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Fellowship of Sufferings
By Wendy Pope
"My goal is to know Him and the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death." Philippians (HCSB)
I remember it well. Last, year my pastor was preaching from today's key verse. In the days to follow, I began asking God to help me identify with Him in His suffering. I wanted to know what this verse meant. Well, let me warn you, be careful what you pray for because God answers prayers.
I don't know what I expected when I prayed. Maybe I thought God would write the answer in the sky or send me an email, letting me know my prayer had been answered. Maybe I would hear the bells ringing and choirs singing in heaven. I wanted, after a brief period of suffering (I am not big on pain), to hear from Him that I had achieved His fellowship of suffering. It did not happen like that at all.
The prayers I prayed concerning the fellowship of suffering were over a year ago. The prayer was answered on a hard carpeted bench in a skating rink, lit only by strobe lights and a disco ball reflecting on the skate floor. The fellowship I shared was with a heart-broken six-year old boy with a tear stained face. The boy was my son.
Several days of poor choices, bad behavior, and unacceptable grades led my husband and me to make some tough decisions concerning our son. After much prayer and discussion, we decided the best plan of action was to remove the blessing of a free elementary skate night if his behavior did not improve. He was given notice and had one week to show us he deserved the blessing. Oh, how my heart broke when my caller id displayed the school's name and I realized
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Through the Holy Spirit's prompting, I did not sit with the other mothers. Nor did I converse with teachers. I took my son's hand and walked with him to the opposite side of the rink and sat down. Tears begin to flow from his eyes and roll down his cheeks. I swallowed hard and struggled to hold back my tears as he crawled in my lap for comfort. In a brief moment as I held my heart-broken son and watched my joyfully elated daughter skate, a presence came over me, a knowing…a knowing of the fellowship of suffering.
God sees us, all His children. He holds us close when we have gone astray, made bad choices, or have a heart full of poor motives. He sits with us through His gentle discipline while watching His other children enjoy the benefits and blessings of living an obedient life. The experience I shared with my Heavenly Father is one I will never forget. It was a brief moment because I know He loves me too much to allow that knowing to stay with me for too long, the pain was so intense.
He is with you to share the benefits and blessings of living an obedient life. He is there with you, as a loving Father, to hold you through the discipline of disobedience and bad choices. He only disciplines those He loves. What a blessing to be loved that much!
Dear Heavenly Father, let me crawl in Your lap today and allow Your loving discipline to fall on me as confess my sins. Thank You for loving me enough to help me to live an obedient life. Keep me close to You, feeling Your warmth as we walk through the discipline together. Be my stronghold and strong tower today. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Out of the Mouths of Babes by Wendy Pope
Mining for Gold in the Heart of Your Child by Renee Swope
The Mommy Manuel by Barbara Curtis
Thank God for loving you enough to discipline you. Forgive yourself for disobeying God. Record lessons you have learned through God's discipline. Share the lessons with someone who is struggling.
Can I recognize God's discipline in my life?
What are areas of weakness in my life?
What are areas of strength in my life?
How could I use my experiences to help another person?
Jeremiah 29:11,"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."(NIV)
Psalm 18:2, "The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold." (NIV)
Psalm 119:50, "My comfort in my suffering is this: Your promise preserves my life." (NIV)
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