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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/19/2008 11:15:02 PM
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WaitingforBoaz
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Deal or No Deal: Does not get along with their parents and has major issues with them.
This is a very difficult one...I would need to know the details to decide this one.
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DOND: Can be very selfish at times.
No Deal, because of the word very.
DOND: They have lots of friends of the opposite sex.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/20/2008 10:13:25 PM
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DOND: Has a tendancy to "Over Share" whether it be personal info or over honesty(things that are better left unsaid, I'm not advocating lying here)
Depends. Over share with me or with other people? If with me then deal. A man and wife should have no secrets from each other (except short term "birthday party planning" type secrets)
If with others, no deal. A man and wife must have secrets from the rest of the world
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Deal or No Deal: Does not get along with their parents and has major issues with them.
Probably no deal as family is important to me. When you marry someone you also marry their family. If the family has major problems then you'll have to deal with those problems until those problems are resolved. Exceptions may exist, I've just never met one yet.
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DOND: Can be very selfish at times.
As long as it's not too often, deal.
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DOND: They have lots of friends of the opposite sex.
As long as those friends become our friends or go away (or greatly diminish) after the marriage, deal
DOND: They will not try new foods. No matter how much you plead or beg or threaten.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 12:21:34 AM
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Deal or no deal: their parents hate you.
My secret dread . . . that would be pretty difficult. But if I knew that he was a true Christian, I'd have no problem marrying him. We'd just have to work out something on holidays and visits. *shudders*
Deal or No Deal: Is very untidey. Does not clean up after themselves.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 10:18:19 AM
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Untidey is a deal. Never cleaning up after themselves is a no deal. They have to clean at least every other week. LOL
I posted the "parents hate you" because I lived it. It was horrible and I will never do it again. However, my X-in-laws like me better now that I am no longer with their son. LOL The truth can be a powerful thing.
Deal or No deal: they are a neat freak who constantly tell you how to clean and organize.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 10:32:26 AM
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Untidey is a deal. Never cleaning up after themselves is a no deal. They have to clean at least every other week. LOL
I posted the "parents hate you" because I lived it. It was horrible and I will never do it again. However, my X-in-laws like me better now that I am no longer with their son. LOL The truth can be a powerful thing.
Deal or No deal: they are a neat freak who constantly tell you how to clean and organize.
No deal. My exhusband was like this and some. It did nothing but cause problems, especially when he wasn't willing to help out. If you want things to look perfect all the time, do it yourself. Don't sit there and demand I do it.
DOND: Has a family known for being "all about the blood" and not about the heart. (meaning family relations)
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 11:46:39 AM
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Deal or no deal: their parents hate you.
If they do not live near us and new hubby realizes the situation and looks on them with distain because of it. Deal.
If they live close and are constantly in our lives. No deal. I would be constantly trying to win them over and it would make all of our lives miserable.
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Deal or No Deal: Is very untidey. Does not clean up after themselves.
Deal; my hubby was not particularly untidy, but he never cleaned up after himself
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Deal or No deal: they are a neat freak who constantly tell you how to clean and organize.
First part deal; second part no deal.
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DOND: Has a family known for being "all about the blood" and not about the heart. (meaning family relations)
I love them more than anything now, but this was my Hubbys family. No one who marries into the family(at least back then, things have changed slightly) is considered family. Only blood members, like my children.
I was only made an honorary member, after they saw me care for John when he was terminal.
DOND: You love everything about them, but every once in a while, you just don't get them.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 12:46:20 PM
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Deal or no deal: their parents hate you.
If they do not live near us and new hubby realizes the situation and looks on them with distain because of it. Deal.
If they live close and are constantly in our lives. No deal. I would be constantly trying to win them over and it would make all of our lives miserable.
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Deal or No Deal: Is very untidey. Does not clean up after themselves.
Deal; my hubby was not particularly untidy, but he never cleaned up after himself
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Deal or No deal: they are a neat freak who constantly tell you how to clean and organize.
First part deal; second part no deal.
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DOND: Has a family known for being "all about the blood" and not about the heart. (meaning family relations)
I love them more than anything now, but this was my Hubbys family. No one who marries into the family(at least back then, things have changed slightly) is considered family. Only blood members, like my children.
I was only made an honorary member, after they saw me care for John when he was terminal.
DOND: You love everything about them, but every once in a while, you just don't get them.
LOL!!! Deal. Doesn't it usually work that way anyway? 
DOND: You can't agree if the toliet paper should be over or under.
Isn't it funny the things that bug us. I'm an over person and I used to be really picky about it, now I don't care, as long as he puts the seat down so my little doesn't fall in: Deal
Side note: about 4 months into my marriage I put up a little sign in the bathroom that said "when you completee, put down the seatee." My Hubby thought that was soooo funny!
DOND: Nothing ruffles their feathers, their mood is constant and predictable.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 12:55:33 PM
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DOND: Nothing ruffles their feathers, their mood is constant and predictable.
Deal. In fact, I would LOVE it! I'm not prone to wild mood swings either, so I think it would be a good fit for me.
DOND: Watches at least one reality TV show every night of the week.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 1:07:46 PM
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DOND: Watches at least one reality TV show every night of the week.
As long as it is not Rock of Love or Flavor of love. Or they force me to watch with them.
Deal or No Deal: They can (and will) talk for hours on topics that bore you to death such as cars or computers.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 1:14:35 PM
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DOND: Watches at least one reality TV show every night of the week.
Deal: I can get the dishes done and the kiddos in bed etc. and then we can spend time together.(unless of course he wants to do the dishes while watching TV)
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Deal or No Deal: They can (and will) talk for hours on topics that bore you to death such as cars or computers.
Deal: As long as he listens to me too. (and isn't offended if I fall asleep on occasion)
DOND: Insists on eating finger foods with a knife and fork.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 1:15:55 PM
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DOND: Watches at least one reality TV show every night of the week.
Deal: I can get the dishes done and the kiddos in bed etc. and then we can spend time together.(unless of course he wants to do the dishes while watching TV)
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Deal or No Deal: They can (and will) talk for hours on topics that bore you to death such as cars or computers.
Deal: As long as he listens to me too. (and isn't offended if I fall asleep on occasion)
DOND: Insists on eating finger foods with a knife and fork.
Deal. I have a tendency to do this too. *grin*
DOND: Likes to play a musical insturment but isn't very talented...or hardly at all.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 1:17:41 PM
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DOND: Insists on eating finger foods with a knife and fork.
Deal. Don't think I would find that annoying, just an odd little quirk.
DOND: Doesn't have a driver's license (and has no desire to ever get one)
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 1:19:26 PM
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DOND: Likes to play a musical insturment but isn't very talented...or hardly at all.
No deal. I had a former roommate who tried to play the tuba. I refused to be in the house when he had his lessons so I spent a lot of time going for walks in the park.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 1:28:07 PM
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DOND: Watches at least one reality TV show every night of the week.
Deal: I can get the dishes done and the kiddos in bed etc. and then we can spend time together.(unless of course he wants to do the dishes while watching TV)
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Deal or No Deal: They can (and will) talk for hours on topics that bore you to death such as cars or computers.
Deal: As long as he listens to me too. (and isn't offended if I fall asleep on occasion)
DOND: Insists on eating finger foods with a knife and fork.
Deal. I have a tendency to do this too. *grin*
DOND: Likes to play a musical insturment but isn't very talented...or hardly at all.
Deal: We could wear earplugs while he practices and take them out when He is ready to do a recital.
DOND: (I am running out of these BTW) Doesn't know their own strength and is overly rough when they play.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 11:11:24 PM
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DOND: (I am running out of these BTW) Doesn't know their own strength and is overly rough when they play.
Deal if he learned how to temper his strength because he didn't want to hurt me.
DOND: They're easy to pick on.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 11:34:18 PM
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Deal or no deal: their parents hate you.
Could be a problem. When you marry someone you also marry their family. If they have severe family problems that really stresses the marriage. I'd need more data though befroe casting a no deal.
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Deal or No Deal: Is very untidey. Does not clean up after themselves.
Probably no deal. While I am not spotless, I do believe in putting stuff back where it belongs.
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Deal or No deal: they are a neat freak who constantly tell you how to clean and organize.
We'll make an agreement. They can either have it neat and clean the way I do it, or they can do it the way they want it. Deal
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DOND: Has a family known for being "all about the blood" and not about the heart. (meaning family relations)
(I don't understand this one.)
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DOND: You love everything about them, but every once in a while, you just don't get them.
Deal of course. Any man who thinks he will get his wife all the time is delusional.
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DOND: You can't agree if the toliet paper should be over or under.
Deal. We can alternate, or hang two rolls, or if its a major deal for her, do it her way.
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DOND: Nothing ruffles their feathers, their mood is constant and predictable.
Deal. They'd be just like me!
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DOND: Watches at least one reality TV show every night of the week.
Probably no deal. I just couldn't stand to see them waste 7 hours of their life every week.
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Deal or No Deal: They can (and will) talk for hours on topics that bore you to death such as cars or computers.
Deal as long as they understand two simple words, and everything that entails. "My turn" (Mwahahahaha)
Else no deal.
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DOND: Insists on eating finger foods with a knife and fork.
Deal. You don't know where those fingers had been. It's best to stab them at least once before eating them.
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DOND: Likes to play a musical insturment but isn't very talented...or hardly at all.
Welcome to my world. I can whistle though! Deal
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DOND: Doesn't have a driver's license (and has no desire to ever get one)
Barring medical reasons this would have to be no deal. It sounds kind of like they don't want to pull their weight and help with family duties. I'm a husband not a cheauffer
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DOND: (I am running out of these BTW) Doesn't know their own strength and is overly rough when they play.
Deal. I'm not very fragile.
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DOND: They're easy to pick on.
Jumping up and down clasping my hands and yelling "Oh Goody". Deal
DOND Enjoys picking on you (in a nice, playful teasing way)
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/22/2008 11:48:42 PM
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DOND Enjoys picking on you (in a nice, playful teasing way)
Absolutely a deal. What a great show of affection. Ranks up there with the sweet, tender peck on the forehead.
DOND: Gets interested in something and stays up later than they should.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/23/2008 12:46:19 AM
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DOND: Gets interested in something and stays up later than they should.
Deal . . . but then we'll never get to bed (as I've been guilty of the same on more than one occasion).
Deal or No Deal: Is very much of a physical neat freak, bathes more than 3+xday, perfect hair, pressed, polished, pomaded, manicured . . .
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/23/2008 7:53:49 AM
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DOND: Gets interested in something and stays up later than they should.
Deal . . . but then we'll never get to bed (as I've been guilty of the same on more than one occasion).
Deal or No Deal: Is very much of a physical neat freak, bathes more than 3+xday, perfect hair, pressed, polished, pomaded, manicured . . .
No deal. I couldn't tolerate a man with more hair and skin care products than I have. Not to mention if he's spending all his time primping and prissing, then he's not spending time with me and the boys. How fun is that not? *grin*
DOND: Likes to house 'exotic' animals.
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/23/2008 9:39:45 AM
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DOND: Gets interested in something and stays up later than they should.
Deal. We can police each other to get to bed on time. Of course, I don't think getting to bed on time will be much of an issue once I'm married to her.
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Deal or No Deal: Is very much of a physical neat freak, bathes more than 3+xday, perfect hair, pressed, polished, pomaded, manicured . . .
No deal. If she can't come out and play and get her hair windblown without panicking about it it will put a real damper on our life together.
I want her to be able to look 'made up' and be comfortable, and to be casual (ponytail through baseball cap, flip flop sort of day) and be comfortable
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DOND: Likes to house 'exotic' animals.
No deal. If she likes exotic animals that much she can volunteer at the exotic feline rescue center which is about an hour away from here. They've got nearly 100 big cats.
Some animals were not designed to be pets.
DOND: Biblically opinionated (that is, holds strong opinions that they believe are supported by the bible)
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RE: Deal or No deal - 4/23/2008 10:44:44 AM
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DOND: Biblically opinionated (that is, holds strong opinions that they believe are supported by the bible)
Deal as long as we can agree to disagree. I really don't want to have to not wear makeup or to wear a hat every time I go to church.
DOND: Is strongly against you obtaining more education because they would feel intimidated by it.
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