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Jeff_from_Kentucky -> RE: A woman with A PAST . . . (5/14/2008 3:13:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BlackCapnHarlock

Okay men, lets see how tough we are. Could you marry enter into a holy covenant marriage with a woman who is truly saved, truly washed, truly Holy, but who used to be a porn star?

There are women who have made that change from sexually promiscous lifestyles to the forefront of the body of CHRIST, but could you?

I don't think I could . . . I am possibly going to work on a short story about it, maybe I will share it with some of you when I'm done.


It wouldn't be easy but, with God's help I could. Jesus taught us to forgive. If the woman has truly changed, then we should forgive as well. Once she accepts Christ, she is a new creation in Christ.



Nuclear -> RE: A woman with A PAST . . . (5/15/2008 7:53:38 PM)

We are all sinners and we have ALL made mistakes. Just because a person makes more public sins than others who are behind closed doors makes no difference.

It might be hard to put that behind you to take her as a wife, but if she committed her life to Christ and made that the center of her life, she is forgiven. Just as you are. Just as I am.

God Bless.



FolkSingerBlues -> RE: A woman with A PAST . . . (5/15/2008 8:49:29 PM)

Would it be impossible for any of us? No...not impossible.

I just think it's really amusing to see people treat this like it would be "easy" with God.
That's the most entertaining quality of this whole forum.

Sexual sins are sins that don't just effect the soul impact our soul.

I'll never know what it would have been like to marry a virgin...that IS the way God intended for us to marry.
Do you think I'll EVER know the benefits of what it would have been like to follow that part of his plan?
I'm not bitter about it, I'm facing the facts and I have no regrets of the marital situation that I'm in. God has blessed our marriage in spite of both of our PASTS.

I have an awesome marriage, but with the past choices (mistatkes) both of us had made (sexually AND other ways) it's definitely added to the difficulties that a marriage has anyway. My marriage is great, but it has not been easy, even with God being placed at it's center.



D3DO -> RE: A woman with A PAST . . . (5/16/2008 2:04:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: beyond

Tell me in the back of your mind you don't wonder "did she enjoy being with the other guy(s) more than me". Sure sex is not the most impotant aspect of marriage, but it is important!



My bet is she did not "enjoy" any of that sex. IT WAS A JOB FOR MONEY! Men get into porn because of the sex, women get into it for money, and usually abuse hx. This is not some they are "enjoying" they are ACTORS.

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ORIGINAL: FolkSingerBlues

I just think it's really amusing to see people treat this like it would be "easy" with God.
That's the most entertaining quality of this whole forum.

Sexual sins are sins that don't just effect the soul impact our soul.



I definately agree with this bit of wisdom- marriage is a covenant between 2 people and God- sex is reserved for that covenant relationship. People who have extensive sexual histories (a porn star would be in the top 99% of that catagory) are going to struggle MIGHTLY with a normal relationship including sex. As I have stated previously, "retired" porn stars, are likely not going to be that into sex. If you feel that is your calling to marry someone of that history- be VERY sure you are prayed up, and VERy VERY sure you are not thinking with the wrong part of your anatomy-



U376977 -> RE: A woman with A PAST . . . (6/12/2008 4:39:04 PM)

Have you seen porn? The fact that she had sex with hundreds of men would not be an issue with me (if she is disease free), but I don't think I could marry her because I would ALWAYS feel like I could not compare to the stud horse males she had been with!!



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