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How should I... - 7/7/2008 11:47:20 PM   
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How should I let a woman know I am interested in her without seeming too up front about it? Especially when there's no groups for someone my age (I am 29), and I only see her in church? Advice?

Just a side note, the women I am interested in are full of the Holy Spirit, and their lives just reflect that.

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RE: How should I... - 7/8/2008 1:06:47 AM   
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"Hey, you wanna go out for coffee sometime?"

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RE: How should I... - 7/8/2008 5:09:29 PM   
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"Hey, you wanna go out for coffee sometime?"


That is perfect.

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RE: How should I... - 7/8/2008 11:09:46 PM   
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Or even, after church services, "Hey, I've been thinking about trying such-and-such new place, but I hate eating by myself. Would you like to check it out too?"

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RE: How should I... - 7/9/2008 12:53:51 AM   
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Do you have lunch plans?

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RE: How should I... - 7/9/2008 1:11:21 AM   
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Hey, that going out for coffee bit is a great start. Relax, be yourself, and have fun.
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RE: How should I... - 7/9/2008 6:23:27 PM   
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So, just approach someone in the foyer of the church after service and ask if she would like to go for lunch or coffee?

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RE: How should I... - 7/9/2008 6:26:21 PM   
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Yep.


Course, you might want to start with a smile and a HI

Maybe start off talking about the topic of the sermon ... add the invite to see if she'd like to continue the discussion.

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RE: How should I... - 7/9/2008 11:28:28 PM   
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So, just approach someone in the foyer of the church after service and ask if she would like to go for lunch or coffee?


I would not respond positively to this approach. I would compare it to a sales call. Never say yes and hang up as soon as possible.
You could chat with her a few times, sit with her in church and then approach the idea of a date/lunch. I think you would get a warmer response.

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RE: How should I... - 7/10/2008 1:03:10 AM   
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If you have never talked to her before, or only once or twice, then find her after church and just make conversation. After you have chatted a few times, THEN ask her to coffee or lunch.

Or, alternatively, if there is a coffee bar at your church, offer to buy her one.

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