|
Users viewing this topic:
none
|
|
Login  | |
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/29/2007 8:03:11 PM
|
|
|
SarahsDaughter
Posts: 204
Joined: 2/15/2006
Status: offline
|
quote:
It's very disheartening when I get on here and hear in every other post that I just didn't familiarize him with the potty early enough or that I didn't start things early enough or that I wasn't persistent enough or how wrong it is to wait until they are ready.
Sarah, I think people were speaking in general terms. I didn't think anyone was telling you personally that your eldest didn't start early enough. That each family has their own extenuating circumstances is a given I believe. I hope you're not taking people's posts personally as I can imagine how distressing that would be.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/29/2007 8:08:41 PM
|
|
|
dramagirl4God
Posts: 450
Joined: 12/5/2006
Status: offline
|
quote:
Seriously, in what way do you fear Peyton might react if his little bro' starts using the potty?
Lol, I don't know. He's likely to get jealous of Tyson taking over "his" territory, but on the other hand, it is my job to teach him not to be jealous. It just seems "wrong" to have the younger one potty train first. Then again, Tyson doesn't seem to be interested in Peyton's potty training anything, so maybe it's not an issue.
FYI: we have the plastic mini-potties (commodes) in the States, too. Peyton won't use one, so we use the smaller seat on the big potty, but then he needs help to do it.
_____________________________
Today is a new day, and I will choose to live it with joy!
~Heather
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/29/2007 8:32:26 PM
|
|
|
dustinsdreamer
Posts: 195
Joined: 11/21/2005
From: North Carolina (USA)
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: manda59
quote:
ORIGINAL: mydeclaration
When Nathaniel started training we had a small potty chair but he very quickly wanted to move to the big potty. I never have used a small child sized seat over ours and he hasn't had any issues. He is big for his age, though and physically big enough and strong enough to go without one.
My ds was tall for his age, and strong, but he had anxieties about falling in, and the special seat reassured him.
I thought he might feel that way too, but he absolutely refused to use them at church and at my mom's. I guess falling in either didn't occur to him or didn't scare him. Now the fan in the bathroom...that's a different story. 
I was mentally comparing him with children who start younger or are just smaller, I just didn't write it out here. They might not physically be able to use a big potty without the smaller seat.
About the plastic covers that can be used for outings and such, where can I find those??? I looked all over the place in every store I could think of and I never could find them. It would have saved me from stressing about accidents in a store so much. I'd like to use them with Seth when he is first out of diapers.
I know it sounds hard to believe, but really it's true. Walmart, Kmart, Target: none of those. I even asked employees and they couldn't help me.
_____________________________
~Crystal
*formerly known as mydeclaration*
I'm not as new as it appears. All my posts have disappeared in my absence. :)
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/29/2007 9:46:37 PM
|
|
|
AspieHome
Posts: 19
Joined: 3/17/2007
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: peculiar_lady2
quote:
They are actually "ready" as soon as they can sit confidently on their own and sit still for a little while.
I totally disagree there. You haven't been down the road I have with this...but I am also not going to fight with you over that
"Ready" means ready to start - whether it takes a couple of weeks, a couple of months, or a few years. It means just 'ready' to sit there and see what happens, with it not mattering at all if nothing does. I don't really understand why you'd disagree with that. [/quote]
I do if a child is on th autistic spectrum anywhere. Our son had been allowed to direct his own potty training. He was 4 when he finally "got it". Hubbie was determined this would not happen with DD. She was showing "signs of readiness" at 27 months. Within 2 weeks of our gently encouraging her to simply sit on the potty for one brief period of time each day, she was a basket case!
We did not push anything, just calmly seated her on her beautiful potty seat every morning. She tinkled once. We said good job calmly- nothing over the top. The next day as we set her on the seat she started screaming, rocking and biting herself. Hubbie changed his mind quickly! We got rid of that potty seat that morning and did not ger another one till she was 3 and requested it. She is now trying on her own timeframe. When she asks for big girl pants, she gets them. When she wants to sit on the potty and play with water, she does. If she accidentally goes on the potty, I say nothing, but get her a mini M&M. She is slowly getting used to it but is still nowhere near being finished.
A wonderful Christian lady I know has raised 9 children. She was a firm but loving disciplinarian. All of her children turned out beautifully. When I asked her for advice about my daughter, she said "If a child over the age of 3 is still having accidents, it is a neurological issue, not a discipline issue. No child likes to be wet or stinky. That is one of the first signs a child should have a full neurological evaluation." She should know- her hubbie is a doctor and some of her children have mild forms of autism. I feel better. It is no fault of mine that my daughter has potty problems. She will go when she is ready- not when we are.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 2:15:35 AM
|
|
|
manda59
Posts: 5742
Joined: 9/22/2005
From: Hampshire, UK
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: dramagirl4God
quote:
Seriously, in what way do you fear Peyton might react if his little bro' starts using the potty?
Lol, I don't know. He's likely to get jealous of Tyson taking over "his" territory, but on the other hand, it is my job to teach him not to be jealous. It just seems "wrong" to have the younger one potty train first.
Well, since he isn't using the potty it may not be an issue! In any case, you could get Tyson his own potty (ie plastic chamberpot thing), so that he's not using Peyton's.
In any case, you could always say to him that it's fine that he's not always that interested, but that it's Tyson's turn to try now. And basically just sit Tyson on occasionally, in a casual way at teeth cleaning time etc.
You might even find that Peyton's interest and willingness increases as he sees Tyson having a go.
_____________________________
"I love Manda's suggestion to just laugh most of it off.."
Tinkerbell, September 2008
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 2:17:26 AM
|
|
|
manda59
Posts: 5742
Joined: 9/22/2005
From: Hampshire, UK
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: mydeclaration
About the plastic covers that can be used for outings and such, where can I find those??? I looked all over the place in every store I could think of and I never could find them. It would have saved me from stressing about accidents in a store so much. I'd like to use them with Seth when he is first out of diapers.
I know it sounds hard to believe, but really it's true. Walmart, Kmart, Target: none of those. I even asked employees and they couldn't help me.
Do you mean plastic liners for the portable plastic potty? Or something else?
_____________________________
"I love Manda's suggestion to just laugh most of it off.."
Tinkerbell, September 2008
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 8:42:54 AM
|
|
|
SarahsDaughter
Posts: 204
Joined: 2/15/2006
Status: offline
|
quote:
I'm not surprised that a number of children over the age of 2 don't like sitting on the potty (for the first time). It comes at a time in their development when their awareness of their own "separateness" from mum and dad increases, and their independence and autonomy comes into play. They tend to not "want" to do lots of things at that age.
Yes. I agree manda.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 9:48:19 AM
|
|
|
dustinsdreamer
Posts: 195
Joined: 11/21/2005
From: North Carolina (USA)
Status: offline
|
The covers that some people use over cloth diapers. I've heard they either use the same thing over the underwear or something specifically for older children.
Sorry, I was a bit too vague there.
_____________________________
~Crystal
*formerly known as mydeclaration*
I'm not as new as it appears. All my posts have disappeared in my absence. :)
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 9:49:14 AM
|
|
|
PrincessDonna
Posts: 10319
Joined: 4/11/2005
From: Cow country, Upstate NY
Status: offline
|
I fought with my first for over a year. I should not have pushed him. It only served to frustrate both of us. 
My second is a year younger than my first. I was resigned to the thought of diapers for another year after we started thinking about training him...and he did it himself in a day or two!
Both boys ended up training at the same time...Noah was 3.5, Nick was 2.5. Noah (7) still needs pull-ups at night. His bladder just cannot hold it and limiting drinks after LUNCH made no difference. So...we don't stress about it and he just wears a pull-up to bed.
Haven't started truly training my 2 yo girl. I was hopeful that she would train earlier because she's a girl and have sat her on the potty regularly since she was 18 months or so. She's managed to pee once accidentally, but hasn't done it again since. Usually, she'll tell me she has to go, sits for about a minute (and it's impossible to get her to sit longer...I've tried everything), stands up, and then promptly pees on the floor. 
_____________________________
I will praise you, O Lord, among the nations;
I will sing of you among the peoples.
For great is your love, reaching to the heavens;
your faithfulness reaches to the skies.
~Psalm 57:9-10~
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 10:24:45 AM
|
|
|
dustinsdreamer
Posts: 195
Joined: 11/21/2005
From: North Carolina (USA)
Status: offline
|
That would be what I'm looking for. I guess I'll have to order them online. It just seems strange to not be able to find them in stores!
Thanks!
_____________________________
~Crystal
*formerly known as mydeclaration*
I'm not as new as it appears. All my posts have disappeared in my absence. :)
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 4:09:33 PM
|
|
|
LorriLea
Posts: 1
Joined: 3/30/2007
Status: offline
|
in regards to the younger being trained before the first) My 17 mth. old baby is potty trained. my two and half daughter still is not. I think it up to the child if they are going to train or not. good news is after younger got the hang of it, older sister became more interested. I say go ahead and train whoever wants to be trained. Also while training my eldest daughter (8) we had a house fire,and had to move for six months while our house was reparied. It didn't hold up her training at all. Best of luck to everyone.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 5:43:00 PM
|
|
|
dramagirl4God
Posts: 450
Joined: 12/5/2006
Status: offline
|
In response then, did other mom's potty train around new babies, moves, or other changes? Lol, I'm not normally so by the book with things, I think I just feel a little out of my element with the potty training. No, sorry, a LOT out of my element.
My beloved and I discussed everything, and have decided to get Tyson a potty to see what happens!!! I am a little nervous as I kinda feel like we've been unsuccessful with Peyton, so starting over is scary.
Sarah, you and the others who've had children 2 and 3 and just getting potty trained are biiiig encouragers to me. I did start the thread for potty training parents to get encouragement and tips!
_____________________________
Today is a new day, and I will choose to live it with joy!
~Heather
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 6:05:10 PM
|
|
|
pbaribeault
Posts: 1086
Joined: 4/29/2005
Status: offline
|
I got "gerber vinyl pants" at wal-mart (in Canada). The package is small, and it was near the cloth diapers and swimwear diapers... not at all near the panties/underwear.
Photo here:
http://www.pottytrainingconcepts.com/GBV-6PCK-G-z.html
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/30/2007 10:07:37 PM
|
|
|
dustinsdreamer
Posts: 195
Joined: 11/21/2005
From: North Carolina (USA)
Status: offline
|
My three yo was potty trained just a little over a month before we moved. It didn't bother him a bit.
About three weeks into his wearing underwear we were out and about a lot as I was looking for and at rental houses.
Thanks for the link for the gerber pants. Maybe I just have a blind spot for the things. Ha. I'll do another more in depth tour of the merchandise before I order them online. I just can't imagine them not carrying them in store. That would just be silly.
_____________________________
~Crystal
*formerly known as mydeclaration*
I'm not as new as it appears. All my posts have disappeared in my absence. :)
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/31/2007 1:21:49 PM
|
|
|
AspieHome
Posts: 19
Joined: 3/17/2007
Status: offline
|
"We then tried the mini M&M's and she would run through the house with her little treasure and get so excited then choose someone to give it to...LOL "
LOL... that is so sweet!
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/31/2007 6:35:07 PM
|
|
|
nicole6598
Posts: 4018
Joined: 11/3/2006
From: Australia
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: mydeclaration
That would be what I'm looking for. I guess I'll have to order them online. It just seems strange to not be able to find them in stores!
Thanks!
That is strange you can't find any, have you tried the local supermarket? or have you tried asking target or kmart or something if they will order some in for you? what about trying the drug store too.
They are all over the place here in Australia
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 3/31/2007 6:39:22 PM
|
|
|
nicole6598
Posts: 4018
Joined: 11/3/2006
From: Australia
Status: offline
|
Heather I have read and heard from other parents that starting something new just before a big change is not good for some little ones, especially those who are more aware of what is going on, which is why i started Grace training on the toilet atleast 9 mths before this baby comes, that way she should be in a good pattern when baby arrives and if she happens to revert back it won't be so hard to get her back to normal again.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 4/10/2007 4:55:46 PM
|
|
|
SaraSchlick
Posts: 2
Joined: 4/10/2007
From: Nebraska
Status: offline
|
I've been glued to this thread!! There is such great info here. Thank you to the experienced mommies who are willing to share their ideas!
I do have one question. Could it be possible that my 14 month old son is ready to start trying the potty? He has started to "complain" about wet diapers lately, and has even started stripping off his clothes and diaper as a signal he wants to be changed. If I ask him if he needs his diaper changed, he starts heading to his room (where the changing table is). To me, it sounds like he's ready, at least ready enough to start sitting on the potty and trying it out. What do you think? I wasn't planning on starting him on the potty until about 18 months, but if this is my opportunity, I should jump on it. I was fully potty trained at 18 months, maybe my son has the same idea!
Also, do any of you have a recommendation for a potty chair? We have a really tiny bathroom and was considering getting just one of those seats that sits on the big toilet to save room. Anyone have any experience with these? Or is it best to get an actual potty chair?
Thanks in advance for your words of wisdom!
Sara
|
|
|
|
|
RE: The Potty Training Thread - 4/10/2007 5:52:00 PM
|
|
|
manda59
Posts: 5742
Joined: 9/22/2005
From: Hampshire, UK
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: SaraSchlick
I do have one question. Could it be possible that my 14 month old son is ready to start trying the potty? He has started to "complain" about wet diapers lately, and has even started stripping off his clothes and diaper as a signal he wants to be changed. If I ask him if he needs his diaper changed, he starts heading to his room (where the changing table is). To me, it sounds like he's ready, at least ready enough to start sitting on the potty and trying it out. What do you think? I wasn't planning on starting him on the potty until about 18 months, but if this is my opportunity, I should jump on it. I was fully potty trained at 18 months, maybe my son has the same idea!
Also, do any of you have a recommendation for a potty chair? We have a really tiny bathroom and was considering getting just one of those seats that sits on the big toilet to save room. Anyone have any experience with these? Or is it best to get an actual potty chair?
Thanks in advance for your words of wisdom!
I cannot see that it's going to hurt to give it a try! So long as it's casual and you don't apply any pressure, not even positive pressure.
Btw I personally would not advocate the trainer seat at first. Having the plastic potty (as in chamberpot type of thing) means they can have their feet on the floor, and they then feel more in control than being off the ground. We had a tiny bathroom when our children were small - a plastic potty doesn't take up much room! We actually had several plastic potties around the house, and one for the car. It was only when the children were well and truly happily using the potty that we started trying the trainer seat on the loo.
_____________________________
"I love Manda's suggestion to just laugh most of it off.."
Tinkerbell, September 2008
|
|
|
|
|
Forum Tools
Printable Version
) Just imagine when chamberpots were china!! 
