to be a Mountaineer, but at the same time, it saddens me to see how far my beloved state has fallen.

We are either next-to-last or last in all of the right categories, and first in all of the wrong ones. We've had three governors spend time in federal prison for various crimes, not to mention 2 House Speakers. And last year, our current governor, Bob Wise, admitted to an extra-marital affair. He chose not to seek re-election, but did stay in office.

Unfortunately, since he did remain as governor, he was able to veto a legally passed ban on partial-birth abortion. That cowardly act, and that is all that I can call it, was the last straw. I registered as a Democrat out of respect for my father when I turned voting age. But when Gov. Wise made that foolish move, I made a move as well - to the Republican Party. Not that I believe that they are a perfectly moral party, but at least they have a pro-life plank in the National platform, and they fight for many other pro-family issues as well.

I said all of that to set up this: I'd like to show you the words to the state song for WV. It's entitled "The West Virginia Hills," and was written by Mrs. Ellen King. It captures the feelings I have about our "Almost Heaven" home, and what I pray comes back to the forefront once again.

West Virginia Hills
Words by Mrs. Ellen King,
Music by H. E. Engle

1. Oh, the West Virginia hills! How majestic and how grand,
With their summits bathed in glory, Like our Prince Immanuel's Land!
Is it any wonder then, That my heart with rapture thrills,
As I stand once more with loved ones On those West Virginia hills?

CHORUS:
Oh, the hills, beautiful hills, How I love those West Virginia hills!
If o'er sea o'er land I roam, Still I'll think of happy home,
And my friends among the West Virginia hills.

2. Oh, the West Virginia hills! Where my childhood hours were passed,
Where I often wandered lonely, And the future tried to cast;
Many are our visions bright, Which the future ne'er fulfills;
But how sunny were my daydreams On those West Virginia hills!

CHORUS

3. Oh, the West Virginia hills! How unchang'd they seem to stand,
With their summits pointed skyward To the Great Almighty's Land!
Many changes I can see, Which my heart with sadness fills;
But no changes can be noticed In those West Virginia hills.

CHORUS

4. Oh, the West Virginia hills! I must bid you now adieu.
In my home beyond the mountains I shall ever dream of you;
In the evening time of life, If my Father only wills,
I shall still behold the vision Of those West Virginia hills.

CHORUS


Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 10:06:14 AM)

11:31am Jul 2, 2004

I've been so busy at work lately that I really haven't had time to work on my Blog, and I don't spend much time on the Net at home anymore. When I do, it's after 10 pm, so I'm usually popping in to check my e-mail account and my Crosswalk messages, then going to bed. Sorry about this, gang!

I do have something interesting and good to talk about right now. Monday was the 7th Anniversary of the 2nd greatest day of my life! That's right, Mary and I have been husband and wife for 7 years, and they've been quite a ride, let me tell ya! We have faced her mother's illness and eventual death, my mother's car wreck and various minor illnesses, my grandmother's death from cancer, not to mention the loss of the trailer we were living in (my b-i-l wanted it back so he could move his girlfriend in with him ) and various other stressful trials. But through it all, God has been drawing us closer and closer together. We have clung to His strong right arm, and each other, and are more in love now than we were on that wonderful day 7 years ago. I just pray that God will bless us with children...and soon! I'm not gettin' any younger, ya' know!

I had a guy at work ask me if I was getting the "Seven Year Itch," and I simply told him that I had USDA Choice Grade A prime rib waiting for me at home. Why would I want a piece of moldy, green bologna instead? Works for me!

Oh, BTW, the greatest day of my life? That's easy! The day I met Jesus! I'll get back to the seminar stuff over the weekend.

Duane



noblesinger -> RE: Songs of the Noblesinger (4/22/2005 10:09:55 AM)

08:55am Jul 7, 2004

Session 3 from the marriage seminar dealt with God's Plan for Oneness. Oneness is discovered as we receive our spouse as a gift from God.

God's Plan for Oneness can be broken down into three very simple parts, and you can remember them by just three simple words: Leave, Cleave, and Weave. They even rhyme!

Part 1: Leave - Your first responsibility is to establish independence from your parents. It must, I repeat, must, be done in the context of honor to your parents. If the only reason you want to get married is to escape a tough home situation, then you'd best rethink your plans. Mom and Dad were put on this earth as your covering, until such time as you marry with their blessing or you are persuaded that God has called you to remain single and you establish indepenence in that manner. And beware of overdepenence on your parents. Don't go head-over-heels in debt for a house and all the furnishings, then look to the folks to stock your cupboards. If they decide, on their own, to buy a bag of groceries every now and then, that's fine. Just don't expect it all of the time.

Part 2: Cleave - Your second responsibility is to establish commitment to one another. Look back at the Garden passage in Gen. 2. This illustrates the principle of cleaving to your spouse. Adam was created with an unmet need: he was alone. Have you ever thought about that? God made Adam to be alone for a purpose. First, Adam had to complete his mission of naming every animal in Creation. During the process, he was bound to have noticed that there were two of evrything...but only one of him. This caused him to realize the need that God built into him; a need that was not met by God's presence alone. Imagine that, folks: There was a need that the Presence of God Himself could not fill! And He planned it that way!! Later, God provided for that need by creating Eve. But would he receive her? That was the proverbial "$64,000 Question." It was Adam's perspective of God that enabled him to accept Eve as God's perfect provision for him. Gen. 2:23 tells us, "And the man said, 'This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man.'" This is a prime example of a cornerstone principle for marriage: We must choose to receive our spouse as God's perfect provision for us. In doing so, we must focus on God's character and His goodness in providing our spouse. Our acceptance of our spouse is NOT based on their performance. So guys, if your wife burns the toast some morning, or ladies, if hubby forgets to put the toilet seat down, here's a Reminder: They're still God's perfect provision for you. Accept 'em - warts and all.

More of this in a bit.

Duane



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