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savedbylove112 -> Well,THAT didn't work. (4/23/2008 1:22:27 PM)

I thought by being up front and honest and telling people at my job that I clearly was NOT qualified for the Web position my supervisor recommended me for (after consulting with the head Web guy about what was expected of me) and putting my hat in the ring for the newly-opened Associate Editor position, I might be moving up a bit. Instead, I was moved OUT. [:@]

I was laid off yesterday. [:(] My manager pulls me in the office around 10am and tells me--then suggests I leave THEN and come back at CLOSING to clear my desk. [8D] I was like, I don't think so, and cleared out right then. She says the magazine isn't performing as well as they hoped, they're not getting enough advertising, they're going to lay off some more people, blah blah blah. [:'(]And my manager came out and told me that, had I "stuck it out" at the Web position, I may still have a job (but I TOLD her I could NOT do it??). And according to her, they've called off the search for a new Associate Editor--but the ad is still open on Monster.com. [8|]

I hate to go out like this, and I know "all things work together for good" and all that, but I still feel like I did something to provoke this. Maybe I should have stuck it out--but I was miserable! And I KNEW that when they asked me to do something, I wouldn't be able to help, and they told me they don't have time to train me. Hanged if I do, hanged if I don't. [:'(]



Miss Giggles -> RE: Well,THAT didn't work. (4/23/2008 1:45:26 PM)

Sorry to hear that [&:]


Been in a similar situation, take it one day at a time.



debilyn -> RE: Well,THAT didn't work. (4/23/2008 3:54:03 PM)

Bummer, but ....

maybe God is opening up another avenue for you. I know you're really upset about it right now, but this really may be a way God is using to lead you down another path. God doesn't always use the "easy" way of changing things in our lives. I'll be praying for you.



redeemedsaint -> RE: Well,THAT didn't work. (4/24/2008 1:59:58 PM)

Well, you were honest and that does count for something. If you had stuck it out, you would have been miserable and eventually fired. As for this coming back and clearing your desk, why? You were right to leave and clear your things out then, not later. That doesn't make sense. I would have done the same thing. If I leave a place, I leave, I don't come back. I'll be praying for you during this time that you will find a job that fits you and that you will enjoy it.



stimulus -> RE: Well,THAT didn't work. (4/24/2008 11:19:02 PM)

As one who encouraged you to tell them the Web thing was a no-go and to apply for the associate editor position, I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope you don't hate me. [&o]

I'd be interested in knowing whether the company makes it longterm. The advertising problems they have in the magazine aren't likely to be better online, so I don't know that making the move to Web editor would have done you any good.

Anyways, I'm sorry things turned out badly for you, but I trust you'll find something better!


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ORIGINAL: savedbylove112

I thought by being up front and honest and telling people at my job that I clearly was NOT qualified for the Web position my supervisor recommended me for (after consulting with the head Web guy about what was expected of me) and putting my hat in the ring for the newly-opened Associate Editor position, I might be moving up a bit. Instead, I was moved OUT. [:@]

I was laid off yesterday. [:(] My manager pulls me in the office around 10am and tells me--then suggests I leave THEN and come back at CLOSING to clear my desk. [8D] I was like, I don't think so, and cleared out right then. She says the magazine isn't performing as well as they hoped, they're not getting enough advertising, they're going to lay off some more people, blah blah blah. [:'(]And my manager came out and told me that, had I "stuck it out" at the Web position, I may still have a job (but I TOLD her I could NOT do it??). And according to her, they've called off the search for a new Associate Editor--but the ad is still open on Monster.com. [8|]

I hate to go out like this, and I know "all things work together for good" and all that, but I still feel like I did something to provoke this. Maybe I should have stuck it out--but I was miserable! And I KNEW that when they asked me to do something, I wouldn't be able to help, and they told me they don't have time to train me. Hanged if I do, hanged if I don't. [:'(]



savedbylove112 -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (4/25/2008 1:51:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: stimulus

As one who encouraged you to tell them the Web thing was a no-go and to apply for the associate editor position, I'm really sorry to hear this. I hope you don't hate me. [&o]


Heavens, NO. [sm=shakinghead.gif] I came here asking for Godly advice from Godly people, and I truly believe I received it (how can it NOT be God's will for me to be honest about my limitations? Better they know from me know than from my foul-ups later). I deeply appreciate your insight and sincerity in helping me make sound, Godly decisions about this place. Nowhere does the Word tell me that the world will honor me when I choose to do the LORD's will--and I do believe now that owning up to my inadequacies in advance was His will, because even though it was uncomfortable at the time, afterwards I was so peaceful. I was actually starting to enjoy work again. [;)] And I made sure I told everyone who asked me, "Yes, thank you, I am very happy to be back with the magazine full-time." And that was the truth. But there must have been some unseemly chicanery going on behind the scenes--maybe my manager was upset that I backed out because it made her look bad? I dunno. All I know is, the LORD was with me when I got the news, and it wasn't until after I was all packed up and left that I started getting bitter. [:@] I would just like to be able to leave a job on my own terms, because something bigger and better was calling to me and I had the option, not because someone at my current job found some fault in me or made one up. [8|] And I told everyone, I'm one of the lucky ones--I live with my mom, and she knows what I face in the job world, so I don't have to worry about things like making mortgage and utility payments and other life urgencies. The LORD is faithful to provide, always has been, always will be. I just need to be patient and wait on Him to send me the job HE wants me at, whatever that may be. [8|]



debilyn -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (4/25/2008 9:37:32 AM)

I turned down a position at my work that I knew needed more knowledge than I had. The person they have now is so much better than I would have been. I was able to make a move to another area, which was scary at first, but seems to be a better fit. As much as I enjoyed my other job, this one is soo much more flexible (which is important to me as a parent of three).

I pray that you will have wisdom (and patience, if needed) to find that job God has prepared for you.



savedbylove112 -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/2/2008 1:34:01 PM)

Thank you all for your encouragement and prayers. I still have no job leads, but I sure am getting a lot done around the house, especially since my local Home Depot is going out of business! I am trying to keep busy so I don't get depressed thinking about losing my job and not being able to find another one. All the good jobs in my field are too far away to make the travel worth the extra pay, but Mom is insistent that I hold out for something local in my field--"I didn't send you back to college (again--SHE sent me back to college [8|] to wait tables/flip burgers/[insert the menial job of your choice here]." At least she's cool with that, but I wonder for how long that coolness will last. I got my first professional job right out of graduating college in 2004, and when that ended 9 months later, I got my next one within 2 months. It's already been over a month, and I know I'm getting antsy--plus I did some math and noticed that I'll probably run out of unemployment before the summer's over. I just keep checking the classifieds and praying. [8|]



Cloak -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/2/2008 4:08:41 PM)

I am sorry about that Savedbylove112. I've been in a situation similar to that and I can def say that in retrospect it turned out to be a blessing in disguise.

I will keep you in my prayers. God uses such situations to bring forth new blessings in our life...even when it does not make sense.

Blessings ahead! [:)]



debilyn -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/3/2008 9:23:40 AM)

Hope things will be looking up soon. Waiting can be difficult at times, but just hang in there!



rose19 -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/3/2008 10:47:10 AM)

I read over what happened to you Savedbylove112, and I'm really sorry to hear what happened. you just need to trust the Lord in this situation... when life closes the door, God opens the window... I will keep you in my prayers, and I hope you find a job that you enjoy and be able so serve God in ways you could have never imagined when you worked at that first job! Just hang in there... and God will get you through it!! --God Bless!



APZR -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/3/2008 11:31:20 AM)

Leave on a good note, ask for a reference letter, and later on when the shock settles down write a thank you letter for the years of good employment and server. Those little things will help you gain new employment, and keep a bridge intact that you may find the need to cross once again in the future.



IonMoon -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/3/2008 1:54:07 PM)

Look at it as an opportunity!

Keep in mind, searching the classifieds are about the least likely place to find a job! If you still want something in editing, are you willing to drive into NYC? You seem to be in the perfect location for finding an editing job (if you are willing to travel).

I know the extra expense/time of commuting can sometimes make it seem like it isn't worth it, but if you can find a good opportunity, you may be able to move up quickly or use that experience until you find something locally.

If not, then figure out the places in your area that could use your skills and send out resumes- even if they aren't hiring right now, they can keep you in mind in the future. Also- many larger companies now list their openings on their websites and you can apply there.

Good Luck!

Tara P



saraimay75 -> RE: Well, THAT didn't work. (6/4/2008 2:07:50 PM)

I applaud you for clearing you desk erailer (sp?) rather than later. That was a step of courage.



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