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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 1:35:30 PM   
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I've realized lately that a baby over 8 lb being born natural is a "big deal" and getting more uncommon.


Isn't that sad?? A baby over 8 lbs is hardly abnormal and uncommon!!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 1:38:48 PM   
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Naturally as in vaginally or naturally as in with no pain meds?


Vaginally I guess. Either people get induced to avoid big babies, or c-sections because babies are "too big to fit".

Just one more thing that makes me a wierdo.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 1:41:25 PM   
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Isn't that sad?? A baby over 8 lbs is hardly abnormal and uncommon!!


It is sad. What I have noticed recently is that "shoulder dystocia" has become the catch-all reason to avoid big babies (but really to avoid liability )

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 1:45:22 PM   
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The worst thing about that is that there are tons of women out there--around thirty percent, I would guess--who honestly think they would not have been able to birth their babies on their own! And who go around saying how common and normal that is, which makes the next group of women all that more willing to believe that it actually takes life-threatening surgery to have a baby these days! And don't you dare question them because don't you know they would have DIED if their doctor had not intervened and you can't make them FEEL BAD for it...but the truth is, they were basically raped

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 1:53:28 PM   
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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:03:19 PM   
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I've got to make sure to ask my midwife if she is skilled in the delivery of babies with shoulder dystocia! Not that I'm anticipating that problem for myself, but I'd rather know that she knows what to do! It kills me that shoulder dystocia is now considered that 'life-threatening' that people would be induced early or given c-sections for an OB's guess that their baby is going to be big ... people, if we just learned the techniques for resolving it, it wouldn't be an issue!!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:05:28 PM   
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Isn't that sad?? A baby over 8 lbs is hardly abnormal and uncommon!!


It is sad. What I have noticed recently is that "shoulder dystocia" has become the catch-all reason to avoid big babies (but really to avoid liability )

My 8 lb baby was the easiest delivery. My 9 lb 10 oz baby got stuck. He did have shoulder dystocia. He was born at home. No pain meds at all. It was by far the most painful delivery. I screamed when they did the maneuver to get him out. However, if I had to it over again. I would much rather do it that way than by c-section.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:07:51 PM   
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Was that Ina May Gaskin's maneuver...the knees to shoulders thing?

I am amazed the docs rush to surgery instead of that maneuver many times. I mean, that maneuver is quicker and safer. Ah, well. If they could convince us all to have a zipper installed, I'm sure they would

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:10:10 PM   
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While I would allow nursing/midwifery students, I would NEVER allow a medical resident/student in with me for labour/birth. I hear ya there, Sarah!


Absolutely! I wouldn't mind nursing students, a training doula/midwife, or even a resident in the room (since if they are in residency they are actually planning to work in that field). However, there is no reason for med students to be there. DH is an MD - he went through med school (OB/GYN rotation and all). EVEN HE says there is no reason for med students to be there. He was disgusted by the sheer number of his classmates who looked at the OB/GYN rotation with a very perverse mentality.

If someone wants to be a plasic surgeon or something else, I don't see any reason they should be looking at my hoo ha.


Oh... and in regard to my mom - I think if I can get her to wait to head up until I'm in labor I may be safe since it will take her at least 12 hours! If not, I will put our doula in charge of mom-control!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:10:52 PM   
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I had a friend who (vaginally) delivered a near 13lb baby. The doctors weren't aware of the size of the baby before hand, but both my friend and the baby could have died (said the doctors, after the fact... not sure if there was a real medical reason or just "a big baby.")
The baby's shoulder was dislocated (or something) in order to get her out. Baby spent the first year of her life going to physio therapy to get back the use of that shoulder.

My question is: is a baby that size more "dangerous" to birth than a 9 or 10 lb baby?

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:15:11 PM   
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Was that Ina May Gaskin's maneuver...the knees to shoulders thing?

I am amazed the docs rush to surgery instead of that maneuver many times. I mean, that maneuver is quicker and safer. Ah, well. If they could convince us all to have a zipper installed, I'm sure they would

I don't know whose maneuver it was. All I remember is that his head would not come out and he was obviously stuck. They flipped me over on my back, I think they put my knees up. One reached in, the other pushed down with all her might on my pelvis and out he came. Oh! That was a terrible shock, but he pretty much popped right out.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:29:46 PM   
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There's a few techniques to manage shoulder dystocia. HERE is a good breakdown of them all.

The Gaskin Maneuver is actually getting the mom on all fours ... here's the information from a study on it:

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The most significant observations of the study were the negative findings. No still births or neonatal deaths were reported. Not a single infant suffered Erb palsy, either transient or permanent, and no newborns experienced seizures, hemorrhage, hypoxic-ischemic encephalopathy, cerebral palsy, or fractured clavicle. No patients required any tocolytic medication during labor. No vaginal, cervical, or uterine lacerations occurred. No women required transfusions. And no cases of postpartum, ileus or pulmonary embolus were reported. Overall, the maternal complication associated with the use of the “Gaskin Maneuver” was 1.2 percent (one case of postpartum hemorrhage, transfusion not required), and the neonatal complication rate was 4.9 percent. . . None of these patients required any additional maneuvers. . . Not only was the Gaskin Maneuver instrumental in relieving shoulder impact in every instance, it is also a non-invasive procedure requiring only a change of maternal position.” The average time needed to assume the position and complete the delivery was 2-3 minutes, with the longest reported interval being 6 minutes.
from HERE.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:32:23 PM   
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My question is: is a baby that size more "dangerous" to birth than a 9 or 10 lb baby?


A 13 lb baby seems like it would indeed by more dangerous to birth, although I'm not sure about the statistics!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:48:53 PM   
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It kills me that shoulder dystocia is now considered that 'life-threatening' that people would be induced early or given c-sections for an OB's guess that their baby is going to be big ...

With Jack we decided to be induced on my due date because of Paul being deployed and happening to be in town at that time. We knew that my history of going late meant that he wouldn't be there, so after much prayer we decided to go with induction on the due date. I wasn't worried about the induction not taking and having to have a c-sec. because I had been induced for medical reasons before, so I knew how my body would go (and it did the same thing as it had before). The day before the induction though the dr said that before he started anything he wanted to do a ultrasound to see how big the baby was and then he said if the baby was 9 lb he would NOT deliver him...he would require a c-sec. Well, guess what they forgot to do the next morning before starting the pit....and guess what he weighed...lol

funny note on baby's sizes...my 8lb baby wore larger size clothes then my 9lb baby...lol. It's all in how they carry their weight. Seriously, Jack looked more like he was about 7.5 lb....I even made them re-weigh him and made hubby watch....yup, 9lb.

Cynthia...that sounds PAINFUL!!!!!


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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 2:54:06 PM   
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Cynthia...that sounds PAINFUL!!!!!

Yes. I never scream about anything and am not loud during labor. I screamed at the top of my lungs.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:05:47 PM   
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Cynthia...that sounds PAINFUL!!!!!

Yes. I never scream about anything and am not loud during labor. I screamed at the top of my lungs.

i BET!!!!! WOW......just the way you described it made me quirm sitting here in my chair!!!!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:06:06 PM   
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LOL Sarah, aren't you glad they forgot to do the u/s??!?

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:06:52 PM   
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LOL Sarah, aren't you glad they forgot to do the u/s??!?

LOL....yup!!! I sure wasn't going to mention it to them!!!!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:10:45 PM   
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I don't blame you!!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:21:01 PM   
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I knew he had a chance to be big....Jake was 8lb even at 43 weeks..Emma was 7lb 14oz at nearly 43 weeks and Hannah was 3 weeks early and 7lb 4oz. If I had carried her to 40 weeks she very well could have been 9lb too just like Jack (yet these are the two of my kids that stop growing and just stay small forever...lol)

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:24:00 PM   
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i BET!!!!! WOW......just the way you described it made me quirm sitting here in my chair!!!!

I'm sorry. I hesitated to post that here, but someone asked what kind of maneuver the midwives did. I was fine. Mr.P was fine. He did end up in hospital, but he was certainly no worse off than if he had been born in the hospital. In fact, I really don't know what would have happened if we were in the hospital for the birth.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:44:57 PM   
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And don't you dare question them because don't you know they would have DIED if their doctor had not intervened and you can't make them FEEL BAD for it...but the truth is, they were basically raped


Please do not use that term, Jenn. There are a number of women on this forum who actually were raped, and a c-section, while you may not agree with it, does not compare with that kind of horror and violence.
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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 3:58:15 PM   
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Oh... and in regard to my mom - I think if I can get her to wait to head up until I'm in labor I may be safe since it will take her at least 12 hours! If not, I will put our doula in charge of mom-control!


I would still encourage you to not call your mom until the baby is born...but that's just me!

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 4:05:04 PM   
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Please do not use that term, Jenn. There are a number of women on this forum who actually were raped, and a c-section, while you may not agree with it, does not compare with that kind of horror and violence.

I disagree-these doctors, largely men, forced and coerced their way into the women's bodies basically for their own gratification. However, I will refrain from using the term in that way out of respect for you and others on this board.

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RE: Natural Childbirth-support and discussion - 1/23/2008 4:21:18 PM   
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And don't you dare question them because don't you know they would have DIED if their doctor had not intervened and you can't make them FEEL BAD for it...but the truth is, they were basically raped


Is your goal to make them feel bad? I understand that you feel strongly about the issue, but shouldn't your angst be against the Drs. and not the women?
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